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This guy I've known for 9 years now. We have been on again and off again for the 9 years. Long history, lots of back and forth and him leaving and me leaving and him being with other girls, yada yada...

Sometimes we would stop talking all together.

The last few years he has realized that I might be the one and has tried desperately to track down me "the one that got away."

So when I got in touch with him, he was really happy. But then i got scared and ran away, which really hurt him.

Then years later (just recently) I got in touch with him again which made him really happy again because he had been trying to find me again. He had heard some misinformation that I had gotten married and it scared him into trying to find me.

When I contacted him he was really excited again and kept asking me out but then I kept saying the time was bad but he kept asking me because he really wanted to give us a shot. I also voiced my concerns about the fact that we seemed incompatible due to lifestyle differences which he disagreed with.

So....then just the other day he asked me out one afternoon and i was sposed to answer his call that night to confirm. But i got scared so I turned my phone off and ignored the message he left me.

Hours later I got an email saying "you're right, we're not compatible, im not good for you, youre a cool girl but not with me, we have a past but I know we dont have a future, i see no other reason for us to keep talking, goodbye." the next day he left a similar message on my phone.

So now im sad and im wondering if im supposed to take what he said at face value? Is it really done with me for good? Does he really mean it?

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well from a non guy point of view if that were my son you were messing with I would tell him to stay well away from you ...what are you trying to achieve? you do not want to have a relationship with this man because ??? but you cant leave him alone because???? are you bored ???? do you like playing with peoples feelings ????

Either you can be friends with him without the silly game playing or you need to leave him alone because the way you are behaving someone is going to be hurt :emot-hug:

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So now I'm sad and I'm wondering if I'm supposed to take what he said at face value? Is it really done with me for good? Does he really mean it?
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Dear Sister

You Are Kidding?

Real Men don't even think like that.

If Men Are Not Attracted to the woman. they get on with their life.

If they Like the woman, they try to get close.

If they like women, they try to get close.

Although He May Think He Is Gaming YOU, This fellow is just quoting really bad soap opera.

I think he needs to turn the daytime TV off and get a job!

You need a friend and a man, not some second-rate drama queen!

Just a thought! :)

(laugh as you run!)

Love, Your Brother Joe


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I'm with Lady P on this. Seems like you have been turning him on and off like a light switch and he's finally got fed up!


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Here's how relationships are supposed to work.

Boy meets girl. Boy likes girl, girl likes boy. Boy and girl date for a long time. Boy and girl love eachother. Boy asks girl to marry him, girl says yes. Boy and girl get married. DONE.

That's it. it really is that simple.

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Here's how relationships are supposed to work.

Boy meets girl. Boy likes girl, girl likes boy. Boy and girl date for a long time. Boy and girl love eachother. Boy asks girl to marry him, girl says yes. Boy and girl get married. DONE.

That's it. it really is that simple.

:whistling:

Day One - Boy Meets Girl - Girl Steals Boy's Heart

Week One - Boy Discovers His Heart Is Stoled

Week Two - Boy Proposes Marrage

Silly Girl Says Yes

Boy And Girl Marry

Thirthy Eight Years Later Boy Still Chases Girl

Girl Still Steals Boy's Heart

Girls Are So Sneaky :whistling::whistling::P


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you're a goof Joe! :thumbsup:


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This guy I've known for 9 years now. We have been on again and off again for the 9 years. Long history, lots of back and forth and him leaving and me leaving and him being with other girls, yada yada...

Sometimes we would stop talking all together.

The last few years he has realized that I might be the one and has tried desperately to track down me "the one that got away."

So when I got in touch with him, he was really happy. But then i got scared and ran away, which really hurt him.

Then years later (just recently) I got in touch with him again which made him really happy again because he had been trying to find me again. He had heard some misinformation that I had gotten married and it scared him into trying to find me.

When I contacted him he was really excited again and kept asking me out but then I kept saying the time was bad but he kept asking me because he really wanted to give us a shot. I also voiced my concerns about the fact that we seemed incompatible due to lifestyle differences which he disagreed with.

So....then just the other day he asked me out one afternoon and i was sposed to answer his call that night to confirm. But i got scared so I turned my phone off and ignored the message he left me.

Hours later I got an email saying "you're right, we're not compatible, im not good for you, youre a cool girl but not with me, we have a past but I know we dont have a future, i see no other reason for us to keep talking, goodbye." the next day he left a similar message on my phone.

So now im sad and im wondering if im supposed to take what he said at face value? Is it really done with me for good? Does he really mean it?

Cajunboy::::Could be wrong and it's really up to you two but, it doesn't sound like "bells" going off in this relationship, and if you're not already "testing" the waters, it sure sounds like he IS ! I'd be really careful, because it sounds like you two are very comfortable with having each of you close enough to keep you both confined to each other yet no real love can come out of "jealosy" or just being comfortable. Sounds like he already has a back up too!

Good luck! And Is he a Christian?


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"This guy I've known for 9 years now. We have been on again and off again for the 9 years. Long history, lots of back and forth and him leaving and me leaving and him being with other girls, yada yada...

Sometimes we would stop talking all together."

I surmise that somewhere between "yada, yada" and "sometimes we would stop talking all together" is some information that would solve the whole problem.


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"This guy I've known for 9 years now. We have been on again and off again for the 9 years. Long history, lots of back and forth and him leaving and me leaving and him being with other girls, yada yada...

Sometimes we would stop talking all together."

I surmise that somewhere between "yada, yada" and "sometimes we would stop talking all together" is some information that would solve the whole problem.

Just that were both commitmentphobes so thers a lot of ugliness in between.

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