Jump to content

Recommended Posts


  • Group:  Diamond Member
  • Followers:  2
  • Topic Count:  145
  • Topics Per Day:  0.02
  • Content Count:  972
  • Content Per Day:  0.13
  • Reputation:   3
  • Days Won:  0
  • Joined:  07/03/2005
  • Status:  Offline
  • Birthday:  07/23/1973

Posted

Why am I so pathetic when it comes to women?

I keep praying for THE ONE. And deep down I know I am not yet ready for THE ONE. Frankly it is trying my patience. I have given up dating sites, bars, and just about every place to meet girls. And trying to meet them. But it stinks being alone and lonely.

What am I screwing up. What can I do right?

G-d please make into THE MAN you want me to be. For THE GIRL I am meant to meet. And live joyfully ever after with. AMEN!!

All comments and advice are welcome.

Thanks for reading.

  • Replies 23
  • Created
  • Last Reply

Top Posters In This Topic

Top Posters In This Topic


  • Group:  Diamond Member
  • Followers:  1
  • Topic Count:  158
  • Topics Per Day:  0.02
  • Content Count:  1,763
  • Content Per Day:  0.26
  • Reputation:   7
  • Days Won:  0
  • Joined:  07/14/2006
  • Status:  Offline
  • Birthday:  11/23/1990

Posted
Why am I so pathetic when it comes to women?

I keep praying for THE ONE. And deep down I know I am not yet ready for THE ONE. Frankly it is trying my patience. I have given up dating sites, bars, and just about every place to meet girls. And trying to meet them. But it stinks being alone and lonely.

What am I screwing up. What can I do right?

G-d please make into THE MAN you want me to be. For THE GIRL I am meant to meet. And live joyfully ever after with. AMEN!!

All comments and advice are welcome.

Thanks for reading.

Well for a start, how old are you? Also, you mentioned, dating sites, bars, and places to "try" and meet girls. In my opinion, that isn't the way to do it. To be honest, lots of the people you meet there can be described as "Gold-diggers" or other less friendly terms. So tell me your age and I'll tell you what I think :cool:

God Bless.


  • Group:  Royal Member
  • Followers:  2
  • Topic Count:  512
  • Topics Per Day:  0.06
  • Content Count:  8,601
  • Content Per Day:  1.08
  • Reputation:   125
  • Days Won:  2
  • Joined:  07/16/2003
  • Status:  Offline
  • Birthday:  12/04/1973

Posted

Better to wait than to mess-up and marry the wrong one!


  • Group:  Members
  • Followers:  1
  • Topic Count:  1
  • Topics Per Day:  0.00
  • Content Count:  9
  • Content Per Day:  0.00
  • Reputation:   0
  • Days Won:  0
  • Joined:  07/14/2006
  • Status:  Offline
  • Birthday:  04/11/1961

Posted

Hi and God bless you, it is my opinion and my exspereance thst tells me to tell you to become content and Happy with being bye yourself first, grow close to God He will add to you when you are content being right where He has you. wait on Him! pray and ask God to make you the perfect man for a mate and be happy! your happyness lies with God never depend on another person other then God to keep joy in your life, love yourself, and then God will add to you the perfect woman and It will be eternal love. love Markinprayer!


  • Group:  Diamond Member
  • Followers:  2
  • Topic Count:  145
  • Topics Per Day:  0.02
  • Content Count:  972
  • Content Per Day:  0.13
  • Reputation:   3
  • Days Won:  0
  • Joined:  07/03/2005
  • Status:  Offline
  • Birthday:  07/23/1973

Posted

I am 33yrs and 4 days old. G-d convicted me about dating sites a long time ago. That and a couple of people I know have had less than good results. And I just don't feel right going to bars. Whether that's the Holy Spirit or me. I don't know for sure. The whole Bar/One night stand culture is repulsive to me. And has been for a long time.

I have gone to a couple of Singles Events here and there. On the hope that people are looking for long term relationships.


  • Group:  Diamond Member
  • Followers:  2
  • Topic Count:  145
  • Topics Per Day:  0.02
  • Content Count:  972
  • Content Per Day:  0.13
  • Reputation:   3
  • Days Won:  0
  • Joined:  07/03/2005
  • Status:  Offline
  • Birthday:  07/23/1973

Posted
Hi and God bless you, it is my opinion and my exspereance thst tells me to tell you to become content and Happy with being bye yourself first, grow close to God He will add to you when you are content being right where He has you. wait on Him! pray and ask God to make you the perfect man for a mate and be happy! your happyness lies with God never depend on another person other then God to keep joy in your life, love yourself, and then God will add to you the perfect woman and It will be eternal love. love Markinprayer!

That is probably the most difficult thing to do. I have not been content being by myself in I don't know how long. Sometimes I am. But I can count the times on one hand.

I know he has me. And won't let me go through life without THE ONE for me. But it is driving me crazy.


