Your purpose in someone's life

[Neighbor]

On 1/22/2018 at 1:43 PM, God'sOwn said:

Hello all.....

At work today, a discussion came up which was about a man paying the school fee of a woman all through her education ( from high school to university). The woman promised to marry the man but when she graduated from the university, she told the man that she can't marry him because she doesn't love him and he is not up to her standard. Some people said if they were the one, they will cause trouble and so on. I told them that probably the purpose why God brought the man into the Lady's life was to help her through education and not marry her. Some of my colleagues and interns at work thought my answer was spiritual. My question is must everyone you help give you something back? Will you blame the man or the woman? What really should that man do to move on? Do you believe that we all have purpose in the life of everyone we meet? 

"Why should a fool have money in his hand to buy wisdom
    when he has no sense?"

 So a man of some means bought himself a younger woman of promise. When she reached fuller maturity and capacity she had also gained some greater wisdom than he and moved on, leaving him to ponder the  value of his purchase. He wanted for free in the future what he had been paying for. 

Kind of like buying  a car at the end of leasing it for years- the car never turns out to be what it  seemed to be when shinny new on the dealers show room. It has become a much used vehicle not worth the price demanded to own the now well used vehicle.  Best to let it go  and hope to have saved up for another, perhaps buy the next one outright upfront.

Perhaps both  the sugar daddy and the sugar baby should be happy to have lived past this immoral contract and to now still have chance to turn about to better goals in life than contracting for another's body and company, as either leaser or the leased item.

 

 

[notsolostsoul]

On Monday, January 22, 2018 at 1:43 PM, God'sOwn said:

My question is must everyone you help give you something back?

That would be nice, but it is not realistic.

 

On Monday, January 22, 2018 at 1:43 PM, God'sOwn said:

Will you blame the man or the woman?

We should not blame anyone, Both possess reasoning for blame and both possess reasoning that can be seen as innocent. Man, however will never have the thoughts, reasoning nor knowledge that God has to properly judge/blame.

 

On Monday, January 22, 2018 at 1:43 PM, God'sOwn said:

What really should that man do to move on?

If he is spiritual (meaning has a relationship with Jesus/God), he should get real close to God. There may be many lessons for him to learn and through them he may get comfort, guidance and a better understanding/direction for his life. If he is not spiritual, then maybe he should get to know Jesus.

 

On Monday, January 22, 2018 at 1:43 PM, God'sOwn said:

Do you believe that we all have purpose in the life of everyone we meet? 

We definitely have influence upon and in everyone's life we meet, both good and bad. Hopefully more good than bad.

The full purpose of our encounters, sometimes, we will never know. It's God's perfect plan. 

God sometimes uses individuals to do horribly wrong, strictly to benefit the ultimate goals of his plan.

Ex: Pharoah, Judas, Pharisees and those who crucified Jesus.

If it weren't for these individuals, we would not know the Mercy and Grace of God nor The Holy Spirit. Not every wrong is for destruction. It may be a restoration/renovation/renewal.