Figure of eighty Posted February 15 Group: Diamond Member Followers: 7 Topic Count: 241 Topics Per Day: 0.12 Content Count: 1,558 Content Per Day: 0.77 Reputation: 872 Days Won: 0 Joined: 10/15/2018 Status: Offline Share Posted February 15 Some people trust God easily after setbacks. I'm going through alot from possible eviction,health issues and a break up. My heart is so thoroughly broken. Why would God bring someone who is everything I wanted but knows I'm not ready. I'd rather God wait yrs to bring the guy instead of show me and it's not time. I feel heartbroken and upset about everything. I'm anxious..and nervous. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Neighbor Posted February 16 Group: Worthy Ministers Followers: 18 Topic Count: 952 Topics Per Day: 0.35 Content Count: 13,573 Content Per Day: 5.03 Reputation: 9,054 Days Won: 6 Joined: 12/04/2016 Status: Offline Birthday: 03/03/1885 Share Posted February 16 Yes it is easy to trust God when there is no need to isn't it? It is when the rubber meets the road and things get oh so very tough that one's heart comes to knowledge of things that God has known all along. Sometimes our guardian angel has a tough job protection us from our own conclusions about most things, including people that we think we know, but don't. Sorry you are undergoing a hard time along with a difficult lesson. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BeyondET Posted February 16 Group: Royal Member Followers: 0 Topic Count: 118 Topics Per Day: 0.05 Content Count: 2,868 Content Per Day: 1.22 Reputation: 816 Days Won: 0 Joined: 11/29/2017 Status: Offline Birthday: 04/01/1968 Share Posted February 16 (edited) 8 hours ago, Figure of eighty said: Some people trust God easily after setbacks. I'm going through alot from possible eviction,health issues and a break up. My heart is so thoroughly broken. Why would God bring someone who is everything I wanted but knows I'm not ready. I'd rather God wait yrs to bring the guy instead of show me and it's not time. I feel heartbroken and upset about everything. I'm anxious..and nervous. Everything you wanted, hmm now that's a rarity. Years can turn into decades waiting for such a tandem, may even help to see through setbacks, if it's salvable. Edited February 16 by BeyondET Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
D. Adrien Posted February 16 Group: Advanced Member Followers: 2 Topic Count: 1 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 453 Content Per Day: 4.72 Reputation: 385 Days Won: 1 Joined: 01/22/2024 Status: Offline Share Posted February 16 9 hours ago, Figure of eighty said: Some people trust God easily after setbacks. I'm going through alot from possible eviction,health issues and a break up. My heart is so thoroughly broken. Why would God bring someone who is everything I wanted but knows I'm not ready. I'd rather God wait yrs to bring the guy instead of show me and it's not time. I feel heartbroken and upset about everything. I'm anxious..and nervous. Just let go and place every burden of life upon Jesus. Immerse yourself in the teachings and application of those teachings. Being a Christian you know that obedience should lead to mental submission and therefore agreement with Jesus Christ, the head of the Church. Believe, apply and live the teachings and your mental state will improve and by so doing you will learn trust of Him in the process. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RdJ Posted February 16 Group: Diamond Member Followers: 1 Topic Count: 66 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 1,091 Content Per Day: 0.35 Reputation: 611 Days Won: 0 Joined: 10/11/2015 Status: Online Birthday: 05/25/1970 Share Posted February 16 (edited) 19 hours ago, Figure of eighty said: Some people trust God easily after setbacks. I'm going through alot from possible eviction,health issues and a break up. My heart is so thoroughly broken. Why would God bring someone who is everything I wanted but knows I'm not ready. I'd rather God wait yrs to bring the guy instead of show me and it's not time. I feel heartbroken and upset about everything. I'm anxious..and nervous. Maybe some day you become friends or get the harvest in together. Corrie ten Boom was seeing a guy and she thought they would get married, but one day he came with his new fiancee. She was not rich enough for his mother. She went to her room and was laying on her bed crying. Her dad said: You can kill the love, but then a part of you dies. Or you can give it to God and ask Him to turn it into His Love. She said that enabled her to later love the unlovable, like traitors and Nazi's. Edited February 16 by Renskedejonge 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Logostician Posted February 16 Group: Advanced Member Followers: 2 Topic Count: 32 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 358 Content Per Day: 0.24 Reputation: 426 Days Won: 0 Joined: 03/03/2020 Status: Offline Share Posted February 16 Jesus is the only thing that this world, and worldly people, cannot take from you. If everyone in this world seems to be abandoning you, he is the one that will stay with you. Jesus is my saviour, and my best friend. Hebrews 13:5 Let your conversation be without covetousness; and be content with such things as ye have: for he hath said, I will never leave thee, nor forsake thee. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jayne Posted February 16 Group: Royal Member Followers: 16 Topic Count: 107 Topics Per Day: 0.04 Content Count: 3,820 Content Per Day: 1.30 Reputation: 4,806 Days Won: 2 Joined: 03/31/2016 Status: Offline Share Posted February 16 19 hours ago, Figure of eighty said: Some people trust God easily after setbacks. I'm going through alot from possible eviction,health issues and a break up. My heart is so thoroughly broken. Why would God bring someone who is everything I wanted but knows I'm not ready. I'd rather God wait yrs to bring the guy instead of show me and it's not time. I feel heartbroken and upset about everything. I'm anxious..and nervous. I understand that you are anxious and nervous. I, myself, have depression and anxiety. I know exactly what that feels like. I know what it's like to be afraid and alone and afraid BECAUSE you are alone. I get it!! Truly!! Here's what I don't understand. You've been here for six years. Never have you posted a problem that you did not blame God for. Without fail. It's always God's fault. I get the crappy life. Mine is pretty much crappy. It would never dawn on me to lay the blame at God's feet and declare that I couldn't trust him. Unless a Godly and Christian man wishes to marry you without sex before marriage - a man is the last thing that you need. Your primary concern until a Godly man marries you is those two babies. You never speak of them. You only speak of your misery. And blame God for it. When He alone can help you. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The_Patriot21 Posted February 17 Group: Worthy Ministers Followers: 28 Topic Count: 338 Topics Per Day: 0.05 Content Count: 15,710 Content Per Day: 2.46 Reputation: 8,526 Days Won: 39 Joined: 10/25/2006 Status: Offline Birthday: 02/27/1985 Share Posted February 17 Maybe because God knows what you need and what you want are two different things. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Figure of eighty Posted February 18 Group: Diamond Member Followers: 7 Topic Count: 241 Topics Per Day: 0.12 Content Count: 1,558 Content Per Day: 0.77 Reputation: 872 Days Won: 0 Joined: 10/15/2018 Status: Offline Author Share Posted February 18 On 2/16/2024 at 2:12 PM, Jayne said: I understand that you are anxious and nervous. I, myself, have depression and anxiety. I know exactly what that feels like. I know what it's like to be afraid and alone and afraid BECAUSE you are alone. I get it!! Truly!! Here's what I don't understand. You've been here for six years. Never have you posted a problem that you did not blame God for. Without fail. It's always God's fault. I get the crappy life. Mine is pretty much crappy. It would never dawn on me to lay the blame at God's feet and declare that I couldn't trust him. Unless a Godly and Christian man wishes to marry you without sex before marriage - a man is the last thing that you need. Your primary concern until a Godly man marries you is those two babies. You never speak of them. You only speak of your misery. And blame God for it. When He alone can help you. I dont speak of my kids bc they dont cause me distress. I just vent about the things that distress me. My kids are healthy, happy and well.. still I just don't know how to trust God. I know blaming is bad but if I'm trying and doing the best I can and need a little extra help from God and help doesn't come it just creates that cycle of distrust. What keeps you from not blaming God? I'm genuinely wondering bc I do have an issue with this only bc God is capable. If he couldn't do everything then I would understand. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Figure of eighty Posted February 18 Group: Diamond Member Followers: 7 Topic Count: 241 Topics Per Day: 0.12 Content Count: 1,558 Content Per Day: 0.77 Reputation: 872 Days Won: 0 Joined: 10/15/2018 Status: Offline Author Share Posted February 18 (edited) On 2/16/2024 at 1:34 PM, Renskedejonge said: Maybe some day you become friends or get the harvest in together. Corrie ten Boom was seeing a guy and she thought they would get married, but one day he came with his new fiancee. She was not rich enough for his mother. She went to her room and was laying on her bed crying. Her dad said: You can kill the love, but then a part of you dies. Or you can give it to God and ask Him to turn it into His Love. She said that enabled her to later love the unlovable, like traitors and Nazi's. I see people reference Corrie alot. Who is she? That story was very nice to read. Thank you. Also what does that mean turn it into his love. Edited February 18 by Figure of eighty Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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