Women

[Guest jckduboise]

Just rest in the Lord. He will provide all your needs..seek ye first the kingdom of God and His righteousness and ALL these things will be added unto you.

I am a single woman of 39 and haven't been married since 1992. It was difficult being by myself for a long time. Then something happened. I found my true Love..Christ, and became content with being single. And then I met someone and I love him and he is everthing I could have ever wanted in a man. But he found that he is not interested in that with me. Painful? Yes..but not as painful as it would be to lose my first Love.

God will give if it His will to give. Be patient and stop looking. Give God a list of your prerequisites and then let it be. If you are to have this desire, it will come to you. You will not have to go and find it. And another bit of wisdom to go along with it. If you do find someone and you think it is them, look for the things in them that you asked of God. If they are not there, it is probably not her.

Blessings

[Avodah]

Until a person is content and secure in the love of the Father a person will never be content and secure in the love of a spouse. I can tell you from experience...know your value in the Lord and have a love relationship with Him before even trying to have a relationship with a woman. A woman will not complete you...you need to be complete in the Lord and then when you meet the right woman, you will complement each other not complete each other.

Hope that makes sense.

[billie]

Yes, Mik, I'm married and I still get lonely sometimes. The only love who will never leave is Jesus.

[mikado5001]

I once felt like you do...................and even married the first one that seemed to fit the bill. bad move.....years later....many years later.....listen to me closely.....the type of sincere identifying with reason and your feelings....is exactly what will bring your peace in the ,matter.....be paitent...... dont wait for the right "other"....wait for the revelation ...of great self love....that overcomes loneliness.....listen up close...."seek ye first the kingdom and it's righteousness....and all things will be added to you." Now here's the question................(you seem like an self-honest guy....) do you want a wife.....or do you want relief from lonliness?

May god soon grant you rest ......and peace from all your trouble.....and may he give you a hunger for that self-honesty- that you've displayed here.....that surpasses the physical realm in terms of it's faithful power....in him. amen.

Everyone is lonely.....I have a wife and I get lonely.... we all are on the prowl for ...comfort...listen again to this....

Be lonley for you.........seek within.....seek the "kingdom" within..... (ya follow me?)

Give it a great season's chance.... and all else will be added. Keep your eyes on the "prize"....a wife is not the prize....believe me from experience.....the prize goes much deeper....but you know that already...I can tell .

Such awesome advice. Thanks so much AMEN!!