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I need help that only God can give me, strength that I don't have, joy and peace that has been shaken, and I'm fighting fear, which is not of God.

It's been a week since my wife left me. She had distanced herself from me and I confronted her and, long story short, she said that she didn't want this. She said that she doesn't want to be married anymore. This came out of nowhere and it completely rocked my world. She wants a different type of life. She says that she's missed out on some things and she wants to pursue them without the entanglements of commitment or the weight of marriage. But she has not asked for divorce. She's been out of the house sleeping at a friend's house who has a vacant room. To keep the kids secure, she's coming in before they wake up so that she can take them to school; then she picks them up and is here until my 11yr old goes to bed for the night; then she's gone. We went to church as a family and also shared Thanksgiving, however that was the worse thanksgiving I've ever had.

This is a satanic attack and he wants to destroy my marriage, kids, and ministry. I instantly saw my children's future and it frightened and saddened me. I've explained this to her, but she's blinded by the enemy. I love her so deeply. I am depressed, lonely and sad. I fought for understanding and tried every logical and theological argument that she would tolerate.

FTR, I don't believe she's sleeping around. She's a descent woman and she loves the Lord, but she's seduced by Satan and doesn't know it. Her heart has grown hard and cold to the influence of God's word. God has revealed to me that she will be back, but the pain doesn't go away...the fear doesn't either. I just gave it to God and told her that I won't stress her anymore over it. I told her that I would support her aspirations, and I would be here for her in whatever way she needed me to reach her goals. But this is so risky and I know it's an satanic attempt to rip our lives apart. Without God's intervention I'm witnessing the beginning of the end of my marriage. This hurts beyond description.

I don't know what to do other than cry, support her and love her pray for her. Anything else will only serve to drive a wedge between us. There's still a connection and there's still hope. I'm open to ideas or testimonies that may give me hope.  I don't understand, and I'm severely depressed.  I don't eat and I've lost 10 lbs since she told me last week. I'm praying that everything falls back in place. Pray that I be the man that she needs.

Pray that she has the success that she needs while our marriage is still intact, so that she won't think that even with this Arrangement it still is an obstacle that needs to be removed. Pray that God softens her heart and restore her affection for me. Pray that the Lord bring restoration to our relationship. Of course my heart is broken. I am devastated. I am undone. But I believe that the effectual fervent prayer of the righteous will avail. I believe that if we ask and I will receive my wife back. I need prayer for strength so that I can endure this. Thank you, pray my strength in the Lord.

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Blessings Her Husband

    Welcome to Worthy,I know you are saying you pray,you9 need Gods Strength & your wife's heart has hardened to the Word of God but I am wondering if you are a Christian,lots of folks be5lieve in God & yet they have no idea(yet) how to be reconciled back to Him & Jesus is the ONLY WAY....I am wondering this because you have submitted this Thread in the Outer Court which is for UNBELIEVERS & guests? And I never heard Jesus Name mentioned,perhaps you were unaware of that? Maybe not?

    I will say this,I noticed immediately your username "Her Husband" & thought to myself"Wow,this guy is crazy about his wife" Which is great but sometimes we can get so caught up in love with a person that God is no longer FIRST & FOREMOST,our #1 Priority....our most important Relationship...I don't know that this applies to you my friend but we do have to wonder sometimes "Why God Allows the enemy to get a foothold?"  Yes,tearing apart a marriage is somethig that the enemy does but perhaps God has Allowed this for a reason,maybe to bring each of your attention & focus back t7o him instead of whatever distractions there are....worth considering,isn't it?

   Anyway,I only hope to encourage you & support you ,point to Jesus if you are not a Christian & point you back to God as the Center of both your Lioves,the glue that keeps you together if you both are Christians,,,,,Christian counseling,a pastor,support groups at church ? Tried any of those?   Looking forward to hearing from you & yes,praying for you both                            With love-in Christ,Kwik

 

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Welcome and God bless, Her Husband!

So sad to hear of the dark times you're going through right now. Have you thought to seek marriage counseling with her? Do you think she would agree to that?

Please stay strong, stay close to God. You are in my prayers!

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Blessings Her Husband

   We are hoping to hear back from you so we can talk......you are in our prayers & we are here for you.......                   With love-in Christ,Kwik

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