spiderman1917 Posted July 2, 2016 Group: Diamond Member Followers: 11 Topic Count: 117 Topics Per Day: 0.04 Content Count: 1,028 Content Per Day: 0.34 Reputation: 810 Days Won: 2 Joined: 02/24/2016 Status: Offline Share Posted July 2, 2016 (edited) So, I'm not so Naive as to think there aren't women online that want to marry an American man for citizenship. I was contacted by some Jew born and raised in Israel, and she was very persistent in asking me my philosophies on everything, hobbies, what I'm looking for. Made a video for her answering all her questions, have many problems, been in jail, in a sober house, that I had drug problems, I'm broke, not really marriage material, but she quickly stated she'd be with a broke man who lives in poverty as long as he loves her and is honest. My facebook page contained primarily just prayers, personal spirituality, jokes, and lots of info on Islam not being a religion of peace, but nothing indicating I want to hook up with anyone. Yet, after sharing all the reasons why I'm not Material for a blissful marriage, it was then that she expressed a desire to work as a team and marry me because I appear to be what she's looking for. It sounds very suspicious but it could be she just says what's on her mind. I'm sure many of us here have extensively converse with someone, and the first day we met them had thoughts of marriage to them, but of course wouldn't speak those thoughts. So, since the internet can be a dangerous place , I thought I would ask for any of your thoughts on this. She could perhaps be a terrorist who wants me to be taken out because I have so much knowledge of Mohammed, the Koran, am fanatically promoting Trump, and the barbaric history of Islam. Or just a Jew who really likes my style Something doesn't feel right so will need to be skeptical and pray. Since I made it clear that I'm broke and in a sober house with no degree and other problems doesn't that almost eliminate the chances of it being someone wanting financial gain? Edited July 2, 2016 by spiderman1917 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
other one Posted July 3, 2016 Group: Worthy Ministers Followers: 29 Topic Count: 598 Topics Per Day: 0.08 Content Count: 56,128 Content Per Day: 7.56 Reputation: 27,857 Days Won: 271 Joined: 12/29/2003 Status: Offline Share Posted July 3, 2016 many people move heaven and earth so to speak to legally get into the US. Chances are that as soon as you were married and she became legal, she'd dump you, so it would not matter your life circumstances.... Has happened to a couple of my friends kids over the past ten years. It's rather heartbreaking to find out that they really never cared for you in the first place. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MorningGlory Posted July 3, 2016 Group: Royal Member Followers: 0 Topic Count: 1,022 Topics Per Day: 0.16 Content Count: 39,193 Content Per Day: 6.11 Reputation: 9,977 Days Won: 78 Joined: 10/01/2006 Status: Offline Share Posted July 3, 2016 13 hours ago, spiderman1917 said: So, I'm not so Naive as to think there aren't women online that want to marry an American man for citizenship. I was contacted by some Jew born and raised in Israel, and she was very persistent in asking me my philosophies on everything, hobbies, what I'm looking for. Made a video for her answering all her questions, have many problems, been in jail, in a sober house, that I had drug problems, I'm broke, not really marriage material, but she quickly stated she'd be with a broke man who lives in poverty as long as he loves her and is honest. My facebook page contained primarily just prayers, personal spirituality, jokes, and lots of info on Islam not being a religion of peace, but nothing indicating I want to hook up with anyone. Yet, after sharing all the reasons why I'm not Material for a blissful marriage, it was then that she expressed a desire to work as a team and marry me because I appear to be what she's looking for. It sounds very suspicious but it could be she just says what's on her mind. I'm sure many of us here have extensively converse with someone, and the first day we met them had thoughts of marriage to them, but of course wouldn't speak those thoughts. So, since the internet can be a dangerous place , I thought I would ask for any of your thoughts on this. She could perhaps be a terrorist who wants me to be taken out because I have so much knowledge of Mohammed, the Koran, am fanatically promoting Trump, and the barbaric history of Islam. Or just a Jew who really likes my style Something doesn't feel right so will need to be skeptical and pray. Since I made it clear that I'm broke and in a sober house with no degree and other problems doesn't that almost eliminate the chances of it being someone wanting financial gain? Listen to your gut feeling about this, Spiderman. No rational person would want to marry someone they have never met. I personally know girls from South America, Columbia, who met and married American men just to get American citizenship. One is still with the husband, the other took off with a younger guy. Don't trust ANYONE you meet on the internet. 'She' could be a Hindu man for all you know. Meet girls in places where you see them in person and have something in common or through mutual friends. