Almondtree Posted July 24, 2020 Group: Members Followers: 1 Topic Count: 2 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 3 Content Per Day: 0.00 Reputation: 4 Days Won: 0 Joined: 10/31/2019 Status: Offline Share Posted July 24, 2020 Unintentionally, I made someone very upset and I can only guess what I did that made him upset. It is painful each time I meet the person. I never had intention to make him upset or put him in troubles. We do not know each other personally, only professionally so it’s awkward if I suddenly apologize or something. Can God restore the relationship and erase bad memories if I pray ? I admit I might have done something wrong that could have made him upset. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Knotical Posted July 24, 2020 Group: Advanced Member Followers: 3 Topic Count: 12 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 183 Content Per Day: 0.13 Reputation: 106 Days Won: 0 Joined: 05/17/2020 Status: Offline Share Posted July 24, 2020 The best way to restore any kind of relationship is to confront the problem and ask forgiveness if needed. Sure, it could be awkward, but they may see you in a better light if you approach it as if you understand you may have upset them and are looking to resolve the conflict. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Justin Adams Posted July 24, 2020 Group: Worthy Ministers Followers: 25 Topic Count: 61 Topics Per Day: 0.03 Content Count: 9,606 Content Per Day: 3.97 Reputation: 7,795 Days Won: 21 Joined: 09/11/2017 Status: Offline Share Posted July 24, 2020 1 hour ago, Almondtree said: Unintentionally, I made someone very upset and I can only guess what I did that made him upset. It is painful each time I meet the person. I never had intention to make him upset or put him in troubles. We do not know each other personally, only professionally so it’s awkward if I suddenly apologize or something. Can God restore the relationship and erase bad memories if I pray ? I admit I might have done something wrong that could have made him upset. Nothing is beyond the scope of what God can do. Sometimes we have to step aside and give the Lord the 'space' to work in. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AnOrangeCat Posted July 24, 2020 Group: Diamond Member Followers: 5 Topic Count: 57 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 1,407 Content Per Day: 0.27 Reputation: 1,827 Days Won: 0 Joined: 12/24/2009 Status: Offline Share Posted July 24, 2020 4 hours ago, Almondtree said: Unintentionally, I made someone very upset and I can only guess what I did that made him upset. It is painful each time I meet the person. I never had intention to make him upset or put him in troubles. We do not know each other personally, only professionally so it’s awkward if I suddenly apologize or something. Can God restore the relationship and erase bad memories if I pray ? I admit I might have done something wrong that could have made him upset. God could, but is it in the nature of God to do so in this circumstance? I hate to be blunt or sound judgmental but it seems like you're prioritizing getting back the benefits of a professional relationship and sparing yourself a feeling of awkwardness over taking responsibility and trying to make things right. I think you're probably better off taking the awkwardness and apologizing. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LonerAndy Posted July 24, 2020 Group: Senior Member Followers: 4 Topic Count: 19 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 693 Content Per Day: 0.42 Reputation: 396 Days Won: 0 Joined: 10/28/2019 Status: Offline Share Posted July 24, 2020 5 hours ago, Almondtree said: Unintentionally, I made someone very upset and I can only guess what I did that made him upset. It is painful each time I meet the person. I never had intention to make him upset or put him in troubles. We do not know each other personally, only professionally so it’s awkward if I suddenly apologize or something. Can God restore the relationship and erase bad memories if I pray ? I admit I might have done something wrong that could have made him upset. Yes, G-d can erase bad memories, but that is not likely to happen. Instead you will likely have to simply work through it, and hope that time and effort will heal wounds. This is why it is important to avoid causing wounds, unless they are absolutely required. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Almondtree Posted July 24, 2020 Group: Members Followers: 1 Topic Count: 2 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 3 Content Per Day: 0.00 Reputation: 4 Days Won: 0 Joined: 10/31/2019 Status: Offline Author Share Posted July 24, 2020 Thank you for the reply. Yeah. It was unintentionally. I have disabilities and I make people upset all the time Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missmuffet Posted July 24, 2020 Group: Royal Member Followers: 34 Topic Count: 1,991 Topics Per Day: 0.48 Content Count: 48,689 Content Per Day: 11.80 Reputation: 30,343 Days Won: 226 Joined: 01/11/2013 Status: Offline Share Posted July 24, 2020 7 hours ago, Almondtree said: Unintentionally, I made someone very upset and I can only guess what I did that made him upset. It is painful each time I meet the person. I never had intention to make him upset or put him in troubles. We do not know each other personally, only professionally so it’s awkward if I suddenly apologize or something. Can God restore the relationship and erase bad memories if I pray ? I admit I might have done something wrong that could have made him upset. You can approach that person and ask what you did to upset him. You can apologize. God can not erase bad memories. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
angels4u Posted July 24, 2020 Group: Worthy Ministers Followers: 56 Topic Count: 1,664 Topics Per Day: 0.20 Content Count: 19,764 Content Per Day: 2.39 Reputation: 12,164 Days Won: 28 Joined: 08/22/2001 Status: Offline Share Posted July 24, 2020 25 minutes ago, missmuffet said: 8 hours ago, Almondtree said: Unintentionally, I made someone very upset and I can only guess what I did that made him upset. It is painful each time I meet the person. I never had intention to make him upset or put him in troubles. We do not know each other personally, only professionally so it’s awkward if I suddenly apologize or something. Can God restore the relationship and erase bad memories if I pray ? I admit I might have done something wrong that could have made him upset. Sometimes,it's just good to get it out in the open ,if it was me,I don't like to live with those things on my mind ,you feel so much better going to that person or write a letter and talk about it,tell him/she/what is on your mind and try to make up for whatever happened,but that's just me in that case you did your part and you have a clear mind. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fidei Defensor Posted July 24, 2020 Group: Royal Member Followers: 18 Topic Count: 165 Topics Per Day: 0.06 Content Count: 3,997 Content Per Day: 1.56 Reputation: 2,607 Days Won: 15 Joined: 04/29/2017 Status: Offline Share Posted July 24, 2020 (edited) Yes he can. I have asked the Lord to erase a painful memory and he did. God can forget, “For I will forgive their wickedness and will remember their sins no more." (Hebrews 8:12) God lives in us and we in God: “All who declare that Jesus is the Son of God have God living in them, and they live in God” (1 John 4:15) Ergo we can ask God who can forget to help us forget because He lives in us and we in Him. Edited July 24, 2020 by Fidei Defensor 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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