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My situation is a bit dark and seems unchanging. God doesnt want me to be with my bf. But he seems like a way out of my situation but i know its not his will to cohabitat ...living at home has been hellish. 

 

I need a lot of courage to let go bc i cant see my situation changing. 

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17 minutes ago, Figure of eighty said:

but i know its not his will to cohabitate

Marriage? Commitment? 

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24 minutes ago, Waggles said:

Marriage? Commitment? 

No. He said no.

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It is simple and always in this will be -we either serve God or ourselves ...  prayed...

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2 hours ago, Figure of eighty said:

No. He said no.

Then he does not value you. No point living with him. 

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2 hours ago, Figure of eighty said:

No. He said no.

What a cad! Give him the elbow sister and ask the Lord to raise up a gentleman. Sounds miraculous, but I want to encourage you because when I married my wife, a young brother really stumbled due to his sense of rejection and because he was somewhat short in stature - so I prayed for him and some months later he found a wonderful woman to love and marry. And he was training as a tax inspector - so that needed a miracle. :D Perhaps all you need is a little more confidence and eyes to see the right man.

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2 hours ago, Kelly2363 said:

What a cad! Give him the elbow sister and ask the Lord to raise up a gentleman. Sounds miraculous, but I want to encourage you because when I married my wife, a young brother really stumbled due to his sense of rejection and because he was somewhat short in stature - so I prayed for him and some months later he found a wonderful woman to love and marry. And he was training as a tax inspector - so that needed a miracle. :D Perhaps all you need is a little more confidence and eyes to see the right man.

Oh no no not my bf. Im saying God. My bf has a bit of a temper ..when i asked him for things for the baby he cussed me out.  He did want to marry me but i said no bc of that. 

 

 

Also i dont want another guy or relationship. I truly took my singleness for granted.

 

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1 hour ago, Figure of eighty said:

Oh no no not my bf. Im saying God. My bf has a bit of a temper ..when i asked him for things for the baby he cussed me out.  He did want to marry me but i said no bc of that. 

 

 

Also i dont want another guy or relationship. I truly took my singleness for granted.

 

Thats good then. So your situation at home is your problem then?

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I remember now sister. I did read your past posts and the way you explained your sense of danger. So seeing as God has removed your likelihood of marrying your boyfriend and you have begun to appreciate your singleness how do you see yourself now? Are you still worried about the environment you live in?  Is that why you need prayer? 

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15 hours ago, Figure of eighty said:

My situation is a bit dark and seems unchanging. God doesnt want me to be with my bf. But he seems like a way out of my situation but i know its not his will to cohabitat ...living at home has been hellish. 

 

I need a lot of courage to let go bc i cant see my situation changing. 

Sin is always tempting but it leads to trouble.

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22 hours ago, Figure of eighty said:

My situation is a bit dark and seems unchanging. God doesnt want me to be with my bf. But he seems like a way out of my situation but i know its not his will to cohabitat ...living at home has been hellish. 

I need a lot of courage to let go bc i cant see my situation changing. 

For one thing, keep in mind that real love is not just an emotion. Love is a choice to act on someone's behalf. "For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son..." Loving means acting on the object of the love's behalf, unselfishly. When you think of your boyfriends attitudes and actions, does he love you or does he love himself?

Once you realize that he is loving himself and not you, you can begin to imagine what a life with him daily would be like. God is telling you not to cohabitate with them not just because it's sinful, but because he knows it will be even more damaging for you in the long run.

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