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As for a forced hurry to get the temple built as well as violent political Zionism, I am not sure that God would agree to bless that as God could not bless David with a temple because of so much blood shed under his reign. If God did not like all the violent blood shed of Davids time, why would He like or approve of it more now? If God is the same yesterday, today, and tomorrow, He does not change His dislike for violent blood shed from the beginning of times to David to now and to tomorrow. Even Christ Jesus spoke of peace and turning away from violence. Matthew 11: 28 Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. 29 Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30 For My yoke is easy and My burden is light.” A gentle person is NOT a violent person. And getting angry is not the same as using violent murder to get what you think God wants. God NEVER endorsed Killing and the stories in the bible show the consequence when wars occur. Just because there are stories of war in the bible does not mean that God wanted them. On the contrary, God shows the consequence or rebellion, not respecting His commandments. Matthew 5:17-20 17 Think not that I am come to destroy the law, or the prophets: I am not come to destroy, but to fulfil. 18 For verily I say unto you, Till heaven and earth pass, one jot or one tittle shall in no wise pass from the law, till all be fulfilled. 19 Whosoever therefore shall break one of these least commandments, and shall teach men so, he shall be called the least in the kingdom of heaven: but whosoever shall do and teach them, the same shall be called great in the kingdom of heaven. Matthew 5:39 39 But I tell you not to resist an evil person. But whoever slaps you on your right cheek, turn the other to him also. James 4 Pride Promotes Strife 4 Where do wars and fights come from among you? Do they not come from your desires for pleasure that war in your members? 2 You lust and do not have. You murder and covet and cannot obtain. You fight and war. Yet you do not have because you do not ask. 3 You ask and do not receive, because you ask amiss, that you may spend it on your pleasures. 4 Adulterers and adulteresses! Do you not know that friendship with the world is enmity with God? Whoever therefore wants to be a friend of the world makes himself an enemy of God. 5 Or do you think that the Scripture says in vain, “The Spirit who dwells in us yearns jealously”? 6 But He gives more grace. Therefore He says: “God resists the proud, But gives grace to the humble.” Humility Cures Worldliness 7 Therefore submit to God. Resist the devil and he will flee from you. 8 Draw near to God and He will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, you sinners; and purify your hearts, you double-minded. 9 Lament and mourn and weep! Let your laughter be turned to mourning and your joy to gloom. 10 Humble yourselves in the sight of the Lord, and He will lift you up. Do Not Judge a Brother 11 Do not speak evil of one another, brethren. He who speaks evil of a brother and judges his brother, speaks evil of the law and judges the law. But if you judge the law, you are not a doer of the law but a judge. 12 There is one Lawgiver, who is able to save and to destroy. Who are you to judge another? Do Not Boast About Tomorrow 13 Come now, you who say, “Today or tomorrow we will go to such and such a city, spend a year there, buy and sell, and make a profit”; 14 whereas you do not know what will happen tomorrow. For what is your life? It is even a vapor that appears for a little time and then vanishes away. 15 Instead you ought to say, “If the Lord wills, we shall live and do this or that.” 16 But now you boast in your arrogance. All such boasting is evil. 17 Therefore, to him who knows to do good and does not do it, to him it is sin. ------ And before people start to condemn me and accuse me of being anti-semetic for saying this just do a little research yourself and you will find other "JEWS" who are against violent political Zionism. There are a lot of christian and Jewish spiritual Zionist who don't agree with the forced violent political Zionism. Why? because: Of course nothing good will come out of blood shed violence especially to try and build from that a Holy Temple for God. It makes even more sense that if the temple is built from force and from a lot of violent blood shed, no good will come out of it, certainly allowing for the anti Christ to make that temple his place of looking to be worshiped. for sure God will not be dwelling there in a place of violence. 1 Chronicles 28:3 3 But God said to me, ‘You shall not build a house for My name, because you have been a man of war and have shed blood.’ Edited just now by 1to3