  • Group:  Royal Member
  • Followers:  1
  • Topic Count:  811
  • Topics Per Day:  0.11
  • Content Count:  7,338
  • Content Per Day:  1.02
  • Reputation:   76
  • Days Won:  2
  • Joined:  10/06/2005
  • Status:  Offline

Posted

Mik,

Speaking as a single woman, there is nothing as unattractive as a man desperate for a date. I have always felt that a man should have better things to do than worry about such things. This is not meant as an insult to you. There are lots of men and women, especially those of us over 30 and (still) single that wonder if we will ever find "the one." But, getting into a dither about your singleness won't help. My advice: live your life, eat right, think right, work hard and make the most of what the Lord has given you, and if it be the Lord's will, a lovely young thing will come waltzing into you life. There are worse things than not being in a relationship, one of them is being in a bad one!


  • Group:  Royal Member
  • Followers:  3
  • Topic Count:  62
  • Topics Per Day:  0.01
  • Content Count:  9,613
  • Content Per Day:  1.37
  • Reputation:   657
  • Days Won:  9
  • Joined:  03/11/2006
  • Status:  Offline
  • Birthday:  05/31/1952

Posted (edited)
Mik,

Speaking as a single woman, there is nothing as unattractive as a man desperate for a date. I have always felt that a man should have better things to do than worry about such things. This is not meant as an insult to you. There are lots of men and women, especially those of us over 30 and (still) single that wonder if we will ever find "the one." But, getting into a dither about your singleness won't help. My advice: live your life, eat right, think right, work hard and make the most of what the Lord has given you, and if it be the Lord's will, a lovely young thing will come waltzing into you life. There are worse things than not being in a relationship, one of them is being in a bad one!

Amen, Marnie!

Mikado---Just serve God with all your heart, and He will send her to you! After all, He alone knows her, He alone sees her, what she looks like, what her name is, what her calling is, etc.... Trust that God is looking at her right now and she is relying on Him also to point her in the right direction!

Your paths are going to cross and each day as you go about serving Him, not fixating on your own loneliness brings your intersecting paths closer and closer!

This is of the Lord! :cool:

Edited by Floatingaxe

  • Group:  Royal Member
  • Followers:  5
  • Topic Count:  827
  • Topics Per Day:  0.10
  • Content Count:  12,101
  • Content Per Day:  1.43
  • Reputation:   251
  • Days Won:  3
  • Joined:  04/01/2002
  • Status:  Offline

Posted

Mik,

Speaking as a single woman, there is nothing as unattractive as a man desperate for a date. I have always felt that a man should have better things to do than worry about such things. This is not meant as an insult to you. There are lots of men and women, especially those of us over 30 and (still) single that wonder if we will ever find "the one." But, getting into a dither about your singleness won't help. My advice: live your life, eat right, think right, work hard and make the most of what the Lord has given you, and if it be the Lord's will, a lovely young thing will come waltzing into you life. There are worse things than not being in a relationship, one of them is being in a bad one!

Amen, Marnie!

Mikado---Just serve God with all your heart, and He will send her to you! After all, He alone knows her, He alone sees her, what she looks like, what her name is, what her calling is, etc.... Trust that God is looking at her right now and she is relying on Him also to point her in the right direction!

Your paths are going to cross and each day as you go about serving Him, not fixating on your own loneliness brings your intersecting paths closer and closer!

This is of the Lord! :thumbsup:

Amen to both of these replies!

Remember, it's all about God's timing. :)


  • Group:  Diamond Member
  • Followers:  2
  • Topic Count:  145
  • Topics Per Day:  0.02
  • Content Count:  972
  • Content Per Day:  0.13
  • Reputation:   3
  • Days Won:  0
  • Joined:  07/03/2005
  • Status:  Offline
  • Birthday:  07/23/1973

Posted

Mik,

Speaking as a single woman, there is nothing as unattractive as a man desperate for a date. I have always felt that a man should have better things to do than worry about such things. This is not meant as an insult to you. There are lots of men and women, especially those of us over 30 and (still) single that wonder if we will ever find "the one." But, getting into a dither about your singleness won't help. My advice: live your life, eat right, think right, work hard and make the most of what the Lord has given you, and if it be the Lord's will, a lovely young thing will come waltzing into you life. There are worse things than not being in a relationship, one of them is being in a bad one!

Amen, Marnie!

Mikado---Just serve God with all your heart, and He will send her to you! After all, He alone knows her, He alone sees her, what she looks like, what her name is, what her calling is, etc.... Trust that God is looking at her right now and she is relying on Him also to point her in the right direction!

Your paths are going to cross and each day as you go about serving Him, not fixating on your own loneliness brings your intersecting paths closer and closer!

This is of the Lord! :thumbsup:

Amen to both of these replies!

Remember, it's all about God's timing. :)

AMEN AMEN AND AMEN!!! Thanks!!

