Feel like you're a bad person / ungodly

[alien224]

Welcome! I am praying God will guide your steps and actions and all will see the love of Christ in you!

[Dawn33]

As a teacher, I would be thrilled if a student told me they were going to turn things around and change. Tell your teacher you are going to change...

teachers can be very forgiving. We have to be.... it is not easy getting kids to do work when they do not want to. If you don't understand something ask for help but don't be a class clown and be disruptive because you don't want to deal with doing the work or admitting you need help.

Good Luck I will be praying for you!

[ReaLizxx]

Ask God to guide your steps every morning and to help you do what is right. Then make sure the friends you choose are those who are godly not the kind who by association give you a bad name and if you do wrong or if accused, apologize , even if you know you are right. It will not hurt you to say sorry, and it can change the way you are treated....but say it humbly. Love Jesus..and ask Him to help you at home with family too. As a former teacher, nothing diffuses a situation like an apology that an easily come from the heart of one who has been forgiven of their own sins.remember...going to church is good but your actions and friends speak for you.

Welcome to Worthy.

Thank you! I pray but sometimes, I feel god is punishing me in a few instances when things get really worse or rough. My friends are kind. I was both accused and did wrong respectively (2 different occasions), hence, it gave me a bad impression overall. At home, my two sisters prefer each other than me as I am usually quiet and serious at home. But I still love them. My mother often screams when she teaches me as I take a while to learn sometimes. I pray that I refrain from shouting back as I feel wronged sometimes. I still love her. I have sent my teacher a long wholehearted apology email once but he did not reply. I'm afraid I will anger him more by trying to make things better. I am changing but some teachers may think it is an act due to their first impression of me from my past undesirable actions

[ReaLizxx]

Welcome

Thank you!

[ReaLizxx]

welcome to worthy

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[ReaLizxx]

Blessings ReaLizxx

Welcome to Worthy...........as LittleLamb has suggested,going to your teachers openly,humbly & sincerely to ask them what you can do to make things better will show them how much their opinion of you means to you & that you really what to change things,,,,,,,,,extend your hand to them & ask for their help,suggestions & advice,,,,,,thats what they are there for Just because we earnestly want to change people are not so quick to believe it ,,,,ya gotta prove yourself by your actions & it may take time,,,,,Christ forgives in an instant but people are not always so forgiving,be patient,Trust the Lord & pray,,,,,,,glad you are here,God Bless you With love-in Christ,Kwik

Thank you! I have attempted writing a long sincere apology email to my teacher a while ago but he did not reply. I'm afraid their impression of me is irredeemable and they're attitude towards me is constantly cold and distant. I am oversensitive hence, it is difficult for me not to get stressed and troubled by this situation together with the stresses of school it is hard to cope. Though put up Good behavior during lessons or general school days, they think it is a facade as In the past i have done undesirable things under that behavior. Hence, it is difficult to change their negative impression of me. May I ask how/what I should pray in this situation? Edited January 20, 2015 by ReaLizxx

[ReaLizxx]

What does one do if he or she feels that she has trouble being godly no matter how she reads the bible or goes to church. I'm trying to become a better person but my family thinks I am bad and ungodly and I am constantly under probation in school where teachers have extreme bad impressions of me.

I am constantly under probation in school where teachers have extreme bad impressions of me.

What are you doing to give them the impression, and why are you constantly under probation? And before you answer, I am old, very old, and have heard just about every explanation that has ever been invented! 

 

So, no answer like I have done nothing. There must be a reason why they are putting you on probation constantly. Once we find out what that is, we can talk about how to correct it (with Jesus being the foundation).

 

God Bless, and let's start talking.

