church today

[preciouspearl]

some guy tried to kiss me in church he could tell i didnt want it and hes like alright then have a good day as if....alright then? that sounds manipulative

he is a deacon i think....

anyway the pastor didnt have time to pray with me anyway. 

Jesus took time for people. 

[HAZARD]

He had absolutely no right to do that. Probably thinks he's God's gift to women ?

You should have slapped his face, or shoved him away there and then, calling, "HOW DARE YOU!" to teach him a lesson, deacon or not, to keep his hands and his lips off you.

 And the too busy to pray pastor, sounds like an oxygen thief as well. Find another church precious pearl, one that follows the teaching of Jesus Christ.

Sorry, but I cannot stand pushy overbearing men who take advantage of women in any way.

[preciouspearl]

i just......stiffened and was like backing away...

isnt slapping extreme?

i kind of thought this pastor would like to hear what i needed to talk about.

whats God doing in my life? i dont trust him right now.

[RonNicky]

On 11 September 2016 at 7:34 PM, preciouspearl said:

some guy tried to kiss me in church he could tell i didnt want it and hes like alright then have a good day as if....alright then? that sounds manipulative

he is a deacon i think....

anyway the pastor didnt have time to pray with me anyway. 

Jesus took time for people. 

I Pray my friend that God protects you from anything that is not sent by him and give you courage to deal with negative people in a profound manner. remember that no weapon formed against you on earth shall prosper..

[RustyAngeL]

5 hours ago, preciouspearl said:

i just......stiffened and was like backing away...

isnt slapping extreme?

i kind of thought this pastor would like to hear what i needed to talk about.

whats God doing in my life? i dont trust him right now.

I would have slapped him.  he would have  gotten the message.  I would not need a pastor to handle this for me.

I learned a long time ago how to take care of myself.  My husband was a wonderful man.  He taught me that most likely he would not always be around to take of things like that for me so he taught me a few tricks.  

Women have to learn how do deal with things like that and not always depend on someone else to do it for them.

Come on girls... learn how to stand up for yourself and still remain a lady.  It's possible.

[missmuffet]

That is sexual harassment. No need for violence or to slap anyone. I would go right to the Pastor. If he blew off this incident or was on the defense regarding this incident I would immediately leave that Church permanently.

[HAZARD]

5 hours ago, preciouspearl said:

i just......stiffened and was like backing away...

isnt slapping extreme?

i kind of thought this pastor would like to hear what i needed to talk about.

whats God doing in my life? i dont trust him right now.

Please don't mistrust God because of a few bad eggs in that church. Attempting to plant an uninvited kiss on a female member of the church is what I would call extreme. Like I said, find another church that looks after and feeds their brethren.

[preciouspearl]

ill always remain a lady thank you very much.

i think i stand up for myself pretty well. by the time i might have thought to smack him or unfolded my arms instead of tensing and moving he would have probably been able to kiss me and gone through with that.

[preciouspearl]

im sorry. i might not have come across as the kindest in my last post

 

[RustyAngeL]

On 9/12/2016 at 3:37 PM, missmuffet said:

That is sexual harassment. No need for violence or to slap anyone. I would go right to the Pastor. If he blew off this incident or was on the defense regarding this incident I would immediately leave that Church permanently.

Sometimes people just don't get it.  If he tried this in church what might he try if he was ever alone with her or someone else.  I have a friend who just let's everyone walk over her.  She has had two husbands that beat her up and now this man controls everything she does.  She can't make a move without him being in her face.  No thanks.  As I said some people just don't get it.

Blessings,RustyAngeL