Shy Christian Posted January 5, 2015 Group: Advanced Member Followers: 0 Topic Count: 23 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 198 Content Per Day: 0.03 Reputation: 57 Days Won: 1 Joined: 08/03/2006 Status: Offline Share Posted January 5, 2015 (edited) My son is in his 20's and lives with me. I recently looked at the photos on his phone and saw two selfies he had taken ** Removed **. (added by NCN , " A rude gesture") This took me completely by surprise as it didn't look like MY son. He doesn't smoke, drink, or even swear and has never been in any trouble. We attend church together. When I asked him about it, he said it was nothing and he just thought it was a cool picture. He said it wasn't directed at anyone and that he doesn't have any pent up anger. Do you think I got upset over nothing? Edited January 5, 2015 by ncn Please remember Worthy is a family friendly Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ncn Posted January 5, 2015 Group: Graduated to Heaven Followers: 6 Topic Count: 406 Topics Per Day: 0.09 Content Count: 5,248 Content Per Day: 1.13 Reputation: 1,337 Days Won: 67 Joined: 08/07/2011 Status: Offline Share Posted January 5, 2015 I have edited your thread title and removed the detail of the self photograph, changing it to , "a rude gesture" Please remember that Worthy has younger members and guests who read the forums. It's not necessary to use explicit language to ask a question or voice an opinion. How we express ourselves is also a testimony to others. The same advice might be a good topic to start discussing with your son. God Bless , Nigel. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missmuffet Posted January 5, 2015 Group: Royal Member Followers: 34 Topic Count: 1,993 Topics Per Day: 0.48 Content Count: 48,691 Content Per Day: 11.76 Reputation: 30,343 Days Won: 226 Joined: 01/11/2013 Status: Offline Share Posted January 5, 2015 My son is in his 20's and lives with me. I recently looked at the photos on his phone and saw two selfies he had taken ** Removed **. (added by NCN , " A rude gesture") This took me completely by surprise as it didn't look like MY son. He doesn't smoke, drink, or even swear and has never been in any trouble. We attend church together. When I asked him about it, he said it was nothing and he just thought it was a cool picture. He said it wasn't directed at anyone and that he doesn't have any pent up anger. Do you think I got upset over nothing? So....do you really know your son and what he is really doing?I would be cautious. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shy Christian Posted January 5, 2015 Group: Advanced Member Followers: 0 Topic Count: 23 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 198 Content Per Day: 0.03 Reputation: 57 Days Won: 1 Joined: 08/03/2006 Status: Offline Author Share Posted January 5, 2015 He's not done anything wrong that I'm aware of. He said he could (do rude gesture) and a second later be petting the cat...that it's meaningless. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Riverwalker Posted January 5, 2015 Group: Diamond Member Followers: 2 Topic Count: 92 Topics Per Day: 0.03 Content Count: 2,054 Content Per Day: 0.60 Reputation: 1,753 Days Won: 4 Joined: 12/09/2014 Status: Offline Share Posted January 5, 2015 Honey, your son is an adult who is doing things you do not know about, and you just saw a little bit of it. Either accept that or maybe stop snooping Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shy Christian Posted January 5, 2015 Group: Advanced Member Followers: 0 Topic Count: 23 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 198 Content Per Day: 0.03 Reputation: 57 Days Won: 1 Joined: 08/03/2006 Status: Offline Author Share Posted January 5, 2015 Honey, your son is an adult who is doing things you do not know about, and you just saw a little bit of it. Either accept that or maybe stop snooping If he's doing bad things it's NOT acceptable to me. However, I can practically rule out everything. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
other one Posted January 5, 2015 Group: Worthy Ministers Followers: 29 Topic Count: 599 Topics Per Day: 0.08 Content Count: 56,260 Content Per Day: 7.56 Reputation: 27,988 Days Won: 271 Joined: 12/29/2003 Status: Offline Share Posted January 5, 2015 I'm not sure what the hand gesture was, but if that's the worst thing you've seen him do count your blessings..... It's OK to tell him you don't approve but I don't think it's wise to make an issue out of it unless it's a spiritual thing.... There are some occultic hand signals that I would be worried about if anyone was taking selfies doing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shy Christian Posted January 5, 2015 Group: Advanced Member Followers: 0 Topic Count: 23 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 198 Content Per Day: 0.03 Reputation: 57 Days Won: 1 Joined: 08/03/2006 Status: Offline Author Share Posted January 5, 2015 I'm not sure what the hand gesture was, but if that's the worst thing you've seen him do count your blessings..... It's OK to tell him you don't approve but I don't think it's wise to make an issue out of it unless it's a spiritual thing.... There are some occultic hand signals that I would be worried about if anyone was taking selfies doing. Honestly, that IS the worst I've ever seen or heard of him doing (flipping off). That's why I was so surprised. I want to be a diligent parent but don't want to overreact. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
other one Posted January 5, 2015 Group: Worthy Ministers Followers: 29 Topic Count: 599 Topics Per Day: 0.08 Content Count: 56,260 Content Per Day: 7.56 Reputation: 27,988 Days Won: 271 Joined: 12/29/2003 Status: Offline Share Posted January 5, 2015 I'm not sure what the hand gesture was, but if that's the worst thing you've seen him do count your blessings..... It's OK to tell him you don't approve but I don't think it's wise to make an issue out of it unless it's a spiritual thing.... There are some occultic hand signals that I would be worried about if anyone was taking selfies doing. Honestly, that IS the worst I've ever seen or heard of him doing (flipping off). That's why I was so surprised. I want to be a diligent parent but don't want to overreact. consider yourself very blessed if that's the worst thing he's done. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Littlelambseativy Posted January 5, 2015 Group: Royal Member Followers: 6 Topic Count: 230 Topics Per Day: 0.04 Content Count: 4,941 Content Per Day: 0.95 Reputation: 2,003 Days Won: 14 Joined: 02/08/2010 Status: Offline Share Posted January 5, 2015 Does he live at home?? If so he should honour your wishes or as Judge Judy would so eloquently say... As long as he breathes your air, he should follow your wishes. Isn't this the same as honouring your parents?? It does reflect on him and his parents. Young people forget that what is public can stay public even to prospective employers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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