But I want to focus on the part that I placed in bold. You by your own admission have admitted making judgments about visitors based on their clothes,[ yes, that they are new or that they may not be saved] but you just believe you shouldn't say anything. I would be the one with the suit and tie, and I wouldn't change because others didn't dress that way, no matter how long I went to a particular church. [that's OK, God loves people in suits and ties, too.] I do that out of respect for the house of God. It is not a common place, but a church. [people constitute the Church, not a building] All you are describing is how different people look at how people dress, and giving your personal opinion as to how you think they should deal with it.
Since you did give your opinion of how people should deal with it, I will too. I would use tracts to promote proper dress. They would be in the front of the church for anyone to look at. I had one by Dr. Hal Webb, a Baptist minister that addressed women in pants, for instance. I would on occasion preach about appropriate clothing, based on my standards. I find it interesting your Pastor will preach on clothing based on his standards? He is clothes line? [Here you are wrong] That surprises me. I am finding people all over the board when it comes to what they believe is right and wrong when it comes to clothing, but my point is, nearly everyone has some standards when it comes to clothes.
OUR PASTOR, WHILE COVERING THE BOOK OF 1 PETER, READ CHAP 3 AND CROSS REFERENCED 1 TIMOTHY 2:9, THAT THE WOMEN ADORN THEMSELVES IN MODEST APPAREL, WITH PROPRIETY AND MODERATION. THESE ARE THE STANDARDS FOUND IN THE NEW TESTAMENT AND ARE NOT HIS OWN as HE JUST READ THEM. THE POINT IS THAT OUR ATTENTION SHOULD BE DIRECTED TOWARD GOD AND NOT FOCUSED ON PEOPLE OR HOW THEY ARE DRESSED. THE HIDDEN BEAUTY OF THE HEART IS WHAT GOD SEES AND it is HOW WE CAN HONOR THE TEMPLE OF THE HOLY SPIRIT. A church is only a building; its members who are born of the Spirit are the temple that God indwells.
God does not focus on outward appearances. Nor should we.
Butero, as much as I respect you, I fear I would be made to feel unwelcome in your church. Not having money to meet your churches standard of dress and shoes, you may even turn me away or ask me not to come back. I am so thankful that Jesus does not do that and that He welcomes me as I am.
Blessing to you, brother,
Willa