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It's not going to get any better until you exercise respect and show love and forgiveness toward your parents. Otherwise it will stay the same and even escalate.

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Love and respect I know thats the key but puttin it in action is the most hardest thing to do!!!

I don't feel any connection between us it the same with all my family. I am the outsider that gets the out brusts takin on me. Which honestly I don't deserve. Like this mornin I wanted to check somethin on the TV and my little bro took the biggest fit out on me when he wasn;t even watchin the TV. Therefore because of him doin this I was the worst in the world and was lft out in the hail stones for 30 mins. Do I deserve this????


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Love and respect I know thats the key but puttin it in action is the most hardest thing to do!!!

I don't feel any connection between us it the same with all my family. I am the outsider that gets the out brusts takin on me. Which honestly I don't deserve. Like this mornin I wanted to check somethin on the TV and my little bro took the biggest fit out on me when he wasn;t even watchin the TV. Therefore because of him doin this I was the worst in the world and was lft out in the hail stones for 30 mins. Do I deserve this????

How old is your brother? You were literally left outside in a hail storm for 30 minutes? :huh:

It's hard for us to say what you "deserve", because honestly...we only know your side of the story. You're giving us very little information to work with here. Again, are your parents Christians? What kinds of things do they do specifically that you consider are undeserved? Are you accusing them of abuse? Also, what kinds of things do you contribute to the family? Answering these will assist us in what type of advice is most appropriate. Thanks. :)


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Love and respect I know thats the key but puttin it in action is the most hardest thing to do!!!

I don't feel any connection between us it the same with all my family. I am the outsider that gets the out brusts takin on me. Which honestly I don't deserve. Like this mornin I wanted to check somethin on the TV and my little bro took the biggest fit out on me when he wasn;t even watchin the TV. Therefore because of him doin this I was the worst in the world and was lft out in the hail stones for 30 mins. Do I deserve this????

How old is your brother? You were literally left outside in a hail storm for 30 minutes? :huh:

It's hard for us to say what you "deserve", because honestly...we only know your side of the story. You're giving us very little information to work with here. Again, are your parents Christians? What kinds of things do they do specifically that you consider are undeserved? Are you accusing them of abuse? Also, what kinds of things do you contribute to the family? Answering these will assist us in what type of advice is most appropriate. Thanks. :)

No parents r not christians. Things like hidin my uniform, my coat, not aloudin me to go to church, in gernal just pickin arguements for no reason. I am not accusin them of abuse I just sayin thier not treatin me fairly!!! I come in from Uni study in my room, go on here there is no intereaction unless they want to have an arguement about sumthing or I haven't done sumthing (which yet I know I should do just havn;t had time). I don;t contribute much to the house except for tidyin and cleanin. I don't have the money to pay into the house as I am payin for Uni fee's BY MYSELF!!!! I don't often eat in the house or even watch TV. So I don;t really coat them anythin.

I just don't see y they have to pick on me???


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Opps he;s 15 and YES I was left out in a hail storm for 30 mins


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Love and respect I know thats the key but puttin it in action is the most hardest thing to do!!!

I don't feel any connection between us it the same with all my family. I am the outsider that gets the out brusts takin on me. Which honestly I don't deserve. Like this mornin I wanted to check somethin on the TV and my little bro took the biggest fit out on me when he wasn;t even watchin the TV. Therefore because of him doin this I was the worst in the world and was lft out in the hail stones for 30 mins. Do I deserve this????

How old is your brother? You were literally left outside in a hail storm for 30 minutes? :huh:

It's hard for us to say what you "deserve", because honestly...we only know your side of the story. You're giving us very little information to work with here. Again, are your parents Christians? What kinds of things do they do specifically that you consider are undeserved? Are you accusing them of abuse? Also, what kinds of things do you contribute to the family? Answering these will assist us in what type of advice is most appropriate. Thanks. :)

No parents r not christians. Things like hidin my uniform, my coat, not aloudin me to go to church, in gernal just pickin arguements for no reason. I am not accusin them of abuse I just sayin thier not treatin me fairly!!! I come in from Uni study in my room, go on here there is no intereaction unless they want to have an arguement about sumthing or I haven't done sumthing (which yet I know I should do just havn;t had time). I don;t contribute much to the house except for tidyin and cleanin. I don't have the money to pay into the house as I am payin for Uni fee's BY MYSELF!!!! I don't often eat in the house or even watch TV. So I don;t really coat them anythin.

I just don't see y they have to pick on me???

Okay, that helps a little bit more. Sorry for so many questions (it just helps us understand). I'm sorry that your parents aren't Christians, that must be really hard. Do you try to obey their rules? Or do you resist and argue with them?


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Wat do u think???

I don;t c them to break the rules. I do what I am told to do when I am told to do it. Like one of the rules is I am not aloud to go out on a Skool nite. I AM 18, But yet I do respect this rule don't wanna go out anyways. Its just the fact that the rule is there. Another is I am only aloud in church 2 times a week which then sumtimes I have to sneak away in the afternoon to go to my youth thing. Which isn;t the key but wat honestly is there to do? Miss out in fellowship!!!! I love my youth group so much I just know I am growin so much in my faith, there surport is brill oh man this list could go on abit.


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Wat do u think???

I don;t c them to break the rules. I do what I am told to do when I am told to do it. Like one of the rules is I am not aloud to go out on a Skool nite. I AM 18, But yet I do respect this rule don't wanna go out anyways. Its just the fact that the rule is there. Another is I am only aloud in church 2 times a week which then sumtimes I have to sneak away in the afternoon to go to my youth thing. Which isn;t the key but wat honestly is there to do? Miss out in fellowship!!!! I love my youth group so much I just know I am growin so much in my faith, there surport is brill oh man this list could go on abit.

With your parents being non-Christians, one of your primary concerns should be living your faith around them and being a good witness for Christ to them right? Which do you think would show them Christ more: you respecting their rules (even their restrictions about church) and showing them an obedient, respectful spirit? Or disrespecting their rules and sneaking around to disobey them? :huh:


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We are dealing with princialities and powers, dear, not flesh and blood. Knowing this will give you more stamina.

Ask God for His wisdom, His patience, His love. He loves your mom and dad and your brother. He has placed you in that family and has given you the honour of being the first believer in your family! Along with that comes much trial, I am sure! But His mission for you is to demonstrate Christ to them! A whole generation will rise up and thank you one day!

God bless you, Jessi! :huh:


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He has placed you in that family and has given you the honour of being the first believer in your family! Along with that comes much trial, I am sure!

That's a neat way to put it and true. Along with that honour comes responsibility to represent Christ in such a way that they will be compelled to believe He truly does exist and is worthy of their worship.

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