marriage and my children

[carant2000_2001]

i am divorcing after 17 years, my children are with me. i love their dad very much but i am so hurt, that he wants the divorce. the children on the other hand

i think feel at ease about it. you see many years we tried to get him to go to church with us,and he did a few times. but all though the years he has always

been really hatefull toward my son not my daughter, he hated when anyone tried to show attention to my son, but he never would so my son now 15 thought my husband hated him. i never found that out till last smmer we were discussing

something and this poped right out why does dad hate me so much, my reply was he doesnt he loves you, he said mom you love me. we were talking after my husband left he has he said he doesnt care if he ever see him again that ripped my heart out. i told him he will always be your dad and he does love you very much. he only 15 and to have this much pain, where was i. i am sorry to keep going on i am hurting and i need to talk. thank you all for listening.

[Leonard]

Your family is on our prayer list.

[carant2000_2001]

Your family is on our prayer list.

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thank you all for giving me the time to talk and thank you for your prayers

[RustyAngeL]

Your family is on our prayer list.

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thank you all for giving me the time to talk and thank you for your prayers

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Your in our prayers..Your a good mom. You and your children deserve better. We will alos pray for your husband, he needs Jesus. If you feel like it, come to chat and have some fellowship with us. We would love to have you sister.

[theblessedlife]

well her husband has checked out of this marriage..he is an adulterer and he is not taking care of his financial responsilblity..im against divorce too but her husband isnt willing to work on this and her and her children are suffering..

[AliveInHim]

does this eliminate him from Christ then?

when we sin---we are committing adultery with our groom.

does Christ divorce and abandon us?

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If you are married to an unbelieving spouse here is what 1 Corinthians 7:12-15 says:

12 But to the rest speak I, not the Lord: If any brother hath a wife that believeth not, and she be pleased to dwell with him, let him not put her away.

13 And the woman which hath an husband that believeth not, and if he be pleased to dwell with her, let her not leave him.

14 For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband: else were your children unclean; but now are they holy.

15 But if the unbelieving depart, let him depart. A brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases: but God hath called us to peace.

[carant2000_2001]

does this eliminate him from Christ then?

when we sin---we are committing adultery with our groom.

does Christ divorce and abandon us?

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If you are married to an unbelieving spouse here is what 1 Corinthians 7:12-15 says:

12 But to the rest speak I, not the Lord: If any brother hath a wife that believeth not, and she be pleased to dwell with him, let him not put her away.

13 And the woman which hath an husband that believeth not, and if he be pleased to dwell with her, let her not leave him.

14 For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband: else were your children unclean; but now are they holy.

15 But if the unbelieving depart, let him depart. A brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases: but God hath called us to peace.

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hi thank you

my husband lives a life apart from us because he chose to. i didnt ask him to leave. and do believe that i worked hard,to save our marriage but i cant put the kids though this anymore. my son is 15, he needs a father to talk to that listens to him. my son has a very tender spirit. my husbands answer to every problem is physical and emotional abuse towards him. my weight has soared in the past years my fault i know. now that he has left i have emotional times when i miss him so very much. but i pray for comfort of God to see me though those times. thank you for the verses.

[AliveInHim]

does this eliminate him from Christ then?

when we sin---we are committing adultery with our groom.

does Christ divorce and abandon us?

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If you are married to an unbelieving spouse here is what 1 Corinthians 7:12-15 says:

12 But to the rest speak I, not the Lord: If any brother hath a wife that believeth not, and she be pleased to dwell with him, let him not put her away.

13 And the woman which hath an husband that believeth not, and if he be pleased to dwell with her, let her not leave him.

14 For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband: else were your children unclean; but now are they holy.

15 But if the unbelieving depart, let him depart. A brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases: but God hath called us to peace.

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hi thank you

my husband lives a life apart from us because he chose to. i didnt ask him to leave. and do believe that i worked hard,to save our marriage but i cant put the kids though this anymore. my son is 15, he needs a father to talk to that listens to him. my son has a very tender spirit. my husbands answer to every problem is physical and emotional abuse towards him. my weight has soared in the past years my fault i know. now that he has left i have emotional times when i miss him so very much. but i pray for comfort of God to see me though those times. thank you for the verses.

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You are very welcome! I have been in a similiar situation. So, I really do understand what you are going through. May the Lord bless you & your children with much peace & joy.

[Fiosh]

Hi carant,

I wanted you to know that I read your post and have prayed for you and your family. It's too early to know where this situation will lead, but I know God will use it for your good.

As for your son, he knows YOU love him with all your heart. Keep reminding him that his father's problems are not his(your son's) fault. And that he is a child of God the Father, who loves him with a perfect love.

Peace,

Felicia

[carant2000_2001]

does this eliminate him from Christ then?

when we sin---we are committing adultery with our groom.

does Christ divorce and abandon us?

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If you are married to an unbelieving spouse here is what 1 Corinthians 7:12-15 says:

12 But to the rest speak I, not the Lord: If any brother hath a wife that believeth not, and she be pleased to dwell with him, let him not put her away.

13 And the woman which hath an husband that believeth not, and if he be pleased to dwell with her, let her not leave him.

and you also ty again God bless

14 For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband: else were your children unclean; but now are they holy.

15 But if the unbelieving depart, let him depart. A brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases: but God hath called us to peace.

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hi thank you

my husband lives a life apart from us because he chose to. i didnt ask him to leave. and do believe that i worked hard,to save our marriage but i cant put the kids though this anymore. my son is 15, he needs a father to talk to that listens to him. my son has a very tender spirit. my husbands answer to every problem is physical and emotional abuse towards him. my weight has soared in the past years my fault i know. now that he has left i have emotional times when i miss him so very much. but i pray for comfort of God to see me though those times. thank you for the verses.

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You are very welcome! I have been in a similiar situation. So, I really do understand what you are going through. May the Lord bless you & your children with much peace & joy.

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