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How can I get her to be a better person and dress appropriately?  She has a terrible reputation in town.  In addition to being intimate with certain types of people god would not condone. 

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48 minutes ago, Amyhoff said:

How can I get her to be a better person and dress appropriately?  She has a terrible reputation in town.  In addition to being intimate with certain types of people god would not condone. 

Sounds like bad parenting to me. 

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How old?  Different things are appropriate at different ages (i.e. 15 vs. 25).  But with my daughter I always took the attitude that it's her life and she is the one that has to live it, not me.  I concentrated to my utmost in making sure she acquired all the right tools she would need to make wise decisions about how she would do it.

 

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1 hour ago, Jillheil said:

Sounds like bad parenting to me. 

That’s rude

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44 minutes ago, other one said:

To start with take the problem to the Lord.   Pray for her at least three times a day and always be there for her when she needs you.  Don't condone any of the actions you speak of, but don't put her out either.

I will pray that the Holy Spirit mess with her life to expose her to her folly.

I’ve praying around the clock for years. I’ve even had her sit with priests and nuns to help her change her ways. 
thank you for your prayers. 

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23 minutes ago, FJK said:

How old?  Different things are appropriate at different ages (i.e. 15 vs. 25).  But with my daughter I always took the attitude that it's her life and she is the one that has to live it, not me.  I concentrated to my utmost in making sure she acquired all the right tools she would need to make wise decisions about how she would do it.

 

Started when she was 15. Now 21. Yes sometimes I lost my cool when she would would come home looking disheveled. It’s just enough already. 

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25 minutes ago, Amyhoff said:

Started when she was 15. Now 21. Yes sometimes I lost my cool when she would would come home looking disheveled. It’s just enough already. 

She's an adult now, it's up to her to decide what kind of person she wants to be during her life, just make sure she knows that is what she's doing and that she's the one that has to decide it, no one else can do it for her.

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1 hour ago, FJK said:

She's an adult now, it's up to her to decide what kind of person she wants to be during her life, just make sure she knows that is what she's doing and that she's the one that has to decide it, no one else can do it for her.

But she’s making bad choices with bad people. And breaking commandments without a care in the world. I’m afraid she’s going to learn her lesson too late. 

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