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Hi,

I lead a youth group in Russia. All the girls really want to get married soon. i'm teaching them about marriage. I don't have a husband. I'd like to hear from you.

Any tips on how to have a good marriage?

Your husband should be your best friend always. Understanding, trust and forgiveness are a must in a good marriage.

I have been married for 8 years and I was a very young bride. He was my first everything and my best friend. We have been through great times and the worst of times but we have a bond that can't be broken and that is Jesus! He somehow brought us together and this is where I am meant to be and where I want to be.

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Any tips on how to have a good marriage?

Be a servant. :whistling:

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Read and obey the Christian Scriptures and you will not have any problems.

The reason marriages break down is because of one thing and one thing only .. . . . . . ... . ..

pride

That is the truth. :whistling:

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I agree...if each is acting humbly in love to the other (which, I admit, is not something most of us can go through our entire lives doing, but do try), there's little room for things to go wrong.

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Very wise. ;)

This link has some of the best advice I've ever seen. (The List That Saved My Marriage)

Also, love the Lord more than you love our spouse and love your spouse more than you love yourself. Never expect to give 50/50. Give 100%.

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Somehow the young girls I teach think that they will boss their husband around. :o It's tough to get across to them that they'll need to submit.

I have been married for 16 years so I think that qualifies me here. :b:

Our marriage has not always been perfect. When we first married we were not equally yolked. I honestly thought at times it wouldn't work. But I prayed continually for him and within 3 years of marraige he gave his life to the Lord.

My advice: Put God smack dab inthe middle and all will be well.

Don't get mad at your spouse until you have sat down and thought about why they reacted a certain way and why they said what they may have said to make you mad.

Be forgiving

Dont expect them to read your mind

Pray together everyday.

Pray for one another.

Attend worship together.

Don't go to bed angry ;)

Treat your spouse as the head of your house and submit to his authority. (tough one) :huh:

k.

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I'm very happy for you! ;)

Hi,

I lead a youth group in Russia. All the girls really want to get married soon. i'm teaching them about marriage. I don't have a husband. I'd like to hear from you.

Any tips on how to have a good marriage?

Your husband should be your best friend always. Understanding, trust and forgiveness are a must in a good marriage.

I have been married for 8 years and I was a very young bride. He was my first everything and my best friend. We have been through great times and the worst of times but we have a bond that can't be broken and that is Jesus! He somehow brought us together and this is where I am meant to be and where I want to be.

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Hi,

I lead a youth group in Russia. All the girls really want to get married soon. i'm teaching them about marriage. I don't have a husband. I'd like to hear from you.

Any tips on how to have a good marriage?

Put God first in your marriage and quit being selfish, that is, stop looking for your husband/wife to please you and think about how you can please him or her. Be willing to give up a lot of self. Sounds hard, but you'll be happier in the long run.

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You've been given some good advise here. But, after 36 years of marriage, I believe the best advise that can be given you is to teach the Girls to make sure that GOD is putting the marriage together. In the U.S the divorce rate is as high in the Christian community as it is for the rest of our society and I believe that's because too few couples bother to ask God if they are supposed to marry the one they are interested in. Instead they run to the altar and ask God to bless THEIR choice. When GOD puts a marriage together HE does it right.

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Thanks! Great advice. :emot-heartbeat:

Hi,

I lead a youth group in Russia. All the girls really want to get married soon. i'm teaching them about marriage. I don't have a husband. I'd like to hear from you.

Any tips on how to have a good marriage?

Put God first in your marriage and quit being selfish, that is, stop looking for your husband/wife to please you and think about how you can please him or her. Be willing to give up a lot of self. Sounds hard, but you'll be happier in the long run.

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