regretting marriage

[Jayne]

1 hour ago, missmuffet said:

It is also bad judgement. A Christian needs to take everything before God before they make their first move. 

I still  don't understand why she is getting the blame for getting married at 16 and in the 10th grade when it has been stated that one that young cannot make those kinds of decisions as their brains are not developed.

I still say if the OP would tell us the year this was written, it might or might not explain things.

[missmuffet]

1 minute ago, Jayne said:

I still  don't understand why she is getting the blame for getting married at 16 and in the 10th grade when it has been stated that one that young cannot make those kinds of decisions as their brains are not developed.

I still say if the OP would tell us the year this was written, it might or might not explain things.

What country was she from? Women in some countries marry very young. And this could be a very old situation since like you said we do not know when it was written. There are some parts of the world where there are still arranged marriages. 

[Jayne]

On 9/15/2022 at 12:21 AM, R. Hartono said:

In the next 10 years she will be a wrinkled statue in a junk yard.

So you think a woman who is 40 is a wrinkled statue in a junk yard?  I am 61.  What must  you think of me?

[TrueFollowerOfChrist]

On 9/14/2022 at 11:21 PM, R. Hartono said:

In the next 10 years she will be a wrinkled statue in a junk yard.

Wow. That is a horrible thing to say. My wife is 40 and she doesn't have wrinkles. She's the most beautiful woman I've ever met, inside and out. Age has nothing to do with beauty. Even if she had wrinkles, she would be the most beautiful woman God ever made.

[missmuffet]

10 minutes ago, TrueFollowerOfChrist said:

Wow. That is a horrible thing to say. My wife is 40 and she doesn't have wrinkles. She's the most beautiful woman I've ever met, inside and out. Age has nothing to do with beauty. Even if she had wrinkles, she would be the most beautiful woman God ever made.

The point is that you marry a person for better or worse. You love them if they get fat and you love them when they grow old and turn gray and have wrinkles. Women love their husband if they go bald. If you do not then you are shallow and it was not a true love to begin with. 

[JohnR7]

On 9/15/2022 at 12:29 PM, missmuffet said:

Wise words. She should have looked at the age before she married him.

Women who never really had a father like older men. 

[JohnR7]

5 hours ago, missmuffet said:

If you do not then you are shallow and it was not a true love to begin with. 

Love comes from God. He puts His love in us. God's love is sacrificial. 

John 3:16 For God so loved the world that He gave His only-begotten Son. 

[missmuffet]

53 minutes ago, JohnR7 said:

Women who never really had a father like older men. 

There are reasons why some women like older men. And then there are women who like men younger than them. 

[JohnR7]

55 minutes ago, missmuffet said:

There are reasons why some women like older men. And then there are women who like men younger than them. 

Some women like to be sugar babies and some women like to be sugar mamma's https://worthychristianforums-h45go6maxh5rpepgu.netdna-ssl.com/uploads/emoticons/default_smile.png 

What I really wonder about is the relationships they had before the civil war in the south. There is a lot of violence in our American cities and I think a lot of it goes back to that. Kind of a generational thing. 

[missmuffet]

37 minutes ago, JohnR7 said:

Some women like to be sugar babies and some women like to be sugar mamma's https://worthychristianforums-h45go6maxh5rpepgu.netdna-ssl.com/uploads/emoticons/default_smile.png 

What I really wonder about is the relationships they had before the civil war in the south. There is a lot of violence in our American cities and I think a lot of it goes back to that. Kind of a generational thing. 

There are very few proverbs 31 women in our world today. Actually they are quite rare. There are a lot of shrews.