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Hello.

I have been married for 23 years and am now in a recent divorce. The pain and suffering involved is so hard to take. I have sought comfort and strength in the words of the Lord but I still am in love with her and can't seem to let my love for her go. I think she is doing alot better than I am but I was always the one to show more affection than her. I try so hard to move on, yet......I am still in love with her. I try to be cordial but her attitude is spiteful and vindictive at times. There is so much more..... I wasn't allowed to say goodbye to her dying mother, I wasn't added to the obit, I didn't attend the memorial because I wasn't welcomed or allowed to sit with my children.....I have done wrong, I believe she has, but I have told her I forgive her and that I have allowed God into my life. I tried to so hard to stay together. I offered her my new self with the Lord as my guide but that didn't work either. I miss her. I don't want anyone else but it looks like I have no choice. How can I let her go when My heart won't. How can I forget the good times when I see things everyday that remind me of her. Help my heart.

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Praying.


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Welcome to Worthy, lostsoulmate! May you find comfort and friendship here...enough that maybe you may change your sad name to one that indicates that the Lord is your peace and joy....one day soon!


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May the Lord be of comfort to you, and help heal these awful wounds. +


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May the Lord be of comfort to you, and help heal these awful wounds. +

Thank you Friar.....I don't know what else to do....I wanted so much to save the marriage.


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Praying.

Thank you Sheya......your prayers help...but it still hurts.....will it ever stop?


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Moved from the Welcome Forum to the Looking for Advise Forum. We are praying for you bro.


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Welcome to Worthy :wub: I will be praying for you :thumbsup: Please feel free to pm anytime :)

I am yours...I can't Pm you ....gives me an error....Thank you for your prayers.


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Welcome to Worthy :wub: I will be praying for you :thumbsup: Please feel free to pm anytime :)

I am yours...I can't Pm you ....gives me an error....Thank you for your prayers.

After 10 posts you can PM! Happy posting!


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i am really sorry for what you are going through. from what i have read from others on this boards and from what i have seen in my life, divorce is never an easy thing. sometimes it is necessary but it is hard all the same.

the fact that you say its recent is probably why its so painful. just keep trying to seek God in all of this even though it might not make sense to your heart right now. i can almost certainly guarantee that it will not always be this painful with time.

there are others who are in a similar situation to yours on this boards. you can read more about their experiences by clicking here

may you continue to allow God to guide you through this very difficult time.

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