If the Jews are looking for a king to rule the temple to be built in Jerusalem, it may well be that the antichrist will come from a Jewish background. 2 Thessalonians 2:2-4 King James Version (KJV) 2 That ye be not soon shaken in mind, or be troubled, neither by spirit, nor by word, nor by letter as from us, as that the day of Christ is at hand. 3 Let no man deceive you by any means: for that day shall not come, except there come a falling away first, and that man of sin be revealed, the son of perdition; 4 Who opposeth and exalteth himself above all that is called God, or that is worshipped; so that he as God sitteth in the temple of God, shewing himself that he is God. Daniel 11:37 King James Version (KJV) 37 Neither shall he regard the God of his fathers, nor the desire of women, nor regard any god: for he shall magnify himself above all. Daniel 11:36-38 King James Version (KJV) 36 And the king shall do according to his will; and he shall exalt himself, and magnify himself above every god, and shall speak marvellous things against the God of gods, and shall prosper till the indignation be accomplished: for that that is determined shall be done. 37 Neither shall he regard the God of his fathers, nor the desire of women, nor regard any god: for he shall magnify himself above all. 38 But in his estate shall he honour the God of forces: and a god whom his fathers knew not shall he honour with gold, and silver, and with precious stones, and pleasant things. In a way it makes sense that God would do that, once again because THEY( man) rejected His only Begotten Son, they get what they want instead, and like so many examples in the Bible, by choosing what men want instead of Gods will, nothing good from God ever comes out of it without first showing the consequence of making the wrong decision. However praise God, the bible does say that eventually ALL things will eventually work out for HIS glory. Amen! This choosing what man wants over Gods will, all started with the first disobedience in the garden of Eden and continues on, until once again God will prevail. Philippians 2 King James Version (KJV) 2 If there be therefore any consolation in Christ, if any comfort of love, if any fellowship of the Spirit, if any bowels and mercies, 2 Fulfil ye my joy, that ye be likeminded, having the same love, being of one accord, of one mind. 3 Let nothing be done through strife or vainglory; but in lowliness of mind let each esteem other better than themselves. 4 Look not every man on his own things, but every man also on the things of others. 5 Let this mind be in you, which was also in Christ Jesus: 6 Who, being in the form of God, thought it not robbery to be equal with God: 7 But made himself of no reputation, and took upon him the form of a servant, and was made in the likeness of men: 8 And being found in fashion as a man, he humbled himself, and became obedient unto death, even the death of the cross. 9 Wherefore God also hath highly exalted him, and given him a name which is above every name: 10 That at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, of things in heaven, and things in earth, and things under the earth; 11 And that every tongue should confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father. 12 Wherefore, my beloved, as ye have always obeyed, not as in my presence only, but now much more in my absence, work out your own salvation with fear and trembling. 13 For it is God which worketh in you both to will and to do of his good pleasure. 14 Do all things without murmurings and disputings: 15 That ye may be blameless and harmless, the sons of God, without rebuke, in the midst of a crooked and perverse nation, among whom ye shine as lights in the world; 16 Holding forth the word of life; that I may rejoice in the day of Christ, that I have not run in vain, neither laboured in vain. As for a forced hurry to get the temple built as well as violent political Zionism, I am not sure that God would agree to bless that as God could not bless David with a temple because of so much blood shed under his reign. If God did not like all the violent blood shed of Davids time, why would He like or approve of it more now? If God is the same yesterday, today, and tomorrow, He does not change His dislike for violent blood shed from the beginning of times to David to now and to tomorrow. Even Christ Jesus spoke of peace and turning away from violence. Matthew 11: 28 Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. 29 Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30 For My yoke is easy and My burden is light.” A gentle person is NOT a violent person. And getting angry is not the same as using violent murder to get what you think God wants. God NEVER endorsed Killing and the stories in the bible show the consequence when wars occur. Just because there are stories of war in the bible does not mean that God wanted them. On the contrary, God shows the consequence or rebellion, not respecting His commandments. Matthew 5:17-20 17 Think not that I am come to destroy the law, or the prophets: I am not come to destroy, but to fulfil. 18 For verily I say unto you, Till heaven and earth pass, one jot or one tittle shall in no wise pass from the law, till all be fulfilled. 19 Whosoever therefore shall break one of these least commandments, and shall teach men so, he shall be called the least in the kingdom of heaven: but whosoever shall do and teach them, the same shall be called great in the kingdom of heaven. Matthew 5:39 39 But I tell you not to resist an evil person. But whoever slaps you on your right cheek, turn the other to him also. And before people start to condemn me and accuse me of being anti-semetic for saying this just do a little research yourself and you will find other "JEWS" who are against violent political Zionism. There are a lot of christian and Jewish spiritual Zionist who don't agree with the forced violent political Zionism. Why? because: Of course nothing good will come out of violence especially to try and build from that a Holy Temple for God. It makes even more sense that if the temple is built from force and from a lot of violent blood shed, no good will come out of it, certainly allowing for the anti Christ to make that temple his place of looking to be worshiped. for sure God will not be dwelling there in a place of violence. 1 Chronicles 28:3 3 But God said to me, ‘You shall not build a house for My name, because you have been a man of war and have shed blood.’

