Modest apparel

[RGR]

Let's go easy. I think what she is trying to say is that, to her, most men are big on sex and think most of the time with.........shall we say something other than their brain. A man and a woman meet on the sidewalk and are talking. 9 out of 10 women are interested in the conversation, "how's your wife and kids?" etc. But 9 out of 10 men have some sort of thought about whether she is "looking good" etc.

[craig911]

Well as long as were keeping it a civil discussion...

I have never had a problem keeping my eyes were they belong. I have seen women who are way under dressed and actually find it offense.

I love my wife and have eyes for her only. She is the most attractive woman to me and that is how it should be.

I am a pretty observant guy when I am out and about but not because I am searching for anything. I like to know what is going on around me as I deal with the general public all day.

I see a lot of people and yes a lot of women. But there is no "sexual" attraction involved with what I see. As I said some of the things I see are offensive to me.

The same applies to young men walking around with their pants hanging down and underwear showing. I don't mind baggy pants but there are limits.

I do have a problem with body exposure for women, married or single. With the exception of married women and it being to their husbands. But to do so in the general public is not a good idea.

If there is something that my wife does when it comes to dress that I feel exposes her in a way that I dislike or makes me feel uncomfortable then I will let her know. It is then up to her to decide how she will respond to my perception of the situation.

I respect my wife and it stops there. If there was something just outright blatant then I would be more concerned about her state of mind not mine. A woman knows exactly what she is wearing and how it makes her look. If the clothing is provocative she is undeniably aware of it.

It still boils down to taste and to be honest with you as the years go by I think good taste is one of the things that is not being passed along to the majority of todays youth. But hey you can throw in good common sense and respect with that to. It is a sign of the times and should remind us all that it is very important that we raise our children in the way of the lord.

Nuf said.

[papasangel]

I believe a woman shoud dress modestly without exposing herself in a tasteful dress. Below the knee halfway to the ankle and a high neckline. I also believe that a woman should conduct herself as befiting a child of God in dress, speech and manners. Personally myself, I also wear a covering to show submission to authority as per bible teaching.

[Constant]

Dear Ronald,

I am thankful that we can settle our differences! I am sorry if I did offend you in anyway, those were never my intentions. My post was meant to say that to me most men are that way. I never pointed the finger at anyone and I would never do that. It seems like I pushed a few buttons with my response and I am sorry for that!

Dear Bro David,

Well it looks like we have had our first argument lol! I am sorry if you took offense to my response. It wasn't directed at you at all or at anyone in general. It was what I see as a woman on my side.

[Guest Bro David™]

Dear Ronald,

I am thankful that we can settle our differences!  I am sorry if I did offend you in anyway, those were never my intentions.  My post was meant to say that to me most men are that way.  I never pointed the finger at anyone and I would never do that.  It seems like I pushed a few buttons with my response and I am sorry for that!

Dear Bro David,

Well it looks like we have had our first argument lol!  I am sorry if you took offense to my response.  It wasn't directed at you at all or at anyone in general.  It was what I see as a woman on my side.

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I love you sis, and always will.

[RGR]

Dear Ronald,

I am thankful that we can settle our differences!  I am sorry if I did offend you in anyway, those were never my intentions.  My post was meant to say that to me most men are that way.  I never pointed the finger at anyone and I would never do that.  It seems like I pushed a few buttons with my response and I am sorry for that!

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No apologies needed; I read it wrong and therefore put more into it than what you meant! But.........you're right on a lot of men seeing women as sex objects. They think the woman is for nothing but gauking at! But there are women who are the same way. For instance a few years ago at another job, I "rebuked" my department manager, who said she was a Christian, for talking how great some guy looked. Her response was, "You can't tell me you don't look...." and I replied that while I wasn't blind, if I did look at a woman, it was to appreciate the beauty God had given her and not to make a sex object out of her.

[Kitten]

This is just my opinion. But I think women should stop wearing really low cut shirts and really short skirts. That sends out a bad message, like "This is appropriate" or "Hey, come and get me!"

[Constant]

This is just my opinion. But I think women should stop wearing really low cut shirts and really short skirts. That sends out a bad message, like "This is appropriate" or "Hey, come and get me!"

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Are you seriously thinking in your own mind that if a woman is wearing a short skirt or low cut shirt then they want men to come and get them? If I wore a short skirt or low cut top I am not asking people to come get me but I can understand why you think this way. You can usually tell when a woman is wearing certain clothing that they want attention. It is really sad to. What ever happened to being beautiful on the inside? Like my other replies on here, I wear sexy feeling clothes and some times I wear just jeans and a teeshirt, but I am never wanting people to think the wrong way of me. I am not a woman who needs to dress sexy for attention!

[Kitten]

I'm sorry if I made you mad Constant. I didn't mean to. That is just my opinion.

[hmh]

Who would ever thought talking about clothing would get this much attention?