Jump to content
Worthy Christian Forums Will Be Moving Servers on July 3. We hope that it will be completed with a few hours.

Recommended Posts


  • Group:  Diamond Member
  • Followers:  2
  • Topic Count:  106
  • Topics Per Day:  0.02
  • Content Count:  1,072
  • Content Per Day:  0.16
  • Reputation:   25
  • Days Won:  0
  • Joined:  08/13/2006
  • Status:  Offline
  • Birthday:  02/27/1948

Posted

My younger daughter was out with her husband and brother on Saturday. She had 2 drinks and then knew nothing more until 10.00 am the next day. She wasn't drunk and had to ask her husband what happened. Apparently she was perfectly OK one moment, then when her husband came back to her after a few minutes there was another man trying it on with her and she had passed out. They pulled him off and got her home. She was unable to walk and was sick several times. She also remembers absolutely nothing. Today she is still ill, has slept a lot and feels as all her insides have been torn out.

They have reported it to the police. Does anyone know about the best way to recover from this, or any long term effects. She has just started a new job and needs to be there tomorrow. Fortunately today was a public holiday so she's had another day to recover. Would also appreciate your prayers for her.


  • Group:  Royal Member
  • Followers:  2
  • Topic Count:  276
  • Topics Per Day:  0.03
  • Content Count:  7,474
  • Content Per Day:  0.92
  • Reputation:   52
  • Days Won:  0
  • Joined:  02/25/2003
  • Status:  Offline
  • Birthday:  01/31/1966

Posted

Here's some information that may help:

http://teenadvice.about.com/library/weekly/aa062502a.htm

It's hard to tell what kind of drug may have been slipped into her drink, but this site, and some others, give a pretty good picture of the situation.

Hope this helps,

t.


  • Group:  Diamond Member
  • Followers:  0
  • Topic Count:  59
  • Topics Per Day:  0.01
  • Content Count:  1,390
  • Content Per Day:  0.19
  • Reputation:   9
  • Days Won:  0
  • Joined:  10/24/2005
  • Status:  Offline

Posted

PLease take her to the hosp for blood tests asap.

Is sure sounds she was drugged and the dr can help you best in this. The dr will know waht to do for her and if any further problems arise from it for her health.

in my prayers,

elkie


  • Group:  Junior Member
  • Followers:  0
  • Topic Count:  12
  • Topics Per Day:  0.00
  • Content Count:  120
  • Content Per Day:  0.02
  • Reputation:   0
  • Days Won:  0
  • Joined:  04/24/2007
  • Status:  Offline
  • Birthday:  06/04/1971

Posted

I would take her to dr's too. Sounds like the creep in the bar was up to something. If her hubby can give a description of the guy to the police, and the bar employees know him, they may be able to go after him. She was lucky to have witnesses, most women don't.


  • Group:  Diamond Member
  • Followers:  2
  • Topic Count:  106
  • Topics Per Day:  0.02
  • Content Count:  1,072
  • Content Per Day:  0.16
  • Reputation:   25
  • Days Won:  0
  • Joined:  08/13/2006
  • Status:  Offline
  • Birthday:  02/27/1948

Posted

She's rung the police and has been waiting all day for them to come (and they still haven't). I've told her to ring NHS Direct. Unfortunately it's a public holiday here and it's really hard getting hold of a doctor. She doesn't live with me so I can't take her and she's still waiting in for the police.

We really have rubbish service from both police and medical services in big cities at the moment! Neither of them seem to turn out unless it's a matter of life or death! (and even then you can't rely on them!)

