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Matthew 5:28

28But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.

1 Corinthians 7:9

9But if they cannot control themselves, they should marry, for it is better to marry than to burn with passion.

I don't know that you would be human not to have such feelings for someone to whom you are attracted. Do you love and respect her ... and yourself? If so, do what God has commanded. imo.

God Bless you.


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If a man courting a woman(with intention of marriage) is having lustful desires towards her what should he do?

Job 31

1 "I made a covenant with my eyes

not to look lustfully at a girl.NIV

Curb the desires, say no to self. It is hard, but you'll be better for it.

If they become engaged to marry would the advice change?

No.

BTW I think Believer1997's advice is great!

:)

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Lust is lust, until you are married.


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The best definition of Lust I have heard is this "Lust is desiring anything that you cannot rightly obtain" If you are courting a women and dealing with lustful sexual desire I would take it to the Lord.

The Spiritual War

1 Now I, Paul, myself am pleading with you by the meekness and gentleness of Christ


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If the satisfaction or consumation continues to be 'self' based after marriage, does it not continue to be lust and not love?


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If nothing else works, hop into a cold shower untill you get wrinkled.


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If the satisfaction or consumation continues to be 'self' based after marriage, does it not continue to be lust and not love?

Hebrews 13:4

Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.

Lust is something you desire that you don't have....marriage means you have it. God says to be married if you cannot contain yourself. Or crucify the flesh with God's help until you do.

If a person marries a person that they do not love because they were in lust and not in love, that does not mean they should forsake their marriage. They still made their vows unto God who holds them responsible. The statement you made above sounds like a person who may not even be a christian or a very carnal one.


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If the satisfaction or consumation continues to be 'self' based after marriage, does it not continue to be lust and not love?

Is it possible to lust after something you already have?


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If nothing else works, hop into a cold shower untill you get wrinkled.

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