Some minor changes in Moderation

[George]

33 minutes ago, Not of the World said:

Asking questions HERE in this community is one of the best ways that I learn about the truth of God versus that which is deceptive and of the world.  Some of my questions sometimes upset others and then it's my fault for them being upset.  One very good poster, who I believe is experiencing a certain level of paranoia, essentially accused of me surreptitiously advancing Catholicism in this community because I ask a lot of questions about that theology and share some of their beliefs here so that other posts here, who are far more learned on the word of God than I, can elaborate on such things in order that I (and others) CAN LEARN!  

However, I also understand that the greater community here may prefer that the discussion be kept light and "positive" meaning, don't ask questions that might make another uncomfortable.  Perhaps the community prefers to stick to sharing recipes, sharing Bible verses, supporting one another in the prayer request forum, etc.  

I did join "Christian Forums" today as it is my hope that I can discuss how Catholicism is either missing from scripture or even in contradiction to scripture so that I CAN LEARN.  

My question is, is this community a suitable place to discuss such things or, going forward, should I avoid any topic that has the slightest chance to offend someone?  Thank you.

If there are any issues ... just report them.  😀

It's a discussion board ... most subjects are up for discussion. 

Some subjects though may need to be behind a password wall ... aka Adults Lounge etc with youth lukring on the forums. 

Be blessed!

[Not of the World]

29 minutes ago, Alive said:

...understand that not everyone will agree with you...

I totally get that and I am accustomed to people expressing disagreement with me on other forums in which I participate and on topics such as football, politics, and more.  I must tell you, my friend, that I don't believe that I am the one that needs a lesson in being able to tolerate a viewpoint that differs from my own.  

Here's how it has gone so far:

1) I post an opinion or ask a question.

2) Someone becomes offended with my opinion or question.

3) I'm blamed for them being offended and am accused of creating "discord".  

 

 

 

[enoob57]

1 minute ago, Not of the World said:

I totally get that and I am accustomed to people expressing disagreement with me on other forums in which I participate and on topics such as football, politics, and more.  I must tell you, my friend, that I don't believe that I am the one that needs a lesson in being able to tolerate a viewpoint that differs from my own.  

Here's how it has gone so far:

1) I post an opinion or ask a question.

2) Someone becomes offended with my opinion or question.

3) I'm blamed for them being offended and am accused of creating "discord".  

 

 

 

I have been on this board for quite a while now and have not found this to be true  

[Not of the World]

Ok, @George, the next time someone gets upset I'll tell them to talk to management.  

[Not of the World]

1 minute ago, enoob57 said:

I have been on this board for quite a while now and have not found this to be true  

How dare you disagree with me!!!  

 

 

 

 

 

 

Just kidding.  

[Not of the World]

I do want to add that censorship of speech is more the rule than the exception in America today and even more so in the rest of the world.  It's difficult to find forums that will permit free expression, particularly those that are managed by the political left or conservative, relgious, people.  

There is a saying:  "I may not share your opinion but I will fight for your right to say it".  Most people don't share that view, unfortunately.  

[kwikphilly]

15 hours ago, Not of the World said:

I totally get that and I am accustomed to people expressing disagreement with me on other forums in which I participate and on topics such as football, politics, and more.  I must tell you, my friend, that I don't believe that I am the one that needs a lesson in being able to tolerate a viewpoint that differs from my own.  

Here's how it has gone so far:

1) I post an opinion or ask a question.

2) Someone becomes offended with my opinion or question.

3) I'm blamed for them being offended and am accused of creating "discord".  

 

 

 

Blessings NotW

From the very start I've personally not seen anything offensive about any of your questions - some people may jump to conclusions and I've seen that quite a bit but just try to remember that's on them,not you.... ☺️

What's really important is that we are accountable for our own words and no matter what we simply do not have to reply especially if it's a " reactionary ' response to something negative- take a breath,take captive your thoughts & subject them to the Obedience of Christ---- then reply or don't

I can't tell you how many times in a day I do not reply to someones negative comment( to me).... What good comes of it? Why bother,I've much better things to do with my time than to entertain folly.

Just be you- if it means anything at all it's been a pleasure getting to know you and I'm glad your here- keep asking questions,anyone worth knowing will take the time to get to know you!

 

[George]

17 hours ago, Not of the World said:

Ok, @George, the next time someone gets upset I'll tell them to talk to management.  

It happens all the time ... more than you realize. 

[Marathoner]

19 hours ago, Not of the World said:

How dare you disagree with me!!!  

 

 

 

 

 

 

Just kidding.  

I disagree with your disagreement about the disagreement. 

[Marathoner]

19 hours ago, Not of the World said:

I totally get that and I am accustomed to people expressing disagreement with me on other forums in which I participate and on topics such as football, politics, and more.  I must tell you, my friend, that I don't believe that I am the one that needs a lesson in being able to tolerate a viewpoint that differs from my own.  

Here's how it has gone so far:

1) I post an opinion or ask a question.

2) Someone becomes offended with my opinion or question.

3) I'm blamed for them being offended and am accused of creating "discord".  

 

 

 

My advice is simple: pay it no mind, my friend. It's impossible to please everyone all of the time and where I'm concerned, I haven't been offended by your conduct on Worthy. I recall your explanation regarding those questions you pose to us on the forum, and I find no fault with your motivation. Hardly. This is a discussion forum after all, yes? Discussions are going to take place here! 

There will be discussions... there will be agreements and disagreements... and hopefully, neither our brother @George nor his team of moderators will find it necessary to become involved in a moderating capacity. 

I highly recommend brushing off insults to everyone. For example... a client of the homeless shelter spews a few obscenities my way, using an unsavory moniker in place of my proper name. What is my reaction?



Someone doesn't believe me, calling me a liar or worse, and so my reaction is...

Okay.  

Brush it off and pay it no mind. I've been called worse by my own family and treated rather harshly by those whom I love. It's just part of our walk, brother. Remember:

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