Hi SelahSong; Thank you for your comments about life, life in Christ and the video.? Yes I believe our attitude in life can make the difference of how we choose to be at peace in our minds. And knowing Christ Jesus and aligning our lives with His Word is the blue print for contentment and peace. There is another video I viewed about aging, that gave good advice from people who had reached passed 100 years of age. Keeping an interest,a positive attitude, having a circle of friendships, and finding peace and contentment, and a daily relationship seems to be Key for good living. If you are interested, here is the title of the you tube video: Life Lessons From 100-Year-Olds God Bless; 1to3

Hi Goergie I would like to share with you 4 titles to - you tube- videos you can find on you tube that explain in depth what yoga is and how and why it is not compatible with Christianity. Here are the 4 video tittles you can look up and view from you tube: Caryl Matrisciana interview - yoga, maditation and The Bible Can Yoga ever be Christian? Gods of the New Age Caryl Matrisciana - Gods of the New Age and The Bible 2

Thanks for posting this 1sheep. I looked up the names you posted to see what I could find on you tube. Yes its absolutely disturbingly demonic, and it saddened me to see what they are doing. IDK how some people here can still think this to be innocent. Have they watched the video? Here is the title of one I found on you tube: CELINE DION’S CLOTHES FOR KIDS DEFINITELY SATANIC and CELINE DION - ISRAELI COMPANY & SATAN - What do they have in Common? Anyone who views these and still thinks this to be innocent, is a blind as they come . I am sorry to see how many will be so deceived.

There are many pathways going on right now that will eventually lead to this one new world order and the welcoming of the anti-Christ. Its very difficult to tell people about the Truth of Gods word as many are already very hypnotized by the worlds system. I know many Catholics and when I try to talk to them about the bible, there is resistance or an unwillingness to even look at the bible or the gospels. They either claim it to be to hard to read or understand = brainwashing by the RCC or just shut down. Yesterday I tried to tell a catholic lady that purgatory is not indicated in the bible. Christs work on the Cross was finished, believing in purgatory takes away from what Christ Jesus accomplished on the Cross at Calvary. And they pray to their dead relatives to help them. Its so ingrained in them that it is very hard to reach them. So after I try in my humble way to reach them to reason a little, I end up basically telling them to keep Jesus Christ as their personal Savior in the hearts as it is only by Him that we find our way back to God. John 14:6 6 Jesus said to him, “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me. The apostate church is already happening where people of christian denominations don't even believe what is written in the bible anymore. Very sad. He are a few more titles of you tube videos that give some very informative view points of history and the way the world is shaping itself now and the deception that is taken place very slowly and systematically under our very eyes. People will be deceive because they are slowly being eased into the deception. and without biblical knowledge and a, earnest steadfast faith in Christ Jesus and earnest repentance towards Gods plan of Mercy and Grace, many many will be deceived. -Lucis Trust -The Occult World Peace Plan.. The United Nations -Pope Francis Plan to Take Over the World (2018) -The Disturbing Evil Plan to Bring on the New World Order w/ David Carrico

Yes I mentioned this in my thread in the controversial section:Mark of the Beast/Versus the SEAL of God on page 15 of that thread, I mentioned the title of a video that can be found on you tube, that gives some insight to the puzzle. The Occult World Peace Plan | The United Nations | Lucis Trust

The answer from the bible/ is clear, they will not repent. Revelation Chapter 16 9And men were scorched with great heat, and blasphemed the name of God, which hath power over these plagues: and they repented not to give him glory. 11And blasphemed the God of heaven because of their pains and their sores, and repented not of their deeds. 21And there fell upon men a great hail out of heaven, every stone about the weight of a talent: and men blasphemed God because of the plague of the hail; for the plague thereof was exceeding great.

