missmuffet Posted July 11, 2019 Group: Royal Member Followers: 34 Topic Count: 1,994 Topics Per Day: 0.48 Content Count: 48,692 Content Per Day: 11.74 Reputation: 30,343 Days Won: 226 Joined: 01/11/2013 Status: Offline Author Share Posted July 11, 2019 1 hour ago, Spock said: I will try to break the ice here..... Well, one simple and obvious way is to be COMPLETELY FAITHFUL to her. I guess that is honoring to her to know that she truly is THE ONLY CHOSEN ONE FOR ME! Of course, it also honors the Lord by obeying God’s 9th commandment....I guess. Although I don’t think some of these later commandments (5-10) were meant for God’s benefit.....I think they are mostly for our benefit. PS I just asked my wife if she feels honored that I have been completely faithful to her and she said, “Of course!” So there ya go! Being faithful to your spouse is very, very important. 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missmuffet Posted July 11, 2019 Group: Royal Member Followers: 34 Topic Count: 1,994 Topics Per Day: 0.48 Content Count: 48,692 Content Per Day: 11.74 Reputation: 30,343 Days Won: 226 Joined: 01/11/2013 Status: Offline Author Share Posted July 11, 2019 Smearing cake on each others faces in my opinion is not a way to start your marriage. But maybe I am a spoiled sport. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missmuffet Posted July 12, 2019 Group: Royal Member Followers: 34 Topic Count: 1,994 Topics Per Day: 0.48 Content Count: 48,692 Content Per Day: 11.74 Reputation: 30,343 Days Won: 226 Joined: 01/11/2013 Status: Offline Author Share Posted July 12, 2019 1. Love your spouse like Christ loves the Church. You recognize that your spouse was created by God as is therefore worthy and valuable. 2. Allow God to have control of your marriage 100%. 3. Understand that you have a lifetime commitment before God. You marriage is an investment before God. Keep your vows. 4. Spend enjoyable time together. Make "date nights" with your spouse. 5. Keep your communication open at all times. 6. Trust your spouse. If that trust is broken it is a very serious offense. 7. Be individuals. If the husband wants to have a night out with the guys occasionally that is good. Likewise for the wife to have a " girls night out". 8. Become best friends. 9. Pray together and read devotionals together. 10. Feel safe and secure with each other. 11. There are other ways to keep your marriage healthy in an intimate way but not appropriate to share on Worthy. 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blood Bought 1953 Posted July 12, 2019 Group: Royal Member Followers: 13 Topic Count: 48 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 6,726 Content Per Day: 2.85 Reputation: 6,258 Days Won: 5 Joined: 12/03/2017 Status: Offline Share Posted July 12, 2019 If you have her putting shingles on the roof, don’t grumble if you have to hand the water hose up to her... 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GandalfTheWise Posted July 12, 2019 Group: Royal Member Followers: 24 Topic Count: 40 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 1,459 Content Per Day: 0.59 Reputation: 2,377 Days Won: 2 Joined: 08/23/2017 Status: Offline Share Posted July 12, 2019 9 hours ago, Blood Bought 1953 said: If you have her putting shingles on the roof, don’t grumble if you have to hand the water hose up to her... Once I got my wife a power saw for her birthday..... seriously, it's what she wanted. Last week, we were helping our neighbor with his deck. My wife got a big thrill out of using a nail gun for the first time. She had a big grin on her face. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
johnthebaptist Posted July 12, 2019 Group: Non-Conformist Theology Followers: 6 Topic Count: 118 Topics Per Day: 0.06 Content Count: 4,361 Content Per Day: 2.28 Reputation: 2,109 Days Won: 0 Joined: 02/25/2019 Status: Offline Birthday: 02/03/1953 Share Posted July 12, 2019 17 hours ago, missmuffet said: What are some ways a true and born again Christian couple can honor each other? Don't speak badly of each other behind each other's backs without good cause. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blood Bought 1953 Posted July 12, 2019 Group: Royal Member Followers: 13 Topic Count: 48 Topics Per Day: 0.02 Content Count: 6,726 Content Per Day: 2.85 Reputation: 6,258 Days Won: 5 Joined: 12/03/2017 Status: Offline Share Posted July 12, 2019 3 hours ago, GandalfTheWise said: Once I got my wife a power saw for her birthday..... seriously, it's what she wanted. Last week, we were helping our neighbor with his deck. My wife got a big thrill out of using a nail gun for the first time. She had a big grin on her face. Not to be nosy, but......Hiw much did the Honey Moon Suite at Home Depot run? Lol... 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
R. Hartono Posted July 13, 2019 Group: Royal Member Followers: 0 Topic Count: 777 Topics Per Day: 0.34 Content Count: 6,956 Content Per Day: 3.04 Reputation: 1,985 Days Won: 1 Joined: 02/15/2018 Status: Offline Share Posted July 13, 2019 (edited) Don't tell your spouse if you fart. Blame the egg. Edited July 13, 2019 by R. Hartono Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
R. Hartono Posted July 13, 2019 Group: Royal Member Followers: 0 Topic Count: 777 Topics Per Day: 0.34 Content Count: 6,956 Content Per Day: 3.04 Reputation: 1,985 Days Won: 1 Joined: 02/15/2018 Status: Offline Share Posted July 13, 2019 (edited) Don't tell ur spouse if they smelt like goat. Just give expensive perfume. Edited July 13, 2019 by R. Hartono Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Willa Posted July 13, 2019 Group: Worthy Ministers Followers: 68 Topic Count: 186 Topics Per Day: 0.04 Content Count: 14,257 Content Per Day: 3.32 Reputation: 16,675 Days Won: 30 Joined: 08/14/2012 Status: Offline Share Posted July 13, 2019 On 7/11/2019 at 8:51 PM, missmuffet said: 1. Love your spouse like Christ loves the Church. You recognize that your spouse was created by God as is therefore worthy and valuable. 2. Allow God to have control of your marriage 100%. 3. Understand that you have a lifetime commitment before God. You marriage is an investment before God. Keep your vows. 4. Spend enjoyable time together. Make "date nights" with your spouse. 5. Keep your communication open at all times. 6. Trust your spouse. If that trust is broken it is a very serious offense. 7. Be individuals. If the husband wants to have a night out with the guys occasionally that is good. Likewise for the wife to have a " girls night out". 8. Become best friends. 9. Pray together and read devotionals together. 10. Feel safe and secure with each other. 11. There are other ways to keep your marriage healthy in an intimate way but not appropriate to share on Worthy. Thank You Miss Muffy. No guys mentioned praying together. Hubby and I had conversational prayer every night. He led. He usually prayed for the safety of our family and any particular needs I had, I usually prayed for sickness aches and pains and salvation. Then we prayed for friends. I perhaps miss this the most of our relationship. Of course, having his help in caring for the place and repairing stuff are things I also miss. as well as our rides together and going bird watching. We loved exploring dirt roads, logging roads and forrest service roads in the mountains. The peace, coolness, and haunting call of the Swainson's Thrush. And an occasional bear or herd of elk or deer. That lone Bambi investigating a noisy flying insect. Such precious moments we shared. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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