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If you want to tithe out of your own check that you earned then you certainly have rights to do that. But you must face the issue and be honest with your husband. Deception is never the right answer. Simply tell him that you feel you ought to be able to tithe out of your own work. I think that he will eventually see this. Seek the Lord. He will help and intervene.

God bless you.

Thank you for your honesty

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No where in the New Testament are we commanded to "tithe".

But we ARE commanded to "obey" our husbands.

Stop lieing to your husband this second.

So then is it your contention also that tithing is a choice and the Old Testament bares no meaning.

No, that is not my contention.

I dont think debating tithing is relevant in this topic now.

Rather the obedience to her husband.

There are several topics on tithing already started, you can read my beliefs there.

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We can start yet another "tithe or not to tithe" thread or we can focus on lieing and being disobedient to your husband.

Jesus said to give what you can from your heart.

Your husband in Head of the house and he says you can't give so by obeying your husbands wishes, you are obeying God as well.

My question would now be, when is my husbands commands more important than Gods, must their be a sacrifice on my part. You have a point I should tell him what I am doing, but I will not sacrifice my obedience to God first.

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I'm not Giaour, Stevie, but I'd like to share my experience with tithing. :24: When my husband and I first got married we were so broke, barely making it. We both felt like we didn't have enough money to tithe. After our pastor preached a sermon about it(he only does it once a year)we started tithing. It was hard at first, and sometimes we had to go without, but we did it anyway. Boy, did God prosper us! And how! We can actually see God's supernatural guidance in my husband's career. It's amazing! I'm NOT one of those give to get people or one of those that believe in some kind of prosperity theology. Like I said, all I have is my experience. Everyone's situation's different because God's trying to teach us in our individual lives something different. At that moment for my husband and me, He showed us that if we waited til we thought we'd have enough, we'd never have enough, and that it's all His anyway. What that all boils down to is this: Is not tithing a sin, I don't know, but I know I'd rather have to light a candle and go get water out the bayou than not tithe!

But ya still gotta be honest about it. :24:

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I'm not Giaour, Stevie, but I'd like to share my experience with tithing. :24: When my husband and I first got married we were so broke, barely making it. We both felt like we didn't have enough money to tithe. After our pastor preached a sermon about it(he only does it once a year)we started tithing. It was hard at first, and sometimes we had to go without, but we did it anyway. Boy, did God prosper us! And how! We can actually see God's supernatural guidance in my husband's career. It's amazing! I'm NOT one of those give to get people or one of those that believe in some kind of prosperity theology. Like I said, all I have is my experience. Everyone's situation's different because God's trying to teach us in our individual lives something different. At that moment for my husband and me, He showed us that if we waited til we thought we'd have enough, we'd never have enough, and that it's all His anyway. What that all boils down to is this: Is not tithing a sin, I don't know, but I know I'd rather have to light a candle and go get water out the bayou than not tithe!

But ya still gotta be honest about it. :24:

Thank you, that is the way I see it. And yes you are correct I will tell him.

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I'm not Giaour, Stevie, but I'd like to share my experience with tithing. :24: When my husband and I first got married we were so broke, barely making it. We both felt like we didn't have enough money to tithe. After our pastor preached a sermon about it(he only does it once a year)we started tithing. It was hard at first, and sometimes we had to go without, but we did it anyway. Boy, did God prosper us! And how! We can actually see God's supernatural guidance in my husband's career. It's amazing! I'm NOT one of those give to get people or one of those that believe in some kind of prosperity theology. Like I said, all I have is my experience. Everyone's situation's different because God's trying to teach us in our individual lives something different. At that moment for my husband and me, He showed us that if we waited til we thought we'd have enough, we'd never have enough, and that it's all His anyway. What that all boils down to is this: Is not tithing a sin, I don't know, but I know I'd rather have to light a candle and go get water out the bayou than not tithe!

But ya still gotta be honest about it. :24:

Thank you, that is the way I see it. And yes you are correct I will tell him.

Oh, good for you, sister! :24: You're doing the right thing! :24: Hopefully, later, your husband will thank you for your faithful giving to the Lord!

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I'm not Giaour, Stevie, but I'd like to share my experience with tithing. :24: When my husband and I first got married we were so broke, barely making it. We both felt like we didn't have enough money to tithe. After our pastor preached a sermon about it(he only does it once a year)we started tithing. It was hard at first, and sometimes we had to go without, but we did it anyway. Boy, did God prosper us! And how! We can actually see God's supernatural guidance in my husband's career. It's amazing! I'm NOT one of those give to get people or one of those that believe in some kind of prosperity theology. Like I said, all I have is my experience. Everyone's situation's different because God's trying to teach us in our individual lives something different. At that moment for my husband and me, He showed us that if we waited til we thought we'd have enough, we'd never have enough, and that it's all His anyway. What that all boils down to is this: Is not tithing a sin, I don't know, but I know I'd rather have to light a candle and go get water out the bayou than not tithe!

But ya still gotta be honest about it. :24:

Amen billie! That echoes our story! :24::24::24:

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God bless you Stevie.... :P

I now how hard it is to be in this place you are in... :24:

May God give you the perfect wisdom and word you need to follow Him.... :21:

And I also pray for your husband that He restore His relationship with the :24: Lord and with you... :)

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marriage is a type of the relationship between Christ and the Church. The husband is the type of Christ, and insofar as he is disobient then he is being a bad picture of him. However, this does not give the wife the right to lie to the husband. What are you saying in your typology if you hide things from you husband...that the church should hide things from Christ?

If you truly believe that you are to tithe, then you have to say so.

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Stevie,

I'm real glad to hear you have decided to tell your husband :emot-crying:

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