why is it

[Iryssa]

I like to get into the discussions to see how others have arrived at their view and then see if it lines up with scripture.  I think it's a great way to learn new things.

Obviously, people are very passionate about what they believe and trying to convince others -- it helps to try and see the other persons point of view and then study it for yourself.  It's challengeing and it does sharpen your own views. 

I say, let the discussions begin!! and continue, and continue....

CarolineS

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I agree When I debate something, my goal is not necessarily to get someone to "convert" to my way of thinking. Instead, it's to attain a mutual understanding of the varying views. Of course, I get a little stronger in my arguments when I find someone's wilfully manipulating or misinterpreting scripture (by taking it out of context or otherwise)...

[Fiosh]

Why is it almost every thread  there is a broo ha ha   

some one has to argue  some one has to have a different view  some one has to be different 

its as if  they go out of their way  to take the other side

is it just me that sees this  or do others see it to

In  Christ

IreneM

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JMHO....I enjoy discussion and yes, even debate. I have grown immensely over the years in my understanding of my faith thru debate with others who differ in their convictions. Debate spurs me to study and research. It gives energy to my quest for deeper understanding. Even if I don't agree, I still learn to see things from another's perspective. I believe this does foster unity and not division.

However, I respect the fact that not everyone enjoys debate. Most of my friends do not, which is why I turn here for that endeavor.

Some of us are able to engage in heated debate and when the "bell rings" shake hands and leave the ring. Some of that happens thru "PM's" whch you do not see.

I try, as do some others, to leave pride out of the debate. (not saying I'm always successful) My goal is to work toward mutual understanding, if not agreement.

I am blest by all that I meet here at Worthy, even the atheists and agnostics....and Catholic-bashers.

May the peace of Christ be with you,

Fiosh

[IreneM]

it just seems some argue for the sake of agruing and that is what I fidn so disheartening to me .

It seems there is always some one to take the oposite side of everything no matter what the discussion and that just seems soooooo I don't know arguing for the arguement it will cause.

Unchristian yes nesessary no.........

In Christ

IreneM

[Fiosh]

it just seems some  argue for the sake of agruing  and that is what I fidn so disheartening  to me .

It seems there is always some one to take the oposite side of everything  no matter what the discussion  and that just seems soooooo  I don't know  arguing for the arguement it will cause.

    Unchristian  yes  nesessary  no.........

In Christ

IreneM

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Not me.

Love ya,

F

[BigJer]

I saw a sign that read this:

IF YOU WANT TO ATTRACT A CROWD, START A FIGHT

It is my theory that some of us (not just on this board, but generally on most discussion boards) are begging for attention from someone. The quickest way to do this is to start a board fight. It may not be the best way to get attention, but it works nonetheless.

Others just like to argue. They live for a good fight. They say they are fighting for God so they can justify it. Maybe their life at home is crumby. Maybe they can't get out like they would like.

I know this isn't the case with most, so please don't start your own personal disclaimer on this thread on my response. Just ask if you are one of these. If you really are not, fine. If it strikes true in your case, just repent and confess it and go on.

Most of us just like to talk about our thoughts and scriptures on different matters.

[Trust & Obey]

Why is it almost every thread  there is a broo ha ha   

some one has to argue  some one has to have a different view  some one has to be different 

its as if  they go out of their way  to take the other side

is it just me that sees this  or do others see it to

In  Christ

IreneM

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Guilty!!!

Sorry, gang. I enjoy the discussion/debate tremendously. Like pastoreric said, religious discussion is intense because it is such an important part of all of our lives.

That is why you can get Muslim warriors to do things that most regular soldiers won't do... like blow themselves up without end to the list of people lining up to do it.

People of faith are more committed to their faith than to anything else. So, it seems fitting that the fervor can reach a fevered pitch at times.

The important thing is to be gentle, kind, compassionate, and teachable yourself, and to never, ever, never, ever insult somebody. We are all family!

2Ti 2:24 And the servant of the Lord must not strive; but be gentle unto all men, apt to teach, patient,

2Ti 2:25 In meekness instructing those that oppose themselves; if God peradventure will give them repentance to the acknowledging of the truth;

2Ti 2:26 And that they may recover themselves out of the snare of the devil, who are taken captive by him at his will.

Not that fellow belivers of a different persuasion are "ensnared by the devil.." but the principle still applies. No striving... done in gentleness and patience.

I can honestly say that when I walk away from a debate I love the other person more, since I usually get to know that person much better. I never take a debate personally. And, I think that is the danger for some people. Some people are more apt to get emotionally involved rather than just engaging their minds.

Anyways, if I've offended anyone I truly apologize. I'm enjoying my time here at Worthy and am greatful for all of you guys/gals.

[hmh]

I prefer a good debate or discussion instead of fighting. If a topic gets heated over feelings and there is no profit in staying, I leave. I fight enough on a daily basis to come here and fight even more.

[Iryssa]

I can honestly say that when I walk away from a debate I love the other person more, since I usually get to know that person much better. I never take a debate personally. And, I think that is the danger for some people. Some people are more apt to get emotionally involved rather than just engaging their minds.

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Totally feel the same way I find you can tell a lot about someone by the way they conduct themselves in an argument. Since I can't see people's body language or hear their tone of voice on a message board (I can only make inferences by the way they write), I do find it's actually easiest for me to get to know someone's personality during a debate when I'm in this kind of setting. The result? A better understanding and love of that person.

I'm also open to being told when/if I'm being hurtful. If I do that, it's entirely unintentional, and I probably don't even know I've done it...so let me know!! The biblical method for confronting someone with an issue is by first going to that person with the issue, then if they won't do something about it, take it before two or three witnesses, then if they STILL refuse to do something about it, take it before leaders/authorities (on the board, that would probably mean Administrators/Moderators). Check out Matthew 18:15-17 for Jesus' instruction on that.

So, ya there you have it. Much love, all

[Trust & Obey]

And remember to HAVE FUN!

Most of us as Christians have made the study of the Word a primary part of our lives. And, it is a good thing to let it also let the Word flow out just as it flows in.

If we continually take in the word and never let it flow out then we can become stale.

[Scarletprayers]

And remember to HAVE FUN!

Most of us as Christians have made the study of the Word a primary part of our lives. And, it is a good thing to let it also let the Word flow out just as it flows in.

If we continually take in the word and never let it flow out then we can become stale.

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I think thats a very astute statement Trust & Obey, if you just take in the Word, and never share it or discuss it..................what good is it actually doing you.

I think there are a very few (thank goodness) that like to argue, they HAVE to be right, I just leave the thread when that starts. You are never going to be able to have any type of meaningful conversation with someone like that, so why try.