The cause of homosexual behaviour

[Pax]

Being Gay is a option, a sin option.

God created Man for a Women and Women for a Man.

Simple as that.

You are not born gay, you chose that.

Maybe for abbuse, drug abbuse, normal choosing or something.

But Homosexualism is against God's will. And also simple sodomism.

You aren't born gay, you chose that, and that my friends, is and we always be a sin.

CellShade, are you gay or were you once gay? You seem to know the DEFINITE MAKINGS OF BEING GAY. I never speak so assuredly as you did just now, that you know the complete ins and outs of being gay and what makes what and who is who. How can you be so confident that you are 100% correct?

It's just a ?

matt

Growing up I had a friend that showed homosexual tendancies at a very young age...I mean we are talking 4th grade. We were to young to know anything about homosexuality. Sure enough 25 years later my childhood friend is an open homosexual. I have also taught middle school and noticed young boys, 6th graders, who showed every sign of having homosexual tendancies. I don't think this boy was saying, hey I want to be gay at 12 years old. I personally don't believe that homosexuality is always a choice. However, this is NOT an excuse to tell a person who has homosexual tendancies its o.k. to act on them. It clearly isn't, and is a sin.

[Fiosh]

Growing up I had a friend that showed homosexual tendancies at a very young age...I mean we are talking 4th grade. We were to young to know anything about homosexuality. Sure enough 25 years later my childhood friend is an open homosexual. I have also taught middle school and noticed young boys, 6th graders, who showed every sign of having homosexual tendancies. I don't think this boy was saying, hey I want to be gay at 12 years old. I personally don't believe that homosexuality is always a choice. However, this is NOT an excuse to tell a person who has homosexual tendancies its o.k. to act on them. It clearly isn't, and is a sin.

I had a friend named Chris that went to church with me as a kid and we would always pick on him because he WAS GAY. There was no doubt, he was the cousin of my best friend and we would always pick on him. We didn't start in immediately though. We first noticed when he would ALWAYS pick Chun Li on Street Fighter 2. Then SF3 the arcade game came out and he was Chun Li or Cammy and no one else. Thing is, he was gay at the age of 7 and we knew it, we just didn't say anything till it was a big deal and there was just too much evidence.

Homosexuality CAN BE A CHOICE, but sometimes it isn't. As much as they make you uncomfortable you shouldn't use your self-rightousness and numbers against them.

matt

See, here's the thing. Homosexuality itself is not a sin. Acting on those inclinations is.

I am sometimes attracted to a man I meet. I am married. The attraction may be perfectly natural. To act on it would be sin.

I am not "against" homosexuals. I am "for" them. I am for them to conquer their homosexual tendencies and surrender to Christ. Just as I am "for" the man addicted to porn to overcome it's allure and the pain it brings into his life. Or "for" the woman cheating on her husband to recommit to the marriage. I am "for" them to find a better life.

Peace,

Fiosh

[Guest truespirit]

"I am for them to conquer their homosexual tendencies and surrender to Christ."

A few months ago I was in a Christian chatroom, at which time I spoke with an extremely interesting person. I am heterosexual, but was very impressed by the story of this gentleman.

I have always been one to admire Christians that clearly defend God but are "Relaxed, laid back" in the process. Simple words, non-forceful, Truth speaking. For whatever reason, the people that God has put before me in life as character examples have all shared that same quality, which is why I admire like I do.

Anyway, after struggling some 20 plus years with homosexual instincts, the gentleman overcame his battle. He contended that he didn't act on it, he didn't think about it, he just simply was no longer a homosexual. After an exhaustive effort and many years of prayer, he overcame his challenge by the power of the Holy Spirit.

His story was very "Matter of fact," simply worded. There wasn't a doubt in my mind that he was speaking with truth.