Guest LadyC
Posted

she was most likely slipped a rufie... and should have been taken in to the ER for immediate blood tests. hindsight is always 20/20.... by NOW there will be nothing left in her blood to detect if it was the date rape drug, and it will be nearly impossible to bring a case against the perpetrator because there will be no evidence that he did anything wrong.

there are no long-term effects. she'll never remember the details of last night, but that will be the only part of her memory that is affected.

my oldest daughter was slipped a rufie when she was 15, when she and a few friends left a school dance to go to mcdonalds. she could remember every moment up til then. they went thru the drive-thru, the person driving ordered everyone sodas, and probably slipped it into her drink before passing it to her. she does not remember going into the convenience store around the corner five minutes later to buy a pack of gum. (we were told that by the employee at the store.) she does not remember them being pulled over for having a headlight out five miles away. she does not remember being taken to a house where lots of people were drinking. she does not remember leaving there shortly after when her friend, the driver, took her back to HER house where my daughter was supposed to be spending the night. she does not remember the police showing up there, with me and my husband close behind, she does not remember the officer giving her a sobriety test, does not remember us telling her we were pulling her out of the colour-guard and all other extra-curricular activities.

the next thing she DID remember was waking up the next morning, bouncing in like nothing was wrong to talk to me about the dance, and being totally dumbfounded when i "reminded" her that we'd pulled her from colour-guard. she didn't know WHY, asked what she'd done, and when i told her she'd been totally plastered the night before from alcohol, she had no clue what i was talking about.

we called the cops at that point, and were told that rufies mimick intoxication, and that we should take her to the ER for blood tests. when we got there, the hospital informed us that the drug exits the body within a few hours and there would be nothing left to detect.


  • Group:  Members
  • Followers:  0
  • Topic Count:  1
  • Topics Per Day:  0.00
  • Content Count:  9
  • Content Per Day:  0.00
  • Reputation:   0
  • Days Won:  0
  • Joined:  05/08/2007
  • Status:  Offline

Posted

I'm sorry, I don't have any information on that subject, I will definitely add your daughter to my prayers though.


  • Group:  Worthy Ministers
  • Followers:  22
  • Topic Count:  155
  • Topics Per Day:  0.02
  • Content Count:  7,464
  • Content Per Day:  0.96
  • Reputation:   8,810
  • Days Won:  57
  • Joined:  03/30/2004
  • Status:  Offline
  • Birthday:  12/12/1952

Posted

I would be furious and looking for the culpret to did it. What if your daughter had some medical condition? It could have killed her. I just dont' get some people now a days. what are they thinking.?


  • Group:  Royal Member
  • Followers:  2
  • Topic Count:  115
  • Topics Per Day:  0.01
  • Content Count:  8,281
  • Content Per Day:  1.06
  • Reputation:   249
  • Days Won:  3
  • Joined:  03/03/2004
  • Status:  Offline
  • Birthday:  10/30/1955

Posted

I would be furious at her husband an brother for taking her into the sort of an environment where such indignities could be forced upon her. If that happened to my daughter, I'm afraid my son-in-law would be getting a little more than a swift kick in the butt!!!!


  • Group:  Royal Member
  • Followers:  1
  • Topic Count:  117
  • Topics Per Day:  0.02
  • Content Count:  3,860
  • Content Per Day:  0.52
  • Reputation:   10
  • Days Won:  0
  • Joined:  05/10/2005
  • Status:  Offline
  • Birthday:  09/13/1984

Posted

I'm just glad her husband was there to get her home safely...it's one of the reasons why I've never had a drink without someone being there that I could trust with my life.

Guest
This topic is now closed to further replies.
  • Recently Browsing   0 members

    • No registered users viewing this page.
  • Our picks

    • You are coming up higher in this season – above the assignments of character assassination and verbal arrows sent to manage you, contain you, and derail your purpose. Where you have had your dreams and sleep robbed, as well as your peace and clarity robbed – leaving you feeling foggy, confused, and heavy – God is, right now, bringing freedom back -- now you will clearly see the smoke and mirrors that were set to distract you and you will disengage.

