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Does the bride know that's where the bachelor party is happening? If I were in that situation, I'd be right ticked off...

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Society, teaches us this is a normal part of life and a part of manhood and right path into becoming a husband today. However, I disagree with what society teaches.

I was shocked when my best friend got married and his brother took him to; us to a strip club because they were very relgious people and friends growing up.

since were all there we caved in to temptation in went in with a lot of stand-off-ishes feelings because we knew what we were about to embark on was unfamilar tertotrity to us all. For those who still felt we did was wrong we admittedly confessed when we got home to our parents or our spouses and I know the man getting married confessed to his wife because he felt like his marriage was now impure.

I have never ever been back to a place like that nor do I wish to be anywhere near there.

this sinful situation has forever haunted me because I can not get rid of the vizual images out of my head and that was over 20 years ago. some days are better that ohters but there are days the fantazys of that event will ever will remain. I wish I had never enteed that strip club because when I pass a club in my daily journeys at times it now makes it easier for me to want revist something I knew was wrong but my flesh is weak help lord. One step and one day at time to stay away from this.

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you are young do you have any children? and are you planning on having any?

If i was in this situation i would want to think about the future?


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GOD;TheFather,Son and Holy SPirit can help us in all things. The Holy Spirit is also GOd and HE lives in those who are HIs and HE will work to purify and dicern over us and live in us and help us to not only pray for our needs, to pray in the SPirit for our mates and others needs.

Those who are not born again in the Holy Spirit don't have the same power in them of GOd , just someone who just turns off and on when they "feel" like doing right or wrong etc. Is not being born again and living in the SPIrit , the True Holy SPIrit of GOD. We need to have HIS Holy SPIrit in us to be bron again or we can fall for anything.

Draw near to GOd adn HE will draw near to you.

It is a good time to as GOd to live in you and to come live in your home and pray continually and see God work in your life.

FOr the one still struggling with iamges of past sin..

Praying to erase such visual images,and hating what is evil and to pray to be clean and to see everything as GOD sees it,

through HIs eyes life is right again Rebuke it when it come to your mind in JEus NAme and DO NOT entertain the thoughts.

Let the Holy Spirit in you help you know what most to pray for.

One must pick their master,it will either be GOD or sin.

May GOd strengthen you and may you and your huband find unity in God together.

Love is patient, love is kind, love does not look after its own intrests first.

GOd is clear about what LOVE IS.

Ill pray for you,

elkie

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http://www.porn-free.org and on the site also http://www.porn-free.org/spousehelp_christian.htm

Dear sister in the Lord,

Tonight after I woke for awhile, you and your hubby were on my heart adn mind. I was prayinf for you adn for him to not go to that club and for God to intervene.

Then, I remebered a site that would be so much help to you right now ! It is the porn-free.org site. This hubby adn wife Christian team are dedicated to things as this for overcomming for our marraiges in Christ. Thier information is really helpful!

Please do take the time to go read it, I know it will help you and you were on my heart for a reason tonight!

Lord, I pray you please fill my sister inthe Holy SPIrit and speak to her heart , giving her your strength adn assuarnce and the words that she needs to say to her hubby. Father I ask you to put a hedge of thorns around her hubby and that all that is not of you will be repelled towards him and he will not be able to go the path of any way against You , oh Lord. That he wil see clearly the path of Yours JEsus and that their family will be One in You Lord and walk in your ways all thier lives. I rebuke the spirit of lust and lies of satan himself from this husband and fomr this family and fomr their home and hearts and minds in the Holy Name od Jesus Christ! Oh Lord, may your word fins good ground in her hubbys heart and may he call upon You JEsus for salvation, may he be filled in the h(Oly SPIrit and may his name be written in the book of life. PLease Lord bles this faithful wife who loves you and her family. Bless their litle son and keep him free from this problem that it nbever touch hid life as it has his fathers and that his father be overcome in brokeness in you Lord and You remold him in Your Dream and WIll for his life.

May You Oh Father bring friends in You to all of them.

May your angels reside in theri home adn around it, protecting them from all that is not of You , Father.

PLease come to their homea dn make your home in their Hearts Oh HOly SPIrit and I thiank you for living in those who love You and for being God who lives in us and helps us .

May the praise of You Father Son and Holy SPirit fill their home andlife the spirit of heaviness there.

Bless Your Holy Name JEsus, oh Sweet JEsus, our Lord and only Saviour.

In Then NAME of the Father Son and Holy Ghost, I thank Thee Precious Lord GOd.

BLessings and prayers over you dear sister and be of good cheer for Jesus has aready o9vercome the world and HE WHO is IN You is stronger that he who is in the world and wil bind the devil from your life.

May you find some praise music ot play in your home for you to sing to your wee son and lift the heaviness and bring joy to your dear heart sister.

Love and prayers in JEsus CHrist Our Lord and Saviour,

elkie :noidea:


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(please excuesmy clumbsy finger typing it nto too good tonight. But, prais God for HIs Love and prayers are for you! GOd is with us ,who can be against us?!)

Lord thank you for lifting the sirit of heaviness in their home and brings your Love adn assurance, mercy and Grace, amen

GOd bless! (and HE will!!) ( you know, the devil hats it when you find out the power you have in JESUS NAME and it has to flee! We are overcomers and that is what we do in JESUS ! )

Blessings and peace ot your and your family,

elkie


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Does the bride know that's where the bachelor party is happening? If I were in that situation, I'd be right ticked off...

I agree!

I never quite got the mentality of going to a strip club for a stag do- I don't quite understand the "I'm going to marry the woman I love, the woman I want to spend the rest of my life with.........so I'll spend the night before with naked women."

If I was getting married (and I pray I will, one day) and my husband-to-be was planning to spend the night before (or whatever) at a strip club I'd be seriously re-considering my choice of man!

A while ago a lap/table dancing club was opened in my home town (sickenly called Angels) and everytime I go past it I feel physically sick. I avoid going past it whenever I can but sometimes I have no choice.

I'm going to stop myself now as if not I'll be writing a ridiculously long post as this is something I feel very strongly about!

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When you go by that strip club curse it and that they wouldnt make any money .but ask for the people to be saved. You have the power to close this place down.

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Christians SHOULD NOT go to those kind of places. If he's already married to you, but still going to a strip club, it could mean only one thing. It's not about he's loving you or God or not, it's about he's having a mental problem.

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darkest red, abbershay suggested you curse it as you drive by. not a bad idea asking God to prevent the business from being prosperous! BUT, ironically, i was going to suggest something opposite, at least for the employees. when you drive past it PRAY for God to touch each of those girls lives, that they might turn away from their lifestyle and embrace Christ.

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