everseeking Posted May 21, 2016 Group: Removed from Forums for Breaking Terms of Service Followers: 1 Topic Count: 9 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 65 Content Per Day: 0.02 Reputation: 42 Days Won: 0 Joined: 05/15/2016 Status: Offline Author Share Posted May 21, 2016 thanks eveyone much appreciated maybe ezra's answer is the best .....by a nose Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jayne Posted May 21, 2016 Group: Royal Member Followers: 16 Topic Count: 107 Topics Per Day: 0.04 Content Count: 3,820 Content Per Day: 1.30 Reputation: 4,806 Days Won: 2 Joined: 03/31/2016 Status: Offline Share Posted May 21, 2016 (edited) Ezra has a great answer. We should never confuse a healthy self-esteem with a perverted arrogance. Some Christians do. I have talked to several Christians before that believe that self-esteem is the GREAT SIN of the 21st century. I taught many children over my 32 years in the classroom who were broken ...... broken and wretched messes. These children were raised in horrible homes, unattended, and told that they were worthless and served no purpose. These children won't try out for any sports or club offices. They won't raise their hands to answer questions. They won't look you in the eye. And that always made me fighting mad and in my heart, I turned into the Tasmanian Devil whenever I thought of their parents who basically are mental and emotional abusers. It's very, very important to build a healthy self-worth and confidence in children. Our confidence comes through Christ and our worth comes in knowing we are fearfully and wonderfully made. A proper self-esteem leads to people who will try new challenges, look towards the needs and good of others, ask questions - hard questions, and leave their part of the world a better place. Edited May 21, 2016 by Jayne Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
everseeking Posted May 21, 2016 Group: Removed from Forums for Breaking Terms of Service Followers: 1 Topic Count: 9 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 65 Content Per Day: 0.02 Reputation: 42 Days Won: 0 Joined: 05/15/2016 Status: Offline Author Share Posted May 21, 2016 I guess anyone who has been a teacher, Jayne, knows the importance of a healthy self-esteem in their students. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
everseeking Posted May 21, 2016 Group: Removed from Forums for Breaking Terms of Service Followers: 1 Topic Count: 9 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 65 Content Per Day: 0.02 Reputation: 42 Days Won: 0 Joined: 05/15/2016 Status: Offline Author Share Posted May 21, 2016 I like the comment "we start to see ourselves as God sees us". That really resonates with me. Thanks for that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
everseeking Posted May 21, 2016 Group: Removed from Forums for Breaking Terms of Service Followers: 1 Topic Count: 9 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 65 Content Per Day: 0.02 Reputation: 42 Days Won: 0 Joined: 05/15/2016 Status: Offline Author Share Posted May 21, 2016 55 minutes ago, Ezra said: reserved a mansion for each one of us in the New Jerusalem, along with an eternal inheritance that can never fade away. In view of all this, a Christian cannot have low self-esteem, and neither should he or she think they are anything more than servants of God and Christ, thus servants of others (in a positive sense). I haven't reached that stage, only recently starting my faith journey. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mateo Posted May 21, 2016 Group: Member Followers: 1 Topic Count: 8 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 331 Content Per Day: 0.11 Reputation: 117 Days Won: 0 Joined: 01/12/2016 Status: Offline Share Posted May 21, 2016 19 hours ago, everseeking said: hopefully this is a good question It's an important question. I think it's important for Christian to have high Christ esteem, and esteem others higher than themselves. When you focus on that any type of self esteem, be it low or high, kind of becomes irrelevant. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RustyAngeL Posted June 6, 2016 Group: Worthy Ministers Followers: 23 Topic Count: 155 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 7,464 Content Per Day: 1.02 Reputation: 8,810 Days Won: 57 Joined: 03/30/2004 Status: Offline Birthday: 12/12/1952 Share Posted June 6, 2016 On 5/21/2016 at 11:52 AM, shiloh357 said: Self-esteem is really just self-love. The Bible does not command us to love ourselves. I think we at least should like ourselves. However that can get mixed up with loving ourselves to the point of being prideful. That we have to watch out for. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FresnoJoe Posted June 18, 2016 Group: Graduated to Heaven Followers: 207 Topic Count: 60 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 8,651 Content Per Day: 1.17 Reputation: 5,761 Days Won: 4 Joined: 01/31/2004 Status: Offline Birthday: 03/04/1943 Share Posted June 18, 2016 High Esteem Let nothing be done through strife or vainglory; but in lowliness of mind let each esteem other better than themselves. Philippians 2:3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SIC Posted June 18, 2016 Group: Diamond Member Followers: 13 Topic Count: 34 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 2,436 Content Per Day: 0.84 Reputation: 2,625 Days Won: 3 Joined: 05/02/2016 Status: Offline Birthday: 08/11/1989 Share Posted June 18, 2016 On 5/21/2016 at 10:23 PM, kwikphilly said: Blessings everseeking I do think it is a good question & I also think there is a HUGE difference between a person having good self-esteem & high self esteem,,,,,,,as Willa has noted The "warped self esteem" can be both "too much" or "too little" and neither is present in the New Creature that walks in Spirit & in Truth,,,,,,,,we should rejoice & be filled with Joy & Gratitude because of who we ARE in Christ & because of what we are by His Finished Work on the Cross,,,,,,,,in the Eyes of God we are Worthy & Good(blameless,spotless,without stain,blemish, spot or wrinkle) not by our doing but because of God Grace,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, A Christian that thinks highly of himself is not forsaking "self" which is prideful,the person who thinks little of himself is also not forsaking "self" & he too,is prideful because he has not fully submitted to Christ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,there is a good & healthy "self -esteem" that has balance,,,,,,,I know who I am in Christ because I ESTEEM "Jesus" WHO abides in me,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, With love-in Christ,Kwik I agree a 100% with philly here Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marcelo Brüderlein Posted July 2, 2016 Group: Members Followers: 1 Topic Count: 1 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 35 Content Per Day: 0.01 Reputation: 30 Days Won: 0 Joined: 06/22/2016 Status: Offline Share Posted July 2, 2016 Every life is precious because it is created by God. I never have enough of admiring my cats - they are wonderful creatures! Human life is even more precious because we were made in the image and likeness of God. Paul said: "Consider others better than yourself", but this doesn't mean we must have low self esteem. Remember Jesus' words: "Love your neighbor AS yourself ". He didn't say: "MORE than yourself". Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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