lol, I would like it just as much as you if taking the mark of the beast were reversible, but somehow I never understood it to be reversible, and neither was it taught to me to be that way from the churches I attended. You neither have convinced me that it would be reversible by your bible quotes, so I guess we are still with our opinions. It was just some thoughts and from the bible also to share. But I will not go further into long debates with anybody. Not good for for my own peace of mind , spiritual and physical health Peace to you I believe taking the mark of the beast will take control of the whole person: Body, Soul and Mind. Just there will be no ticket back to Christ from that point on. Anyways, If I was to live in those times, I would not want to play God and hope for the best, as the Bible is WARNING us clearly about the dangers of taking that Mark of the Beat just like God warned Adam and Eve of taking the the first bite into the forbidden apple. We have been warned. and should know better, to choose the ultimate forbidden mark of the beast would be throwing away God SEAL that is marked through our salvation in Christ Jesus on every true Christians believers heart, mind, soul, and working through his/her hands=actions. The devil is a complete counterfeit of what God stands for , including satan's Mark Of the Beat. Once you receive the Mark of The beast: Like the following lyrics: "Your lights are on, but you're not home Your mind is not your own" " You see the signs, but you can't read You're running at a different speed" "You can't be saved Oblivion is all you crave If there's some left for you You don't mind if you do Whoa, you like to think that you're immune to the stuff, oh yeah"

From my understanding, those who will have received the chip will have sealed their fate. They will have chosen the Mark of the beast instead of the SEAL OF God They will be dead to Christ because they then will be under the control of the antichrist, their DNA may also be changed/modified by receiving the chip, no more making them sons of God but the sons of perdition. God also said that the day will come when His spirit will not always "srtive with man" be available like He is now. Genesis 6:3 (KJV) And the LORD said, My spirit shall not always strive with man, for that he also is flesh: yet his days shall be an hundred and twenty years. John 14 6 Jesus said to him, “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me. 15 “If you love Me, keep My commandments. 16 And I will pray the Father, and He will give you another Helper, that He may abide with you forever— 17 the Spirit of truth, whom the world cannot receive, because it neither sees Him nor knows Him; but you know Him, for He dwells with you and will be in you. 18 I will not leave you orphans; I will come to you.

Is the Jew you are talking about : Rabbi Emeritus Aryed Azriel? Just found this link of a trilateral churches built on a property in Omaha: https://www.cnn.com/2017/06/19/us/tri-faith-initiative-omaha-nebraska/index.html

Matthew 24:24 The Abomination of Desolation …23At that time, if anyone says to you, ‘Look, here is the Christ!’ or ‘There He is,’ do not believe it. 24For false Christs and false prophets will appear and perform great signs and wonders that would deceive even the elect if that were possible. 25See, I have told you in advance.…

Quote: From Other one Posted 47 minutes ago (edited) "Winston Churchill was a heavy drinker and he did pretty well. Brett drank but was still at the top of his class both in high school and college. I don't think beer slowed him down much. ------------------------------------------------------------------- So by your answer Proverbs 31:4 is irrelevant?

Funny thing the Christians here on this site seem to overlook is that this man is looking to have a position as judge and self admits he drinks alcohol regularly and always has and makes no excuse for it. In what capacity was it ever a good thing or OK to have a leader or and elder or a priest or a judge drink alcohol regularly and it be ok? Is not being sober minder in such a capacity a detriment for good leadership and wise decision making? Or have we become so diluted by world standards that even that is deemed ok by Christians? Proverbs 31:4 Study Bible The Words of King Lemuel …3Do not spend your strength on women or your vigor on those who ruin kings. 4It is not for kings, O Lemuel, it is not for kings to drink wine, or for rulers to crave strong drink, 5lest they drink and forget what is decreed, and deprive all the oppressed of justice.

