angels4u Posted July 11, 2013 Group: Worthy Ministers Followers: 56 Topic Count: 1,664 Topics Per Day: 0.20 Content Count: 19,764 Content Per Day: 2.39 Reputation: 12,164 Days Won: 28 Joined: 08/22/2001 Status: Offline Share Posted July 11, 2013 Hi Maryann, I feel terrible sad for you and feel your pain by reading this about your friend ,I too phoned the police a couple about things I found out involving drugs....be careful and do phone the police,I don't know if I would say anything about the video because you want to stay out of this mess,ask the police to follow this men and women and take can easily find out how they do drugs and where they get the stuff,give them her and his addres and don't tell anybody else about it. Worthy news is a good place to ask for advice, I wish I seen your post earlier,hang in girl ...give your sadness to the Lord and pray for the people involved. Praying for you and this situation,trust the Lord for the outcome! Love in Christ,Angels Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Adsy86 Posted July 14, 2013 Group: Removed from Forums for Breaking Terms of Service Followers: 5 Topic Count: 0 Topics Per Day: 0 Content Count: 49 Content Per Day: 0.01 Reputation: 14 Days Won: 0 Joined: 07/13/2013 Status: Offline Share Posted July 14, 2013 Your dealing with "illegal substances" and possible illegal pornagraphy here. Its a really touchy line. If you contact that person, it could get really messy, really fast. Way I see it, you only have two options, and going to that girl and telling her what he did isn't one of them-it will just make things messy. First, is distance yourself from the entire situation-break contact, and dont contact them again-ever, and refuse contact from him. The other, is contact the police, and let them sort it out. Hes obviously taking advantage of young women using drugs (im assuming thats what your talking about) and what if the next girl he takes advantage of, is underage? If you mix yourself into it, without telling the cops, and the cops get involved from someone else calling, things can get really complicated really fast. I agree with this Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Floatingaxe Posted July 14, 2013 Group: Royal Member Followers: 3 Topic Count: 62 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 9,613 Content Per Day: 1.45 Reputation: 656 Days Won: 9 Joined: 03/11/2006 Status: Offline Birthday: 05/31/1952 Share Posted July 14, 2013 You can pray and ask God to send this girl across your path if He wants you to tell her. God loves her dearly and this would be a sign to her that you care and are acting out of a moral sense of care for others. You don't know the extent of God's plan to reach her! He wants to use you. So, in the next few days, should you see her, you need to obey God and come forth to warn her. Be ready! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cozmoe Posted August 1, 2013 Group: Advanced Member Followers: 1 Topic Count: 3 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 338 Content Per Day: 0.09 Reputation: 127 Days Won: 4 Joined: 07/27/2013 Status: Offline Share Posted August 1, 2013 (edited) That's a real touchy subject , I would stay out of it, as this girl is 19 and i don't know how old he is but , being that she is considered now an adult and not a minor , I really don't know how that would be legally handled , but Ill keep her in prayer , but I agree this isn't your battle i wouldn't feel guilty , I wish there was a way to get her on this site , get her around some christian's that could help her Edited August 1, 2013 by cozmoe Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Micheal Westin Posted August 27, 2013 Group: Removed from Forums for Breaking Terms of Service Followers: 1 Topic Count: 13 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 616 Content Per Day: 0.14 Reputation: 96 Days Won: 3 Joined: 03/07/2012 Status: Offline Share Posted August 27, 2013 well calling the police would be a good option, since a crime was committed Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kwikphilly Posted August 29, 2013 Group: Worthy Ministers Followers: 96 Topic Count: 307 Topics Per Day: 0.08 Content Count: 18,136 Content Per Day: 4.63 Reputation: 27,817 Days Won: 327 Joined: 08/03/2013 Status: Offline Share Posted August 29, 2013 Hello Maryanne, Let me first welcome you to Worthy Christian Forums....Boy,that is quite an introduction,must have even been hard for you to tell the awful incident....I am truly sorry that you were put in the mix in the first place but I do believe it is not without reason. At first I thought,"Wow,she had better leave that one alone!"and then it sort of gnawed at me....and so I prayed a bit.... And then I really thought about" what Jesus would do",well....I did not get any big revelation but here is what filled my heart.... Now this is just me,what I would do(and I don't have a husband)I would discuss it with my husband and if he was in agreement then WE(you & your hubby)would first go to the guy(as 2 witnesses) and tell him of his wrong doing and that he needed to delete the pornographic material(I don't think everyone here realizes that he SECRETLY took it of her) in front of us or we would have to report this and his illegal drug activities to the police....if he deletes it,we would leave it alone,eventually he will probably end up in jail anyway for the drugs.....if he refuses,then we would go to the authorities Now,like I said...that is what I would do,I would not feel guilty ,as none of this has anything to do with me but I would feel a responsibility that if I stood by and did nothing then I am allowing this to possibly happen to another young ,unsuspecting girl on drugs I would try at all cost to try and not let the girl find out she was video'ed as I would not want to cause her further shame but if it came to the place where we had to go to the police I MIGHT consider telling her before she is told by them- And of course,I would be praying for them both......as I am,I am also praying for you God bless you,Kwik Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ruthie7032 Posted August 29, 2013 Group: Members Followers: 0 Topic Count: 0 Topics Per Day: 0 Content Count: 4 Content Per Day: 0.00 Reputation: 2 Days Won: 0 Joined: 08/28/2013 Status: Offline Share Posted August 29, 2013 (edited) Praying for you, Maryanne. Edited September 2, 2013 by Ruthie7032 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
enoob57 Posted August 29, 2013 Group: Worthy Ministers Followers: 35 Topic Count: 100 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 41,194 Content Per Day: 7.98 Reputation: 21,470 Days Won: 76 Joined: 03/13/2010 Status: Offline Birthday: 07/27/1957 Share Posted August 29, 2013 And all the children of God cried out come quickly Lord Jesus... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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