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i feel like i have failed. my husband of 17 years has decided he wants a divorce

we did everything together we have two really great kids, but i lost my job in jan2005, i have stood by him in alot of though times. we began arguing about finances ect... dont know what i want just need to talk


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I am sorry for your pain. We will be praying for you, that God will heal the situation.


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wow! ive been through divorce with children and it was shocking and depressing and frustrating but i made it and that was WITHOUT God in my life..do you belong to a church? is there any hope of counseling or him reconsidering or is it a done deal? that is a lifetime for him to throw away..what are his reasons? or is it just tough times..with God, nothing is impossible..he promises to stay with us during times of trouble...never allow the tribulations in your life to seperate you from the love of Christ no matter how exhausting..out of the wreck i will arise!! you are stronger than you think..you will be tested but i know you will rise above this..i will be praying for you and let us know how things are going!! bless you sister!


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wow! ive been through divorce with children and it was shocking and depressing and frustrating but i made it and that was WITHOUT God in my life..do you belong to a church? is there any hope of counseling or him reconsidering or is it a done deal? that is a lifetime for him to throw away..what are his reasons? or is it just tough times..with God, nothing is impossible..he promises to stay with us during times of trouble...never allow the tribulations in your life to seperate you from the love of Christ no matter how exhausting..out of the wreck i will arise!! you are stronger than you think..you will be tested but i know you will rise above this..i will be praying for you and let us know how things are going!! bless you sister!

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i feel like i have failed.

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i feel like i have failed.

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wow! ive been through divorce with children and it was shocking and depressing and frustrating but i made it and that was WITHOUT God in my life..do you belong to a church? is there any hope of counseling or him reconsidering or is it a done deal? that is a lifetime for him to throw away..what are his reasons? or is it just tough times..with God, nothing is impossible..he promises to stay with us during times of trouble...never allow the tribulations in your life to seperate you from the love of Christ no matter how exhausting..out of the wreck i will arise!! you are stronger than you think..you will be tested but i know you will rise above this..i will be praying for you and let us know how things are going!! bless you sister!

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the tranmissiom went out on my car, without a job was unable to fix, husband refuses to pay bills, we are struggling, but i do believe everything happens for a reason. no to answer your question we are not attending church the moment we live in the country and everything is far away, but i am trusting that we are in Gods hands. my children are ready to go back to church, we still pray all the time and ask for his guidance in this time. its hard not having someone to talk to though. i answer questions that my kids ask if i know the answer but how do you

get my question answered i love God and thought our marriage would last.


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I am goin to post, trying not to offend,

but come on now people, the blame game---or who is at fault or wrong,

EVEN IF WE BLAME OURSELVES...

doesnt accomplish anything.==

we HAVE---to come to grips with the fact..

God never promised marriage or finances would be forever pleasant.

for some reason, God has allowed satan to attack you both financially.

I am not saying this to be judgmental, cause some how some way---we all  have short comings, and SATAN knows exactly what they are..

he will attack us=--because attacking us believers, he attacks our testimony for Christ----

do you look as money---as just a tool?

because, THAT----is all it is.

the only things in life that are important, is right fellowship with God and spouse and neighbor.

he will feed us---he feeds the birds.

he will clothe us---he clothes the lillies

what else do we need---than our daily bread.

money---WILL ALWAYS BE A DOWNFALL--for all of us---

if we make it so important or such a burden that we need to make more, we become slaves to that---and one doesnt even have to love money--to be a victim of it or be enslaved by it.

prayer----humblenss---and dedication to being good stewards, regardless of how much---or how little.

ask your husband this...

did you marry me so we can make money together,  or to be in love with each other?

even if he says he liked your money----its only because he has been enslaved by it, and doesnt realize it.

money appears to have been a comfort for awhile...

its normal and practical that we become "secure" in those times...

remember---whats important.

YOU AND HIM AND THE LORD.

nothing else---really is worth divorcing, fighting or arguing about.

God has allowed this to happen---so you can BOTH---refocus

on HIM FIRST---THAN--EACH OTHER---

pray for you---and please dont GIVE UP.

throw  the divorce word out----its retarded.

you 2 are 1.

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i thank you for your thoughts, my husband is not a christian. we have tried to

show him that he does need God. his reply is i am not a christian i am catholic

tried to explain christian means christ like,but no go he believes their some difference. the last 17 years of my life have been rough but i thinking like you thought this is what God wants for me. thus is why i feel i have failed but not because i didnt try but because he never got the relationship with God i hoped for.

my children are the best thing that came out of my marriage. my husband has been seeing someone else he is riding to work with her. i dated 2 years before we married and my mother who is now deceased tried to tell me that he would never change, so i had to prove her wrong,needless to say she was right i was to blind to see. i love my children very much and they believe very much in God. we pray daily and their dad is on their minds. but i am proud that my children turned out the way they did they will be strong believers. no i do not put my children in the middle of this he is still their father and why he is doing this i dont know but blaming him, never enter my mind. i believe that marriage is between two people who become one but that is two christian i tried to change him. i couldnt he has the seeds that were planted by me and my children not to mention the other christians friends he always thought were nuts. you know i came here for comfort because i believe that God ment for us to fellowship, i've never been to a chat room before this one. but i will say this has made me open up. i am very sad i feel like my husband didnt care for us, you see you only got part of what i am going thru in july my husband left, my bills are no longer being paid by him thus my children and i are going with out the things you take for granted do i want you to feel sorry for me no. we have no air conditioning because july 31st it went out

we have no washer because its now not working, its cold now guess what no heat either. but you know what i get a check next month my first disabilty check and even though we will be behind i have faith enough that God is going to be there for us even though my husband is not. so no i am not blaming him. i am hurt that when i needed him he was not here. thank you again for listening.


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carant,

I am very sorry that you & your children are going through this. You are in my prayers. :thumbsup:

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carant,

I am very sorry that you & your children are going through this.  You are in my prayers. :thumbsup:

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thank you i believe God led me to this site because i needed to talked to fellow christians. i know that i had had a great release just talking to you all. thanks for all the love prayers and all your thoughts. God bless

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