For those still not convinced about the evils of Halloween,and think is an ok tradition celebration for Christians to practice , please view the following title, that is from a you tube documentary on the subject matter. If after you watch this and can still defend Halloween as being something for Christian to practice? then I can only pray the Holy Spirit convict your conscience. In Christ Jesus Always. Amen!Amen! Amen! Pagan invasion- Ep1 Halloween Trick or Treat

Matthew 5:9-12 9 Blessed are the peacemakers, For they shall be called sons of God. 10 Blessed are those who are persecuted for righteousness’ sake, For theirs is the kingdom of heaven. 11 Blessed are you when they revile and persecute you, and say all kinds of evil against you falsely for My sake. 12 Rejoice and be exceedingly glad, for great is your reward in heaven, for so they persecuted the prophets who were before you.

Amen! 1 Peter 3:15 14But even if you should suffer for what is right, you are blessed. “Do not fear their intimidation; do not be shaken.” 15But in your hearts sanctify Christ as Lord. Always be prepared to articulate a defense to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But respond with gentleness and respect, 16keeping a clear conscience, so that those who slander you will be put to shame by your good behavior in Christ.…

I agree , but how would you go about telling that to a Catholic in Christian love? Just telling a person they are clueless is jut insulting and closes off a person . I believe we have to come to Catholic in Christian Love, and show them kindly through the Holy scripture of the bible.

That wasn't my purpose. It was to simply show that Rome had doctrines that contradicted Scripture. Ok Yown fair enough. Thank you Fidei Defensor for pointing these things out. Yesterday I attended a RCC funeral service . This time they did not have any hail Marys in the service it was pretty much consistent with the bible in what the priest said about the Lord and Christ. One could not find anything going against the bible until one person from the congregation came up and told us we all need to pray as it is our christian duty to pray for this person who died to see that they get out of purgatory as soon as possible. The bible says Christ died on the cross to abolish All sin for those who have come to Him, repented and turned their lives over to God through Christ Jesus. John 3:16 says, “For God so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life.” All atonement for sins where accomplished on the cross of Calvary through Christ Jesus. There is NO purgatory and the new testament does no mention anything about purgatory. ----------------- Just prior to His arrest by the Romans, Jesus prayed His last public prayer, asking the Father to glorify Him, just as Jesus had glorified the Father on earth, having “finished the work you have given me to do” (John 17:4). The work Jesus was sent to do was to “seek and save that which is lost” (Luke 19:10), to provide atonement for the sins of all who would ever believe in Him (Romans 3:23-25), and to reconcile sinful men to a holy God. “All this is from God, who reconciled us to himself through Christ and gave us the ministry of reconciliation: that God was reconciling the world to himself in Christ, not counting men's sins against them. And he has committed to us the message of reconciliation” (2 Corinthians 5:18-19). None other but God in the flesh could accomplish such a task. https://www.gotquestions.org/it-is-finished.html --------------------- I think it is an important topic to bring up and counter with scripture as many Catholics believe in purgatory and it is important to point out to them that it does not exist and why.

