what is the biblically correct response to a specific crime by spouse

[warrior12]

7 hours ago, whatdoIwant2callmyself said:

 I don't get what you're saying there. The question ultimately is, if your spouse is a pedophile, is divorce OK?

I don't know if you were replying to my reply earlier on, but i will see if i can address your concern.  pedophilia is a horrible and heinous crime, no doubt about that and those who are doing it is being manipulated by evil spirits that has come to seduce and attach  themselves to that body.  I know most people would think that the person looking at those films are acting on their own lust, but i would say the devil has a stronghold on that person mind and is planting thoughts and lustful situations to entice and overwhelm the person weakness. 

There are many people including believers that watch porn, the stats are out there and it is indeed alarming.  You never know at what stage what take place to influence a person to act the way they act.  Remember, many great evangelist fell and would you say now that they were not believers.  Put any person in a room alone  with a powerful computer and search engine we have now and the odds starts to drop in resisting the devil wiles.  

The church has to recognize and teach about the dangers of the world wide web and should have people who have done the research and present the facts about the easy influence of getting into situations that seems harmless at first. Satan knows how to play this game well.    

I cannot see how a marriage partner can reconcile with his other when caught, as the stigma would always be there no matter what.  But is it a forgivable sin is what has to be addressed and both has to come to that agreement.  If reconciliation cannot be achieved, then it is the same as divorce , without the actual legal divorce procedure taking place.  Legally, see your pastor for his advice and recommendation or counselling about it.   looking at the internet for advice would be a mix bag of ideas.

Here is a great book to keep the mind sharp and to come into agreement with the author recommendations against satan devices.

 Precious Remedies Against Satan's Devices

by Thomas Brooks (1608 - 1680)
"Lest Satan should get an advantage of us - for we are not
ignorant of his devices" - 2 Corinthians 2:11

[warrior12]

7 hours ago, whatdoIwant2callmyself said:

 I don't get what you're saying there. The question ultimately is, if your spouse is a pedophile, is divorce OK?

I don't know if you were replying to my reply earlier on, but i will see if i can address your concern.  pedophilia is a horrible and heinous crime, no doubt about that and those who are doing it is being manipulated by evil spirits that has come to seduce and attach  themselves to that body.  I know most people would think that the person looking at those films are acting on their own lust, but i would say the devil has a stronghold on that person mind and is planting thoughts and lustful situations to entice and overwhelm the person weakness. 

There are many people including believers that watch porn, the stats are out there and it is indeed alarming.  You never know at what stage what take place to influence a person to act the way they act.  Remember, many great evangelist fell and would you say now that they were not believers.  Put any person in a room alone  with a powerful computer and search engine we have now and the odds starts to drop in resisting the devil wiles.  

The church has to recognize and teach about the dangers of the world wide web and should have people who have done the research and present the facts about the easy influence of getting into situations that seems harmless at first. Satan knows how to play this game well.    

I cannot see how a marriage partner can reconcile with his other when caught, as the stigma would always be there no matter what.  But is it a forgivable sin is what has to be addressed and both has to come to that agreement.  If reconciliation cannot be achieved, then it is the same as divorce , without the actual legal divorce procedure taking place.  Legally, see your pastor for his advice and recommendation or counselling about it.   looking at the internet for advice would be a mix bag of ideas.

Here is a great book to keep the mind sharp and to come into agreement with the author recommendations against satan devices.  The pdf book can be searched and downloaded from your browser.

 "Precious Remedies Against Satan's Devices"

by Thomas Brooks (1608 - 1680)
"Lest Satan should get an advantage of us - for we are not
ignorant of his devices" - 2 Corinthians 2:11

[whatdoIwant2callmyself]

7 hours ago, warrior12 said:

I don't know if you were replying to my reply earlier on, but i will see if i can address your concern.  pedophilia is a horrible and heinous crime, no doubt about that and those who are doing it is being manipulated by evil spirits that has come to seduce and attach  themselves to that body.  I know most people would think that the person looking at those films are acting on their own lust, but i would say the devil has a stronghold on that person mind and is planting thoughts and lustful situations to entice and overwhelm the person weakness. 

There are many people including believers that watch porn, the stats are out there and it is indeed alarming.  You never know at what stage what take place to influence a person to act the way they act.  Remember, many great evangelist fell and would you say now that they were not believers.  Put any person in a room alone  with a powerful computer and search engine we have now and the odds starts to drop in resisting the devil wiles.  

The church has to recognize and teach about the dangers of the world wide web and should have people who have done the research and present the facts about the easy influence of getting into situations that seems harmless at first. Satan knows how to play this game well.    

I cannot see how a marriage partner can reconcile with his other when caught, as the stigma would always be there no matter what.  But is it a forgivable sin is what has to be addressed and both has to come to that agreement.  If reconciliation cannot be achieved, then it is the same as divorce , without the actual legal divorce procedure taking place.  Legally, see your pastor for his advice and recommendation or counselling about it.   looking at the internet for advice would be a mix bag of ideas.

Here is a great book to keep the mind sharp and to come into agreement with the author recommendations against satan devices.

 Precious Remedies Against Satan's Devices

by Thomas Brooks (1608 - 1680)
"Lest Satan should get an advantage of us - for we are not
ignorant of his devices" - 2 Corinthians 2:11

Well of course I was responding to your remarks. That's why I quoted you when I made my own.

I'll keep this short. Pornography between consenting adults on the film is legal. Yes, there are Christians that watch porn. I don't understand why but that's their prerogative. They're voyeurs of of artificial sex acts and if they're single that's their choice. If they're married Christians perhaps they do it to spice up their marriage bed. Whatever the case, that too is their choice as consenting adults. 

 

Child pornography is not only illegal, it is obscene. It is child rape. Whether it is still photographs or video it is an abomination. Is it a forgivable sin? Yes, God would forgive. Is it something a female spouse could forgive? Especially if she has children  with that pedophile? Could she ever wonder if such abomination gets her husband aroused when viewing other babies in obscene media, are her own babies safe from such a pervert? 

That would be her choice too. However, if she couldn't reconcile that then God would certainly understand and forgive her for her divorce. Because when Jesus said it is better someone tie a millstone around their neck than to lead a child to sin, I can't imagine God would condemn a woman who divorced a pedophile pervert husband who watches abominable sex acts of children and commits to his own sin of lust for those children in the process. 

Better a divorce than to kill the sob. 

Easy choice. Thou shalt divorce. Or thou shalt ask God to forgive a wife for the murder of her pervert husband because some whacked idea that divorce of a pedophile is wrong got stuck in her head by someone who doesn't get how wrong it is to watch child pornography. 

 

But that's just me. I have no patience for those who rape children. They're good for two things. Prison or target practice.