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LadyKay Posted July 3, 2016 Group: Royal Member Followers: 12 Topic Count: 385 Topics Per Day: 0.10 Content Count: 7,692 Content Per Day: 1.93 Reputation: 4,809 Days Won: 3 Joined: 05/28/2013 Status: Offline Share Posted July 3, 2016 My FB page is set to friends only and I won't talk to anyone I don't know. Or add them to my friend's list. Most of my friend's list is my family. You need to be very careful online. People are not always what they seem to be. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MorningGlory Posted July 3, 2016 Group: Royal Member Followers: 0 Topic Count: 1,022 Topics Per Day: 0.16 Content Count: 39,193 Content Per Day: 6.11 Reputation: 9,977 Days Won: 78 Joined: 10/01/2006 Status: Offline Share Posted July 3, 2016 16 minutes ago, LadyKay said: My FB page is set to friends only and I won't talk to anyone I don't know. Or add them to my friend's list. Most of my friend's list is my family. You need to be very careful online. People are not always what they seem to be. That's exactly what I do too, LK. Family and real life friends only. And you are so right about people on the internet; remember what just happened to that lady on 'Sister Wives'. She was totally catfished. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CaringBrit Posted July 3, 2016 Group: Diamond Member Followers: 24 Topic Count: 18 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 1,145 Content Per Day: 0.40 Reputation: 603 Days Won: 2 Joined: 06/04/2016 Status: Offline Birthday: 03/24/1993 Share Posted July 3, 2016 my Partner as you know MG is out in Texas we met online yes but i have seen him on camera so i know he is who he says he is however i would never rush to move to him etc for that very reason Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ezra Posted July 3, 2016 Group: Royal Member Followers: 16 Topic Count: 134 Topics Per Day: 0.04 Content Count: 8,142 Content Per Day: 2.35 Reputation: 6,612 Days Won: 20 Joined: 11/02/2014 Status: Offline Share Posted July 3, 2016 14 hours ago, spiderman1917 said: So, since the internet can be a dangerous place , I thought I would ask for any of your thoughts on this. You have a couple of options: (1) Thanks but no thanks or (2) come down and visit and we will talk. But you will need to make it clear that you can only marry a Christian, and that needs to be settled before any further communication. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lavender Posted July 3, 2016 Group: Advanced Member Followers: 4 Topic Count: 6 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 148 Content Per Day: 0.05 Reputation: 186 Days Won: 0 Joined: 03/20/2016 Status: Offline Share Posted July 3, 2016 It sounds strange to me. It would be more suitable to date someone that was from your own country that you could meet and get to know really well. Then you would more likely have an idea of who they are as a person. People can lie so much online. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spiderman1917 Posted July 3, 2016 Group: Diamond Member Followers: 11 Topic Count: 117 Topics Per Day: 0.04 Content Count: 1,028 Content Per Day: 0.34 Reputation: 810 Days Won: 2 Joined: 02/24/2016 Status: Offline Author Share Posted July 3, 2016 (edited) Yeah... Something just feels uneasy... She doesn't answer some of the questions I ask but it could be her understanding this language.... ...either way, I'm very sufficiently letting her know I've got serious problems and not one I would wish my worst enemy to marry just trying to discern if God wants me to minister to her in some way. I've met frauds and con artists online and she doesn't resemble them, but it still seems I've got someone highly unusual and confused falling in love with me. I'm just gonna keep telling her that this life is short and fragile, this is not our home, and no creature can she turn to for happiness but God. There is a lesson god is trying to teach in this. Edited July 3, 2016 by spiderman1917 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spiderman1917 Posted July 3, 2016 Group: Diamond Member Followers: 11 Topic Count: 117 Topics Per Day: 0.04 Content Count: 1,028 Content Per Day: 0.34 Reputation: 810 Days Won: 2 Joined: 02/24/2016 Status: Offline Author Share Posted July 3, 2016 (edited) She mentions God alot and I go to the basilica and make videos and prayers for her, and try to get her to see that our happiness cannot be in this world but in the next one, and the happiness and Delight we find in this world must be found in our Lord, not in people, possessions, or carnal pleasure. She's attractive but I have a feeling there may be something wrong with her and I'm uneasy with this. it is just a lonely sad world for a lot of people and they think something other than God can make them happy. She said Israel is a scary horrible place to live and she wants to start a new life somewhere else. But yeah, who knows when someone online is telling the truth. Something just don't feel right. Edited July 3, 2016 by spiderman1917 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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