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I wish we could purchase a new car here for $3,000. You cant even get a horse and buggy for that price anymore.

There wasnt exactly a nearby 7-11 handy with a supply of soda pop in Jesus time. They drank what was available and wine was one of the drinks available. Many, many, many scolars have argued whether or not wine at that time was alcohol or not. Does it really matter? I dont think so. What matters is our personal relationship with God. You have many choices of drinks available today. You certainly dont have to drink wine.

I hate to brag, but it is sunny and warm here in Ca. But, I do feel for all of you stuck in the snow... And Wayne, what part of Red hearts all over every store in the U.S. would make you forget Valentines day? Just let us know which hospital to send you a card after you tell your wife you forgot again. And by the way, shall we cut out a card for you in the shape of a tank?

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder! I am sure your husband thinks you are the prettiest woman in the world. I agree with Harley's list. I actually read that book. Another good book I highly recommend is The Five Languages of Love by Dr Gary Chapman. I am wondering about the first one. Sexual Fullfilment. What if he is not interested? Men go through times when they are just too busy or distracted. I have heard that some medical conditions, High Blood Pressure, stress, etc. or medications can effect that. How does that apply? I mean if he's not interested, what's a wife to do? If he is not interested because of medical reasons the only thing that can be done I believe is try and get help from a doctor to lessen his symptoms. He has to work on his own problems with that within. I would say that if he isnt interested because of being too busy or distracted then some serious talks about that need to be done. Men arent the only ones with sexual needs, and women need to be open about their needs in that area also. If he continues to be "too busy" for that, then someday he will just be too busy to pay attention to any needs you have. Those are issues I think need to be taken very seriously and get help for if you cant work it out between the two of you.

When I was reading this post, I thought what could possibly be said about someone requesting a jet. Now I see that alot can be said...lol Maybe I am just naive but, I dont see why someone who has authority over her just says "dont do that again" and leave it at that. I just think this is so trivial to even be news. But, then again, I have been known to be wrong on occasion....

As a woman who has been married for 20 years to the same man I will agree that it is important to know what our spouses need. I think the problem comes in when we think we are responsible for whether or not our spouse is happy. Or we think they are responsible for our happiness. It took me 18 years to realize I am responsible for my happiness. Obviously our spouse contributes to our feelings, but happiness and Love has to come from within first. If we cant Love ourselves and meet our own needs first, how can we expect our spouse to do the same.

Just be happy that your wife doesnt need to be aquited for anything...

The positive and encouraging things I have seen said on here has brought a tear to my eye more than once. I hope that we can continue to have more positive threads like this to encourage and lift eachother up.

What extremely wonderful stories of Love and caring. I can surely see Christ in these acts of kindness.

Either way. I just thought it was a positive thing to look at and talk about..

Why does it not surprise me that you would know about this

When have you followed Christ's example of sacraficial love and denied yourself in order to do for others what they could not do for themselves?

Petunia: I Love your caring heart for others. You are so good at remembering people and reaching out with love. Emily Anne: I am really enjoying getting to know you. You are a sweet person. But, I am still keeping my red pen and notebook handy...

I said I reserve the right to add more... Knight Of Christ: I love all the late night chats we have had...It has been wonderful to get to know you...You are a neat guy... One_L: Just when I think you are just dotting you come across with some awesome words of wisdom. I enjoy your knowledge and sence of humor... Sinner: You have such a wonderful wit about you. I enjoy hearing all of your mind bending questions. You really know how to make me think. I have a great time chatting with you. I still reserve the right to add more later...

It is always good to praise ourselves too. Much better than calling ourselves names and such...

I can say by your post Leonard that you have a good sence of humor... Feel better now?