And Marnie after being part of a very bad relationship, my Mother and Step Father. YOu are so right!! I do come off as desparate. But how do I not?

  • Recently Browsing   0 members

    • No registered users viewing this page.
  • Our picks

    • You are coming up higher in this season – above the assignments of character assassination and verbal arrows sent to manage you, contain you, and derail your purpose. Where you have had your dreams and sleep robbed, as well as your peace and clarity robbed – leaving you feeling foggy, confused, and heavy – God is, right now, bringing freedom back -- now you will clearly see the smoke and mirrors that were set to distract you and you will disengage.

      Right now God is declaring a "no access zone" around you, and your enemies will no longer have any entry point into your life. Oil is being poured over you to restore the years that the locust ate and give you back your passion. This is where you will feel a fresh roar begin to erupt from your inner being, and a call to leave the trenches behind and begin your odyssey in your Christ calling moving you to bear fruit that remains as you minister to and disciple others into their Christ identity.

      This is where you leave the trenches and scale the mountain to fight from a different place, from victory, from peace, and from rest. Now watch as God leads you up higher above all the noise, above all the chaos, and shows you where you have been seated all along with Him in heavenly places where you are UNTOUCHABLE. This is where you leave the soul fight, and the mind battle, and learn to fight differently.

      You will know how to live like an eagle and lead others to the same place of safety and protection that God led you to, which broke you out of the silent prison you were in. Put your war boots on and get ready to fight back! Refuse to lay down -- get out of bed and rebuke what is coming at you. Remember where you are seated and live from that place.

      Acts 1:8 - “But you will receive power when the Holy Spirit has come upon you, and you will be my witnesses … to the end of the earth.”

       

      ALBERT FINCH MINISTRY
        • Thanks
        • This is Worthy
        • Thumbs Up
      • 3 replies
    • George Whitten, the visionary behind Worthy Ministries and Worthy News, explores the timing of the Simchat Torah War in Israel. Is this a water-breaking moment? Does the timing of the conflict on October 7 with Hamas signify something more significant on the horizon?

       



      This was a message delivered at Eitz Chaim Congregation in Dallas Texas on February 3, 2024.

      To sign up for our Worthy Brief -- https://worthybrief.com

      Be sure to keep up to date with world events from a Christian perspective by visiting Worthy News -- https://www.worthynews.com

      Visit our live blogging channel on Telegram -- https://t.me/worthywatch
      • 0 replies
    • Understanding the Enemy!

      I thought I write about the flip side of a topic, and how to recognize the attempts of the enemy to destroy lives and how you can walk in His victory!

      For the Apostle Paul taught us not to be ignorant of enemy's tactics and strategies.

      2 Corinthians 2:112  Lest Satan should get an advantage of us: for we are not ignorant of his devices. 

      So often, we can learn lessons by learning and playing "devil's" advocate.  When we read this passage,

      Mar 3:26  And if Satan rise up against himself, and be divided, he cannot stand, but hath an end. 
      Mar 3:27  No man can enter into a strong man's house, and spoil his goods, except he will first bind the strongman; and then he will spoil his house. 

      Here we learn a lesson that in order to plunder one's house you must first BIND up the strongman.  While we realize in this particular passage this is referring to God binding up the strongman (Satan) and this is how Satan's house is plundered.  But if you carefully analyze the enemy -- you realize that he uses the same tactics on us!  Your house cannot be plundered -- unless you are first bound.   And then Satan can plunder your house!

      ... read more
        • Oy Vey!
        • Praise God!
        • Thanks
        • Well Said!
        • Brilliant!
        • Loved it!
        • This is Worthy
        • Thumbs Up
      • 230 replies
    • Daniel: Pictures of the Resurrection, Part 3

      Shalom everyone,

      As we continue this study, I'll be focusing on Daniel and his picture of the resurrection and its connection with Yeshua (Jesus). 

      ... read more
        • Praise God!
        • Brilliant!
        • Loved it!
        • This is Worthy
        • Thumbs Up
      • 13 replies
    • Abraham and Issac: Pictures of the Resurrection, Part 2
      Shalom everyone,

      As we continue this series the next obvious sign of the resurrection in the Old Testament is the sign of Isaac and Abraham.

      Gen 22:1  After these things God tested Abraham and said to him, "Abraham!" And he said, "Here I am."
      Gen 22:2  He said, "Take your son, your only son Isaac, whom you love, and go to the land of Moriah, and offer him there as a burnt offering on one of the mountains of which I shall tell you."

      So God "tests" Abraham and as a perfect picture of the coming sacrifice of God's only begotten Son (Yeshua - Jesus) God instructs Issac to go and sacrifice his son, Issac.  Where does he say to offer him?  On Moriah -- the exact location of the Temple Mount.

      ...read more
        • Well Said!
        • This is Worthy
        • Thumbs Up
      • 20 replies

×
×
  • Create New...