Godslove1603

I hope that you and your husband will work this out - in fact, I KNOW you will. I am not married yet, so I do not have any wisdom as far as marriage goes, but I do have a family and we get into fights all the time. Particularly my mom and I. My mom is kind of like your husband. She'll yell at me because she misunderstood something I said or thought I was lying because I didn't remember a small trivial detail correctly, and then blow up at me and demand me to get out of her sight. And over the years I have found that it is best to do just that. She needs a few hours (or even a day) to cool down, collect her thoughts, recall what happened, and most of the time realize how stupid it all sounded. About half the time she will actually come to me and apologize...other times I will go to her (MUCH later....sometimes a day later) and say, "hey mom, look we need to talk...about last night I think you misunderstood what I was trying to say....let me explain it to you....I am sorry for whatever part I played in the misunderstanding etc." Well, I know that the Bible says never to go to bed before you've made up with the other person, but sometimes I feel that it isn't always the best thing to do. (In my case anyways, my mom ISN'T a christian and so therefore she sometimes tends to hold onto anger a little longer than others) and often an apology too early will only spur on another argument. I hate to say this....but I think that even though you do your own part, the other person must be willing to do their own part, and if the other person isn't willing to make up before the sun sets, then there is nothing you can do about it but pray to God to not let your own heart get bitter. My point is...for the "make up" to work, both parties have to have a willing attitude or it just won't work. I am sorry if my advise isn't very good...I know I am only a 21 year old girl with little life experience, but this is what I know from my own past. Perhaps a little bit different than your own situation. My best bet would be if you just give it a bit more time - maybe leave the house for a few hours to keep yourself from going down and talking to him.....let him cool down. When he cools down and starts thinking....then God can whisper in his ear about what he may have done to spur the fight and on your side, God may whisper to you what your part may have been. Sometimes we feel that we are completely right when in truth both parties are to blame. Like I said, I don't know a whole lot but this is the best I can come up with based on what I do know. hope it helps!

thats awesome!

not planning on going but want to say how great it was when I used to go to ATF when I was younger! Good luck and have fun!

I go to church on sunday mornings and I attend a Bible study on Sunday nights. I don't think it matters how many times you go to church, but I just really enjoy it because I just feel so accepted at my church! So church is a really nice chance to fellowship with other believers!

this is really interesting. I am not married, but I think it applies to not only marraige but life in general. At least some of it does! Thanks for the wisdom!

I think there is plenty of sin in america, but in other countries, despite maybe a large number of Christians, the countries are run by people of other religions. If you want to know the truth, if your looking at nations as a whole (and not the individual people) I think they all should be judged the same because they are all evil - the only "good" nation is the one that will begin as soon as Jesus returns!

Wow I had no idea there would be so many responses! Yay. Anyways...So what is "Faith Like Potatos" about? I've seen the first and second Left Behind...they were good but I just liked the books so much better so I didn't even bother watching the third. thanks for all the tips!

Wow I had no idea there would be so many responses! Yay. Anyways...So what is "Faith Like Potatos" about? I've seen the first and second Left Behind...they were good but I just liked the books so much better so I didn't even bother watching the third. thanks for all the tips!

I've seen the movie "End of The Spear" a few days ago and I've seen movies like "The Second Chance" and "Passion of the Christ" but I was wondering if anyone knows of any other really good Christian movies that are out there? I know they are hard to find so that's why I am asking cuz you pretty much have to buy them if you want to see them (not too many are at the video rental store!) and I want to make sure they are good before I go and buy one. Thanks so much!

I don't know what you are talking about.

At my church we get baptised in a hot tub in winter and in a lake during the summer. I got baptised in the lake and it was freezing cold (it was only may!!) and there were dead fish floating around so it was kind of gross. But that really wasn't the point because it isn't about the actual water - its a symbolic thing. But anyways, I wore my bathing suit under my clothes, and wore a dark shirt so its harder to see. Oh and yes do bring a towel. Oh and make sure your mouth isn't open when you go under cuz that's kind of gross too. I didn't wear makeup either...I don't think you really need any. But it is a really important thing to do and I don't think you should hold out just because of a few minor things that can be worked out if you really wanted to!

Hmmm...What would I do for 10 million dollars? I would probably eat a bug...depending on what bug it was and if it was fried and smothered in ketchup! I would probably do something like...stay awake for a week, not eat chocolate for the rest of my life, or live in a cardbaord box for a month. I dunno...give me something I'd have to do and I'll tell you if I would do it!!