Pregnant fiancee

[damo1]

damo1

to Schwol

i have had a read of the post to see wear you are at please do not beat your self up my friend let god just deal with what he has to even when it comes to starving my friend i have gone with out plenty of times schowl their wear day wear me and my new wife wear making sure our new borns needs wear being met before our needs a child is very expensive to raise its not as cheep as some think

you are just going to have to trust in god and i am sure he will pull you and your partner threw this even if you have to get a second job i have done this and had to push my self to make sure ethans needs wear being met

wear we lived we wear near the beach and no transport to our nearst town i had to get up early and hitch to work and i did this every day schowl i even had to walk as their wear times i did not get a lift until the locals got to know me and then i was fine as i use to get a lift with sevral diffrent people

at time schowl my feet would be in pain with all the walking i was doing but i got very fit schowl and i had to push my self even though i was in pain to do the work that was asked of me i did odd jobs i even done the rubbish run and was looking at working on a fishing boat but some one else got the job due to having transport as at times i would even work the fruit season and travel and would not be home for the hole season i would make sure the money i earnt was sent to my new wife and we wear able to get a second hand car for 700 from a wrecking yard my father in law helped me work on it we got it passed for rejo and my friends in canberra payed for the rejo for us as they saw how we needed the car

you just need to rejoice schowl speak posative words into your life every day and every day thank god for what he is doing know in your life schowl he hears you when you cry out to him and he wil answer you but you need to keep the faith no matter what is happening around you you can not change what has been done but you can make sure that your parntners needs are being met as god will give you a way to meet those bills our country is diffrent to your country and as i said in the post i left for you

my goverment makes sure single house hold parents are looked after and no child goes with out this is how our goverment is schowl i am sorry to hear what you are having to go threw schowl but man up my friend and rejoice a bit

i am keeping you and your partner in my prayers schowl be at peace and let nothing up set you schowl from your brother in the lord damien

[Shy Christian]

Is she or isn't she?

[Treasure]

Is she or isn't she?

I am wondering the same thing. Were the concerns true, or was it a false alarm?

Waiting.......not patiently, but waiting.........

[Schwol]

Hey guys. Looks like she's not pregnant. She took 2 ept tests, both negative. Lesson learned.

[Leonard]

Hey guys. Looks like she's not pregnant. She took 2 ept tests, both negative. Lesson learned.

Is it quite learned indeed? Do you intend--without excuses or qualification, or exceptions--to STOP FORNICATING? Do you intend to follow the Bible's command and "FLEE youthful lusts"?

To me your voice in this thread has been one of 'fear you've been caught,' and NOT one of genuine repentance for breaking God's heart with your sins.

[sierra21]

Hey guys. Looks like she's not pregnant. She took 2 ept tests, both negative. Lesson learned.

Is it quite learned indeed? Do you intend--without excuses or qualification, or exceptions--to STOP FORNICATING? Do you intend to follow the Bible's command and "FLEE youthful lusts"?

To me your voice in this thread has been one of 'fear you've been caught,' and NOT one of genuine repentance for breaking God's heart with your sins.

I agree with Leonard here.

You need to change your living situation with this girl and STOP HAVING SEX, or get married. Those are the only two options here since you've openly admitted that you cannot handle the temptation. And frankly, it really isn't appropriate for a couple to live together before marriage, and I'm sure you know that without me even saying it. I can't remember it exactly, but theres a verse that says that even if you aren't entering into sinful behaviour, if others think you are based on your actions in public, then you may as well be committing the sin. I'm sure Leonard would know which verse I'm talking about...

I really hope that you take this experience to heart and change your relationship with christ. You've made some mistakes, but this is the perfect oppurtunity to make things right.

I will pray for you.

[damo1]

damo1

to shcwol

i am going to be the mean guy hear as well as last night in our prayer meeting group we wear praying over this exact thing not just over our young people but over the hole town and over our boys as a father of two boys i prayed this over my eldest boy mark and over my youngest boy Ethan who is only 11yrs old

us men also got together and asked god to forgive us for how we saw women with the projected images we have not just by vision but by the magazines that are sold by the way women are put before the whole world on tv and i can tel you when you start seeking god out honestly brother you too will see that as a man of god you need to run from this and put on gods armor

you say that your partner is not pregnant good now be a man and do the right thing get your self an apartment buy your self or if you can not afford an apartment book into a caravan park or ask one of your male friends if you can pitch a tent in their back yard and help with rent and other bills i did this and i also slept in a mates garage

you know need to come before god and you need to repent of what you have been doing as its as if you are seeking our approval hear this is what it sounds like to me you are mature enough know to see that what you have done is wrong

hay i am a 40 yr old male i have been on my own since 2000 i might have slipped two times but i came before god and honestly cried out to him and said i do not want to do this no more lord i said your spirit lives with in and i am a man help me lord to be the man i am meant to be as i do not want to say i am a Christian and then let the flesh have its way since i did this i have not had the desire to seek out women that i know i could sleep with for the night just to please the flesh

my partner lives over sees which is a good thing as i am doing the right thing and before we even think of sleeping with each other i am going to marry her and that way we Will have no one thinking that we are sinning as this is one of the biggest temptations for single people in a relation ship you are no longer apart of this world brother you are bought at a price and gods holy spirit lives with in you every time you do something you are also offending gods spirit as your bodie is not yours any more do you get what i am saying hear your bodie belongs to the holy spirit so if you think of a lust full thought towards your partner you are not just offending god by thinking this way but you are also offending the holy spirit

i want you to go over these scriptures in romans as this is for you my friend than i want you to seek out your pastor and have this dealt with if you want to sleep with your partner man up and marry her show her some respect and keep your self under control you can do this you do not need to air this out to us on this thread

Roams 11 put on Christ

11 and do this knowing the time that now it is high time to awake out of the sleep for know our salvation is nearer then when we first belived

12 the night is far spent the day is at hand therefore let us cast off the works of darkness and let us put on the armor of light

13 let us walk proplerly as in the day not in reverly and drunkeness not in lewdness and lust not in strife and envy

14 but put on the lord jesus christ and make no provision for the flesh to fulfill its lusts

i am sorry to be so up front with you like this shcwol yet you need to hear this from a man and as a man i know what you are feeling and i am asking you as a brother run flee from this and repent and give it over to god and deal with this as this Will show your wife to be if she decides to settle down with you that you respect her and do not see her just to meet your selfish needs you can control this and i want you to control this i want you to get this book their is a youth version to this book called ever youths battle and their is a man version called every mans battle

i went threw this book and passed this on to another brother you can get this threw your Christian book store this is what us real men in the lord do bro put the boy away and become a man

we prayed for every single women that has been used in our brothels in our town and it was not the women praying it was us men praying we cried out to god for these women that are being not just used in brothels but in strip clubs and in the escort agency's as we know that single Christian men and Christian husbands do go to these places and what us guys did we made a oath that we Will continue to pray for these brothels which i call sleazy houses to be shut down we are also going to walk in front of the ones we know in our town and we as men of god are going to say out loud enough is enough and even put pressure on our police department and our council who allows these places to be run like a normal business in our streets wear our kids are wear our schools are

so i am saying to you brother to brother not beating around the bush man up my friend and repent and do the right thing stop lusting after your partner and do the right thing and marry the women that way you are husband and wife

i am praying for you i am not judging you or playing god hear

peace from damo

[ColleenLovesMischief]

I would have to say marry her, or run before the temptation hits you again, and it will hit again.