Thank you Yown for pointing these things out, but you do not give reason for why these things a purely WRONG According to Gods WORD found in the holy scripture=the Holy Bible Gods Word says ALL punishment of sins was fished on the Cross, Romans 3:21-31 New Living Translation (NLT) Christ Took Our Punishment 21 But now God has shown us a way to be made right with him without keeping the requirements of the law, as was promised in the writings of Moses[a] and the prophets long ago. 22 We are made right with God by placing our faith in Jesus Christ. And this is true for everyone who believes, no matter who we are. 23 For everyone has sinned; we all fall short of God’s glorious standard. 24 Yet God, in his grace, freely makes us right in his sight. He did this through Christ Jesus when he freed us from the penalty for our sins. 25 For God presented Jesus as the sacrifice for sin. People are made right with God when they believe that Jesus sacrificed his life, shedding his blood. This sacrifice shows that God was being fair when he held back and did not punish those who sinned in times past, 26 for he was looking ahead and including them in what he would do in this present time. God did this to demonstrate his righteousness, for he himself is fair and just, and he makes sinners right in his sight when they believe in Jesus. 27 Can we boast, then, that we have done anything to be accepted by God? No, because our acquittal is not based on obeying the law. It is based on faith. 28 So we are made right with God through faith and not by obeying the law. 29 After all, is God the God of the Jews only? Isn’t he also the God of the Gentiles? Of course he is. 30 There is only one God, and he makes people right with himself only by faith, whether they are Jews or Gentiles.[b] 31 Well then, if we emphasize faith, does this mean that we can forget about the law? Of course not! In fact, only when we have faith do we truly fulfill the law. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- When Christ paid the ultimate penalty for the sins of those who come to HIM through repentance=turning away from their sins and turning to Live for God through His plan of Mercy and Grace in Christ . Christ Jesus was sent by God to REDEEM us from ALL from the power of sin. Titus 2:14 God's Grace Brings Salvation …13as we await the blessed hope and glorious appearance of our great God and Savior, Jesus Christ. 14He gave Himself for us to redeem us from all lawlessness and to purify for Himself a people for His own possession, zealous for good deeds. 15Speak these things as you encourage and rebuke with all authority. Let no one despise you. or from Isaiahs 53 Isaiah 53 New King James Version (NKJV) The Sin-Bearing Messiah 53 Who has believed our report? And to whom has the arm of the Lord been revealed? 2 For He shall grow up before Him as a tender plant, And as a root out of dry ground. He has no [a]form or [b]comeliness; And when we see Him, There is no [c]beauty that we should desire Him. 3 He is despised and [d]rejected by men, A Man of [e]sorrows and acquainted with [f]grief. And we hid, as it were, our faces from Him; He was despised, and we did not esteem Him. 4 Surely He has borne our [g]griefs And carried our [h]sorrows; Yet we [i]esteemed Him stricken, [j]Smitten by God, and afflicted. 5 But He was wounded[k] for our transgressions, He was [l]bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes[m] we are healed. 6 All we like sheep have gone astray; We have turned, every one, to his own way; And the Lord [n]has laid on Him the iniquity of us all. 7 He was oppressed and He was afflicted, Yet He opened not His mouth; He was led as a lamb to the slaughter, And as a sheep before its shearers is silent, So He opened not His mouth. 8 He was taken from [o]prison and from judgment, And who will declare His generation? For He was cut off from the land of the living; For the transgressions of My people He was stricken. 9 And [p]they made His grave with the wicked— But with the rich at His death, Because He had done no violence, Nor was any deceit in His mouth. 10 Yet it pleased the Lord to [q]bruise Him; He has put Him to grief. When You make His soul an offering for sin, He shall see His seed, He shall prolong His days, And the pleasure of the Lord shall prosper in His hand. 11 [r]He shall see the labor of His soul, and be satisfied. By His knowledge My righteous Servant shall justify many, For He shall bear their iniquities. 12 Therefore I will divide Him a portion with the great, And He shall divide the [s]spoil with the strong, Because He poured out His soul unto death, And He was numbered with the transgressors, And He bore the sin of many, And made intercession for the transgressors. . There is no reason for the fabricated Purgatory that the RCC adopted from vain philosophies such as the likes of Plato, since salvation through Christ Jesus is a FREE GIFT from God for ALL those who receive and welcome it into their hearts.

The following quotation is commonly attributed to Albert Einstein: "Two things are infinite: the universe and human stupidity; and I'm not sure about the universe."

That is true, but did you know that this is a trend that just started in the past 16 years? Did you know that prior to 2002, countries with higher Muslim populations experienced less domestic terrorism than western countries and that less than 10% of terrorism worldwide was carried out by Muslim terrorists? What about Barbary pirates ? https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Barbary_pirates

Hi my first impression from reading your post is the following; I noticed you said that you admire this person very much, because even thought they may have an avoidant personality they still are able to light up a room . IDK, I could be wrong, but it is a dangerous trap to place people on a pedestal because when you do , you are actually placing yourself in a god like position, judging them and in time the person who is placing the other on a pedestal will look to resent them because they have failed in your expectations of them. People who place others on a pedestal level, don't really think much of themselves and are looking to find what it is in others that they can take for themselves. There is nothing wrong from taking and applying in yourself something good that you see as a good example from another, (like Christ Jesus is a good example to learn from) but when a person is placing someone on a pedestal it become unhealthy as the person doing this are playing God and judging that person . And if the other person senses this sucking, yes they may try to avoid being drained that way. So there is also the possibility that this person is sensing that you are trying to feed off of them and so they may be trying to avoid you because of that? Also most people do not like it when others try to cling to them to much, or throw all their problems at them most of the time. And may try to avoid people who do that as they sense that they will become drained by them.