      Right now God is declaring a "no access zone" around you, and your enemies will no longer have any entry point into your life. Oil is being poured over you to restore the years that the locust ate and give you back your passion. This is where you will feel a fresh roar begin to erupt from your inner being, and a call to leave the trenches behind and begin your odyssey in your Christ calling moving you to bear fruit that remains as you minister to and disciple others into their Christ identity.

      This is where you leave the trenches and scale the mountain to fight from a different place, from victory, from peace, and from rest. Now watch as God leads you up higher above all the noise, above all the chaos, and shows you where you have been seated all along with Him in heavenly places where you are UNTOUCHABLE. This is where you leave the soul fight, and the mind battle, and learn to fight differently.

      You will know how to live like an eagle and lead others to the same place of safety and protection that God led you to, which broke you out of the silent prison you were in. Put your war boots on and get ready to fight back! Refuse to lay down -- get out of bed and rebuke what is coming at you. Remember where you are seated and live from that place.

      Acts 1:8 - “But you will receive power when the Holy Spirit has come upon you, and you will be my witnesses … to the end of the earth.”

       

      ALBERT FINCH MINISTRY
        • Thanks
        • This is Worthy
        • Thumbs Up
      • 3 replies
    • George Whitten, the visionary behind Worthy Ministries and Worthy News, explores the timing of the Simchat Torah War in Israel. Is this a water-breaking moment? Does the timing of the conflict on October 7 with Hamas signify something more significant on the horizon?

       



      This was a message delivered at Eitz Chaim Congregation in Dallas Texas on February 3, 2024.

      To sign up for our Worthy Brief -- https://worthybrief.com

      Be sure to keep up to date with world events from a Christian perspective by visiting Worthy News -- https://www.worthynews.com

      Visit our live blogging channel on Telegram -- https://t.me/worthywatch
      • 0 replies
    • Understanding the Enemy!

      I thought I write about the flip side of a topic, and how to recognize the attempts of the enemy to destroy lives and how you can walk in His victory!

      For the Apostle Paul taught us not to be ignorant of enemy's tactics and strategies.

      2 Corinthians 2:112  Lest Satan should get an advantage of us: for we are not ignorant of his devices. 

      So often, we can learn lessons by learning and playing "devil's" advocate.  When we read this passage,

      Mar 3:26  And if Satan rise up against himself, and be divided, he cannot stand, but hath an end. 
      Mar 3:27  No man can enter into a strong man's house, and spoil his goods, except he will first bind the strongman; and then he will spoil his house. 

      Here we learn a lesson that in order to plunder one's house you must first BIND up the strongman.  While we realize in this particular passage this is referring to God binding up the strongman (Satan) and this is how Satan's house is plundered.  But if you carefully analyze the enemy -- you realize that he uses the same tactics on us!  Your house cannot be plundered -- unless you are first bound.   And then Satan can plunder your house!

      ... read more
        • Praise God!
        • Thumbs Up
      • 230 replies
    • Daniel: Pictures of the Resurrection, Part 3

      Shalom everyone,

      As we continue this study, I'll be focusing on Daniel and his picture of the resurrection and its connection with Yeshua (Jesus). 

      ... read more
      • 14 replies
    • Abraham and Issac: Pictures of the Resurrection, Part 2
      Shalom everyone,

      As we continue this series the next obvious sign of the resurrection in the Old Testament is the sign of Isaac and Abraham.

      Gen 22:1  After these things God tested Abraham and said to him, "Abraham!" And he said, "Here I am."
      Gen 22:2  He said, "Take your son, your only son Isaac, whom you love, and go to the land of Moriah, and offer him there as a burnt offering on one of the mountains of which I shall tell you."

      So God "tests" Abraham and as a perfect picture of the coming sacrifice of God's only begotten Son (Yeshua - Jesus) God instructs Issac to go and sacrifice his son, Issac.  Where does he say to offer him?  On Moriah -- the exact location of the Temple Mount.

      ...read more
      • 20 replies
×
×
  • Create New...