Your mother and your wife, only one can survive,who y will choose?

[silviawang]

Your mother and your wife, only one can survive,who y will choose?

 

Suppose your mother and your wife are falling into the river at the same time, and when you saving this one,another one is died ,you only have time to save one, not any chance for another to survive,which one you choose to survive

[ayin jade]

Scripturally as someone put it, leave and cleave. 

 

Gen 2

24 Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave to his wife and they shall be one flesh.

[silviawang]

This is a very popular question in Chinese website, and I hope to know the answer in the western world

[Elhanan]

The one who is within closer reach to save.

[other one]

This is a very popular question in Chinese website, and I hope to know the answer in the western world

 

I would choose my wife.  I think God expects me to care for her as myself as we are one.

 

Also, if I saved my mother she would never forgive me of letting my wife die....  she was just like that.  If my daughter saved me instead of my grandchild's father I'd give her hell the rest of her life.  I think most of the people I know would do the same.

 

A marriage is a bond that transcends everything but a relationship with God.  that's the way I was raised

[nebula]

I personally have to shake my head at questions like this. How we think we will react in a stressful situation right now when we have time to think may not be what we end up doing when going through the stressful situation with no time to think.

[silviawang]

I personally have to shake my head at questions like this. How we think we will react in a stressful situation right now when we have time to think may not be what we end up doing when going through the stressful situation with no time to think.

i do not know who "invent"this question,but it is really very popular in chinese website,and most of the chinese men gave the same answer...so ,i want to know the answer of the another "world"

[nebula]

 

I personally have to shake my head at questions like this. How we think we will react in a stressful situation right now when we have time to think may not be what we end up doing when going through the stressful situation with no time to think.

i do not know who "invent"this question,but it is really very popular in chinese website,and most of the chinese men gave the same answer...so ,i want to know the answer of the another "world"

 

 

I understand. What I gave is how I would answer the question.

[ncn]

I have found that often when presented with a serious situation and a decision to be made, we often choose a path that we never thought we would.

 

This doesn't mean that the decision taken is wrong, it's just different from the one we thought we would choose when given the time to think about it.  

[silviawang]

 

This is a very popular question in Chinese website, and I hope to know the answer in the western world

 

I would choose my wife.  I think God expects me to care for her as myself as we are one.

 

Also, if I saved my mother she would never forgive me of letting my wife die....  she was just like that.  If my daughter saved me instead of my grandchild's father I'd give her hell the rest of her life.  I think most of the people I know would do the same.

 

A marriage is a bond that transcends everything but a relationship with God.  that's the way I was raised

 

There is an ancient Chinese folklore:

In a very poor family ,the grandmother loved the grandson so much, she always gave her own food to her grandson,the son was very worry about it and feel so sorry to his mother,and he said to his wife:

“we have only one mother but we can have many kids,so let us kill this son ,and our mother can live better”,his wife agreed.

When they tried to kill the son, suddenly they got some gold form god, this was for praising their good deed ,and both their son and their mother survived and had the good life.

So familiar with Abraham’s story? Yes,this story is as important as the story Abraham sacrificed his son in Christian to the Chinese traditional culture,and is representative the most great moral code in china for thousand years

Search “郭巨埋儿”and let goggle translate for y

 

Another story :

A descendant of emperor was in exile,and had the rest in a poor family,the family was so poor and the man could not submit the good food for the descendant of emperor, so he killed his wife and gave her flesh to the descendant of emperor, to eat.