re: Why do women not want to date me....

[JesseRBassett]

very humble

[BeauJangles]

6 hours ago, JesseRBassett said:

Hello.

I was just wondering why it is that women do not want to date me. I am a friendly, caring, loving christian man. What can i do to better myself so a woman will date me? 

Hi Jesse, 

Sounds like you have the basics of decency that a lot of single women are looking for in another person for a relationship. My question would be this. Are you only interested in dating, or something more serious?

The reason I mention this, is that if you're only looking to "play the field" to see who might be the right woman for you, well, a lot of ladies in this day and age pickup on that straight away. 

You'd want a good Christian woman also, and not someone who might be a non-believer, surely. Otherwise, it would only end up a disaster for the both of you, and a real heartbreaking experience.

When it comes to self improvement, I'm not sure changing into something or someone you aren't already is going to be possible, realistically speaking. 

A woman that holds the same values as you should be willing to accept you as you are, and not want to start making changes on you mold you to her own personal goals.

I'm only touching briefly on a few things to consider here, since your post lacks a lot of necessary information about you and what exactly you mean by "dating". These are my thoughts. God bless.

Shalom, 

David/BeauJangles 

Edited February 1, 2020 by BeauJangles

[johnthebaptist]

15 hours ago, JesseRBassett said:

very humble

Maybe not humble enough.

[johnthebaptist]

20 hours ago, JesseRBassett said:

Hello.

I was just wondering why it is that women do not want to date me. I am a friendly, caring, loving christian man. What can i do to better myself so a woman will date me?

 

15 hours ago, JesseRBassett said:

very humble

 

Just now, johnthebaptist said:

Maybe not humble enough.

I prefer being single.

[JesseRBassett]

Thank you all for the helpful words of wisdom. It has given me tons to think about.

[JesseRBassett]

To the last poster,

Thank you for those words. I needed to hear that BIG TIME!

[Adorable80]

On 2/1/2020 at 11:14 AM, JesseRBassett said:

To the last poster,

Thank you for those words. I needed to hear that BIG TIME!

Maybe women are picky about your body and face looks?  Some women like handsome cute men.  I know looks are not important.  

Edited February 6, 2020 by Adorable80

[Prycejosh1987]

On 1/31/2020 at 6:26 PM, JesseRBassett said:

Hello.

I was just wondering why it is that women do not want to date me. I am a friendly, caring, loving christian man. What can i do to better myself so a woman will date me?

You have to be appealing to women. Looks arent everything, i have seen people missing limbs and still dating women and being married. I have seen people who are beggars with girlfriends. I have seen mentally ill men and women with partners. It all depends on you and the actions you take, if these people can have partners so can you. Every human has limitless potential.