bi-sexuality

[dgolvach]

I would say that you need to follow your heart. Believe in the LORD and be the best christian you can. Some will quote scriptures from the bible that state that it is wrong, but if you love the person you are with, that is the LORD.

The LORD will understand. Do not let anyone put you down for what you know in your heart to be true.

Bless you for being so brave.

As a straight male I will confess that my straight sins are not any better than gay sins. I don't know about the" follow your heart " thing though.

"The heart of man is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked: Jer. 17:9.

I pray daily that God changes alot of things in my heart. Its true that most gay folks are "good" people from a human standpoint. (at least mine) Only thing is......we aren't gonna face a human on judgement day.

I will pray that WE all learn to follow God's heart instead of our own. The Bible is the window to God's heart. Just be willing to go with his and ask him to give you the desire and power to do so. Thats all we can really do. Same for me.

God Bless

Dan

[hmh]

I don't believe in bi-sexuality, myself, that is. Either you are straight or gay. Being a homosexual, or bi-sexual, if you draw lines, is ungodly. Giving yourself over to lust after those of the same gender is specifically forbidden by God. If you really want to love God and do his will, you need to get right and get away from living or lusting in that lifestyle. A sin committed by any other name is still a sin.

[sheya joie]

One of my dearest friends used to be bi. He isn't any more. Why? Because he got saved and became a new creature in Christ Jesus. As 1 Cor 6:11 says:

And such were some of you: but ye are washed, but ye are sanctified, but ye are justified in the name of the Lord Jesus, and by the Spirit of our God.

The verb there is were - through Jesus, through the sacrifice HE made willingly on the cross, giving HIS life for love of us all - there is freedom from every kind of sin. HE makes us new in HIM. We are no longer what we were.

My friend is new in Jesus; he no longer worships sex. I am new in Jesus also; I no longer worship my own (stinking before GOD) righteousness in keeping all 'the rules' in my own pride and strength.

Just wanting to encourage you, that you can be new as well.

(Oh, and I want to agree with dgolvach - ALL sin is sin, and NO sin is better or more acceptable than any other.)

[felinefan]

OK thanks everyone, you've been a real help to me. I will try and do what you have said. I just wanted to know because different people say different things so I was confused! Thank you once again. felinefan xxx

[TEN COMMANDMENTS]

Today too many people call themselves christians and live lifestyles that arent Christ-like. Sin the very name of it is being watered down People tend to lower the standards God never intended. To say we are born with this trait or that trait isnt really far from the truth. WE ARE ALL BORN SINNERS we all need a Savior at the end of our lives the most important thing is to stand before A Righteous and Holy God and defend our actions and try to reason with Him because someone said something was alright to do. Each one of us will stand before God and give an account of our lives. God offers grace to the humble and to the proud and haughty spirit He has the law. many people have an early childhood salvation experience or think they have whats important though is God knows your heart and He knows your condition in the end the only one you will have to answer to is God not me nor anyone in these forums God will hold you accountable for your actions and what you do with the Christ read your Bible it will direct you In His Service TEN COMMANDMENTS

[visionary]

You sound young and confused. If you were born a few generations ago, there would be no question as to what is acceptable and which is not. Today the lines have been blurred and it makes it hard for those who are looking for solid answers to see the line. You have experimented with your sexuallity and now are here wanting to know if it has destroyed your life. No... it is a sin to be repented of. Destruction comes to those who do not repent of their wickedness. Will the devil use the experience to hound you and try to get you to believe the lie. Absolutely... IT is like any other sin,... they will come back to haunt you. God has forgiven you, and you are to sin no more. You have chosen to follow Jesus, do so and look not back at the sins of the world that you did participate in but forward to the life in Christ.

[Guest SingofYourLove]

Great topic.

I feel that it is a sin to be homosexual/bi-sexual.

I was living with my ex-fiance and his family. His mom is a lesbian and married to another woman (which I find confussing becuae in God's eyes you cannot do this). They even attend a Chrisitan Chruch that caters to gay/lesbian lifestyle.

The preacher says that "Sexual Immorality" is fornication and sex with objects, animals, etc (yes he was that blunt). The whole sermon was very confussing. So that is part of the reason why I broke up with my ex-fiance. He had a lot of past issues as well.

[Guest Lparkalmost14]

I myself think it is ok for one reason i am bi and i welcome anyone whose bi so nock urself out.

[ayin jade]

LPark, are you a Christian? If so, what does the bible say about it? Does the bible endorse bisexuality or homosexuality?

No it doesnt. Since the bible in fact condemns that as a sin, why would you welcome a sinful lifestyle?

[hmh]

It's a sin, no matter what you may want to call it. Bi- or gay, it's all a sin. In reality either you're gay or straight. It's that simple, just like God's Word. It's black or white, no gray area.