I have been coming here for about three years now. And unfortunately in that time I have seen too many of my brothers and sisters in Christ tearing eachother apart over different issues, I think it is high time that we have more posts that lift eachother up. I will start with a few and then please add on or respond with some lifting up and kindness of your own. Ayin Jade: You are a highly intelligent woman with a wonderful heart for God. And I always enjoy the time I get to spend with you in chat. PreciousSpouse:(aka Lovey) You are by far one of the sweetest women that I know, and I am honored to call you friend. Steve: I have so much fun talking with you, your kindness and gentle heart show through everytime. Omegaman: You have a wonderful sence of humor, and I love your knowledge and insight. Cargohome: I sure have enjoyed getting to know you lately. You are a wonderful woman with a kind heart. Brandon: I am so proud of you brother, you are an inspiration to me. And, you have a wonderful wit about you.. BillieLovesDarrin: What can I say, any woman that loves Pugs is alright in my book... You have such a sweet spirit. Ghostdog: I am so grateful for your playful spirit, and the fact that you can fix anything with duct tape... Marnie: You are such an intelligent woman you almost scare me...lol You are always a pleasure to talk with too... Donna: You are such a kind woman, and so inspirational with your words. I am not leaving anyone off this list intentionally. I just wanted to get the ball rolling, and give others a chance to lift others up. I also reserve the right to add on more at anytime...

We will never all fully agree on this subject. But, here is my take on it. Christ said "Ye must be born again" (1 John 3:7) not "ye must be born again, again, and again. Paul praises God for the confidence that, "He who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion (Phillipians 1:6) (1 Corinthians 1:8) promises that Christ will "keep you strong to the end" (Jude 24) guarantees that God "is able to keep you from falling and to present you before his glorious presence without fault." (Ephesians 1: 13-14) "In Him you also trusted, after you heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation: in whom also, having believed, you were sealed with the Holy Spirit of promise, who is the guarantee of our inheritance until the redemption of the purchased possession, to the praise of His glory." (John 10: 27-29) "My sheep listen to my voice; I know them, and they follow me. I give them eternal life, and they shall never perish; no one can snatch them out of my hand. My Father, who has given them to me, is greater than all; no one can snatch them out of my Father's hand."

It is best to start playing any instument when your young. You dont have any fears yet of messing up or not being good enough. Once you have the timing down, which he is getting, and the change-ups, which he is learning then the rest will fall in place. Just imagine if he sticks with it what he will be like when he is 20 yrs old. I started playing when I was 3 but, I didnt stick with it unfortunately, so I am just an average drummer. I hope this young man will stick it out. Thanks for sharing. I really enjoyed it.

Well, I am one of those that does not do things in a certain order. Nor do I have a special cup, seat or anything like that. I do sleep on a certain side of the bed only because my husband is on the other side. But, it doesnt bother me to sleep anywhere I happen to land. I always thought maybe it is because I was a bit fickle....

Okay...Now that was funny

My ears have been abused...

Hello MrCorey, I dont feel there is anything wrong with praying for God to send you the right woman. I do feel that you will need to be honest about your prior lifestyle though. If she is a woman of God and the right one for you, your past will not matter to her. We all come with a past of some sort, and she will have her own past to be honest about also. It is a natural desire to want someone to be with, you have to be willing to seek her out also though. My mom has been single for 39 yrs and always says she wants someone, but she wont do anything to meet christian men. Chances are God is not going to just drop a woman on your front door step, so if your not already involved with Christian singles groups I would suggest finding a good one in your area. Even if you dont meet the woman of your dreams you can always meet some neat new friends that will help you not feel so lonely. A few people at my church have even met on-line through Christian dating services. The possibilities nowadays are just about endless to meet new friends or that possible Love of your Life. I met my husband 19 years ago through a dating advertisment myself, so I know it can work. God Bless You, and I will be praying for you. Stacy

I feel the change needs to start with ourselves first. How many times have you done something wrong and called yourself a name like "stupid". I know that I used to call myself derogatory names all the time. Someone caught me one time when I was calling myself "dumb" about something I did. She stopped and looked me in the eye and said "Dont call yourself that, your a beautiful child of God". That stuck with me, and ever since I stop myself when I go to say something derogatory, and I stop others also and share the same thing that was shared with me. If we stop bashing ourselves first then it will be easier to not bash others.

Michael, I wish my words would come out right that I wish to express. But, I am not real good with expressing what I feel inside sometimes. I hope that when my time comes I can face it with the sweet spirit and grace in which you are. One part of me wants to cry and the other part of me wants to rejoice. I guess the most important thing that I want you to know is that I Love you in Christ. I have so enjoyed the times we have had to share together, laugh together and just chat in general. Whatever our Father has in store for the both of us I look forward to the day that we can sing praises together where the milk and honey flows, where Jesus is the light, and where pain and sorrow no longer exist. I Love You Michael. Your sister in Christ Stacy