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I had an argument with a girl at work Friday concerning job duties,and we exchanged words. My manager asked me what happened, and when I tried to tell her, the girl chimed in and tried to answer for me. I told her to shut up,and she told me to shut up, and she has been sore at me ever since. I prevoiUsly had never had a problem with this girl, we usually (used to?) get along really well. I always tell myself that when the sun comes up, its a new day, so I always try to start fresh, but this girl has been carrying this thing around for 3 days now, and it is becoming really difficult to work with her. To make matters worse, she speaks about as much English as I do Spanish, so if I don't choose my words really carefully with her to make amends, I might not say the correct thing, and she will lash out at me again. Do I just avoid her, stay out of her way, or try to find an intermediary to translate? I don't want this thing to carry on into Christmas, I can't imagine why she should want that either, but she is holding fast to her grudge. Does time heal these things, or does it require a solution?

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buy her a christmas card, and write something brief in it by way of apology.


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:o you told her to " shut up " ?????? :taped::taped::taped::taped::taped:

Ok I agree with Lady C but make sure you get someone you trust to help you to write the card so there is NO misunderstanding especially if neither if you speak the others language :thumbsup:

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I had an argument with a girl at work Friday concerning job duties,and we exchanged words. My manager asked me what happened, and when I tried to tell her, the girl chimed in and tried to answer for me. I told her to shut up,and she told me to shut up, and she has been sore at me ever since. I prevoiUsly had never had a problem with this girl, we usually (used to?) get along really well. I always tell myself that when the sun comes up, its a new day, so I always try to start fresh, but this girl has been carrying this thing around for 3 days now, and it is becoming really difficult to work with her. To make matters worse, she speaks about as much English as I do Spanish, so if I don't choose my words really carefully with her to make amends, I might not say the correct thing, and she will lash out at me again. Do I just avoid her, stay out of her way, or try to find an intermediary to translate? I don't want this thing to carry on into Christmas, I can't imagine why she should want that either, but she is holding fast to her grudge. Does time heal these things, or does it require a solution?

Just walk up to her and tell her you're sorry.

It's really that simple.


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:o you told her to " shut up " ?????? :taped::taped::taped::taped::taped:

Ok I agree with Lady C but make sure you get someone you trust to help you to write the card so there is NO misunderstanding especially if neither if you speak the others language :thumbsup:

OK, I confess, I'm a sinner.


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I had an argument with a girl at work Friday concerning job duties,and we exchanged words. My manager asked me what happened, and when I tried to tell her, the girl chimed in and tried to answer for me. I told her to shut up,and she told me to shut up, and she has been sore at me ever since. I prevoiUsly had never had a problem with this girl, we usually (used to?) get along really well. I always tell myself that when the sun comes up, its a new day, so I always try to start fresh, but this girl has been carrying this thing around for 3 days now, and it is becoming really difficult to work with her. To make matters worse, she speaks about as much English as I do Spanish, so if I don't choose my words really carefully with her to make amends, I might not say the correct thing, and she will lash out at me again. Do I just avoid her, stay out of her way, or try to find an intermediary to translate? I don't want this thing to carry on into Christmas, I can't imagine why she should want that either, but she is holding fast to her grudge. Does time heal these things, or does it require a solution?

Just walk up to her and tell her you're sorry.

It's really that simple.

I want to believe that, but if she doesn't accept? This girl is not even looking at me right now, much less speaking to me, so...


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buy her a christmas card, and write something brief in it by way of apology.

This might be the best thing to do, because there is no talking to her right now. Shes like Ft. Knox.


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I had an argument with a girl at work Friday concerning job duties,and we exchanged words. My manager asked me what happened, and when I tried to tell her, the girl chimed in and tried to answer for me. I told her to shut up,and she told me to shut up, and she has been sore at me ever since. I prevoiUsly had never had a problem with this girl, we usually (used to?) get along really well. I always tell myself that when the sun comes up, its a new day, so I always try to start fresh, but this girl has been carrying this thing around for 3 days now, and it is becoming really difficult to work with her. To make matters worse, she speaks about as much English as I do Spanish, so if I don't choose my words really carefully with her to make amends, I might not say the correct thing, and she will lash out at me again. Do I just avoid her, stay out of her way, or try to find an intermediary to translate? I don't want this thing to carry on into Christmas, I can't imagine why she should want that either, but she is holding fast to her grudge. Does time heal these things, or does it require a solution?

Just walk up to her and tell her you're sorry.

It's really that simple.

I want to believe that, but if she doesn't accept? This girl is not even looking at me right now, much less speaking to me, so...

Be humble - be sincere. A bridge is clearly better than a chasm with no pathway.

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Just walk up to her and tell her you're sorry.

It's really that simple.

I want to believe that, but if she doesn't accept? This girl is not even looking at me right now, much less speaking to me, so...

If she doesn't accept then it's her problem, not yours.

Just apologize and let it go. She may blow you off for now, but in time, she'll mellow out.

You may want to ask the Lord to touch her heart. He can do that you know. ;)

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buy her a christmas card, and write something brief in it by way of apology.

This might be the best thing to do, because there is no talking to her right now. Shes like Ft. Knox.

She's like Ft. Knox because that's the way you see her.

Just walk up to her and speak your piece. Even if she doesn't acknowledge your presence, she will be listening. Whatever you do, don't try to make her listen. Just say it and walk away.

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