Thank you for your reply! Firstly, in the middle of last year, a misunderstanding occurred, and a teacher told the whole class someone cheated during the examinations. It appears that the person he was referring to was me. I had no idea he thought that way of me until the end of the year when he wrote comments to me about honesty. I then went to confront him with two of my friends to explain that I did not. Though he was not entirely convinced, he took down the comments. A while later, due to my laziness I plagiarized an essay and lied to another teacher about handing in the work on time when I in fact did not. My mother had to see the teachers and level heads and had to talk about my behavior for 4 hours. My teacher included in the conversation that he was offended that I brought people to explain to him and now he does not trust me and believes I cheated. I was shocked as I had no idea he had such a negative impression of me. I was in an emotional mess then as I am an oversensitive person and I could not believe this was happening to me. I then wrote him an email apologizing for my undesirable actions and explaining that I did not cheat previously and I will change. But he ignored my email and teachers started becoming cold and distant towards me. Just yesterday, my other teacher talked to me saying that my mother told my teacher i shout at my mum. When my mum is teaching me, she gets frustrated at my failure to understand concepts and without fail screams in frustration at me. I try to control my emotions as I feel wronged but I end up crying, hence to prevent myself from tearing, i shout to try and harden myself. Therefore, my teachers now not only think I am a cheater, a liar, but also someone who treats their parents poorly. I pray that i can become a better person. What/how else can I pray in this situation?

[ReaLizxx]

Welcome! I am praying God will guide your steps and actions and all will see the love of Christ in you!

Wow thank you!

[ReaLizxx]

As a teacher, I would be thrilled if a student told me they were going to turn things around and change. Tell your teacher you are going to change...teachers can be very forgiving. We have to be.... it is not easy getting kids to do work when they do not want to. If you don't understand something ask for help but don't be a class clown and be disruptive because you don't want to deal with doing the work or admitting you need help.Good Luck I will be praying for you!

Thank you!

[ReaLizxx]

What does one do if he or she feels that she has trouble being godly no matter how she reads the bible or goes to church. I'm trying to become a better person but my family thinks I am bad and ungodly and I am constantly under probation in school where teachers have extreme bad impressions of me.

I am constantly under probation in school where teachers have extreme bad impressions of me.

What are you doing to give them the impression, and why are you constantly under probation? And before you answer, I am old, very old, and have heard just about every explanation that has ever been invented! 

 

So, no answer like I have done nothing. There must be a reason why they are putting you on probation constantly. Once we find out what that is, we can talk about how to correct it (with Jesus being the foundation).

 

God Bless, and let's start talking.

 

I too like Fez am ancient. 

The best place to start to resolve a problem is being truthful . 

 

God Bless and let's start talking 

Hi there! This was my reply:

Thank you for your reply! Firstly, in the middle of last year, a misunderstanding occurred, and a teacher told the whole class someone cheated during the examinations. It appears that the person he was referring to was me. I had no idea he thought that way of me until the end of the year when he wrote comments to me about honesty. I then went to confront him with two of my friends to explain that I did not. Though he was not entirely convinced, he took down the comments. A while later, due to my laziness I plagiarized an essay and lied to another teacher about handing in the work on time when I in fact did not. My mother had to see the teachers and level heads and had to talk about my behavior for 4 hours. My teacher included in the conversation that he was offended that I brought people to explain to him and now he does not trust me and believes I cheated. I was shocked as I had no idea he had such a negative impression of me. I was in an emotional mess then as I am an oversensitive person and I could not believe this was happening to me. I then wrote him an email apologizing for my undesirable actions and explaining that I did not cheat previously and I will change. But he ignored my email and teachers started becoming cold and distant towards me. Just yesterday, my other teacher talked to me saying that my mother told my teacher i shout at my mum. When my mum is teaching me, she gets frustrated at my failure to understand concepts and without fail screams in frustration at me. I try to control my emotions as I feel wronged but I end up crying, hence to prevent myself from tearing, i shout to try and harden myself. Therefore, my teachers now not only think I am a cheater, a liar, but also someone who treats their parents poorly. I pray that i can become a better person. What/how else can I pray in this situation?