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[darkest_red]

Hey Darkest Red!  I like your post!  With women, for the most part, you can pretty much tell if they are craving attention with their choice of clothing and how they present themselves.  I feel this way anyway.  If me for an example am wearing a tube top revealing my stomach and I am some what how do I explain, acting like a you know what, sticking my chest out and acting ditzy then you can only imagine what I am striving for~attention.  This again is my opinion and it may not be agreeable to others.  I present myself with respect and confidence.  That is how I can try and feel a woman out.  Does this make sense?  It is very hard to explain it!

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Thank you!

Yeah, that makes total sense (to me, anyway, who knows about anyone else!!). I have never dressed for attention and I never will. I have dignity and self respect and I do not need attention from a male to feel a sense of worth. If I wear a short skirt then it is because I want too, not because I think it will get me attention from anyone else. I like wearing skirts and I have been told numerous times that I have great legs but do I wear them to get a reaction? No. Do I like the compliment? Yes but only if it is not some guy lusting over me. As has been said, there is a difference between appreciating someone looking good and lusting over them.

As I said, I do not need attention from men to feel a sense of worth.

[Constant]

You know I am starting to feel like this entire thread is aimed at men being the "naughty" ones. Women have issues with lust too! You know, you could be standing there talking to a guy for an example wearing a spring dress and he seems to be very polite and well mannered until, he goes to his friends and cat calls you to them. Hmm....it isn't a perfect world is it?

[Constant]

It is very strange to say but I lust after my husband every single day. Sometimes when we are getting ready to go out somewhere like shopping or for a drive, he looks amazing all the time and I sometimes say "you know honey, you are looking too good so maybe you should put a jacket on or something." I know it is silly but I like when women check him out to appreciate his good looks but I hate when they gauk at him like he is a single guy or a peice of meat. He just looks at me like "yeah okay." He is one that never dresses to get attention. He is a body builder so whatever he wears, his muscles just shine through.

You know what I mean huh Bro Dave?

[Guest Bro David™]

It is very strange to say but I lust after my husband every single day.

[Guest mixedmessages]

I'm wondering why it is always the way women dress that is attacked. As if men are the only ones who get 'evil thoughts' by looking at someone of the opposite sex who is dressed less than decent. I (as a woman) can guarantee that is not true...

Besides, the idea that women should cover themselves (completely or to a degree) so men don't get tempted sounds somewhat medieval to me. It's is for the same reason that muslim women should wear a veil. I don't get that either. Temptation is everywhere and for everyone. It is up to you to resist! Looking at a half naked woman is neither a reason nor an excuse for sinning... And since you can find them everywhere nowadays, you might as well use it as practise in resisting temptation. Otherwise the nude on tv and on the streets is just useless and annoying

Don't get me wrong, I don't think you should go into you neighborhood in bikini, but that's more a matter of taste to me.

greetings, Mix

[Constant]

I'm wondering why it is always the way women dress that is attacked. As if men are the only ones who get 'evil thoughts' by looking at someone of the opposite sex who is dressed less than decent. I (as a woman) can guarantee that is not true...

Besides, the idea that women should cover themselves (completely or to a degree) so men don't get tempted sounds somewhat medieval to me. It's is for the same reason that muslim women should wear a veil. I don't get that either. Temptation is everywhere and for everyone. It is up to you to resist! Looking at a half naked woman is neither a reason nor an excuse for sinning... And since you can find them everywhere nowadays, you might as well use it as practise in resisting temptation. Otherwise  the nude on tv and on the streets is just useless and annoying

Don't get me wrong, I don't think you should go into you neighborhood in bikini, but that's more a matter of taste to me.

greetings, Mix

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Hey Mix,

I agree with you and in fact I have stated in soem of my replies about women with lust for men or women in that matter. Temptation is everywhere and we need to resist it! Welcome!

[RGR]

You know I am starting to feel like this entire thread is aimed at men being the "naughty" ones.  Women have issues with lust too.....

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Constant, TY for realizing what a lot of people don't. As I said before, I've been faithful to my wife and even once had a co-worker invite me home with her, but because I know that to be wrong, I would not do that. It's not been the same though on the flipside of the coin-she's cheated on me once I know by admission and I can think of two or three other times that look really suspicious. We men get labeled as cheaters, but 99% of the time it takes a woman for a man to cheat unless he is homosexual and so many people overlook that-it's not like he held a gun to the woman's head for her to do it. Thanks for some sage wisdom Constant!

[Constant]

You know I am starting to feel like this entire thread is aimed at men being the "naughty" ones.

[Annette443pink]

It is very strange to say but I lust after my husband every single day.  Sometimes when we are getting ready to go out somewhere like shopping or for a drive, he looks amazing all the time and I sometimes say "you know honey, you are looking too good so maybe you should put a jacket on or something."  I know it is silly but I like when women check him out to appreciate his good looks but I hate when they gauk at him like he is a single guy or a peice of meat.  He just looks at me like "yeah okay."  He is one that never dresses to get attention.  He is a body builder so whatever he wears, his muscles just shine through. 

You know what I mean huh Bro Dave?

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[Constant]

It is very strange to say but I lust after my husband every single day.