Modest apparel

[Constant]

Kitten,

Hello! You never made me upset with your opinion. Why would I be? Sometimes when I speak, I come off as being rude or upset but in fact I am not. No need to appologize!

[Kitten]

Kitten,

Hello!  You never made me upset with your opinion.  Why would I be?  Sometimes when I speak, I come off as being rude or upset but in fact I am not.  No need to appologize!

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Thank you.

[nagwalk]

Pretty hard to lust withTHESE clothes.

[Constant]

Who would ever thought talking about clothing would get this much attention?  http://www.worthychristianforums.com/uploads/emoticons/default_emot-hug.gif' alt=':emot-hug:'>

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No kidding huh?! Ah the joys of different opinions! It makes for an interesting read though!

[Guest Bro David™]

[other one]

Well, there is always the burka. Sounds like what some here whould like to see all the time in public.

This place surprises me daily....

[toddlermom]

Women just do not understand how easily men's homones are provoked by our dress - or lack there-of .

Women, we need to guard the integrity of our brothers and not provoke them to lust by our insistance on "dressing as I want."

Now I'm not into the wearing of long sleeves when it is 100 degrees F outside or anything that exteme!  But there really is no godly reason for midriff exposure, partial upper-breast exposure, breast-emphasizing apparel, DaisyDukes, bikinis, etc.

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I totally agree. We have a very "open" so-to-speak church, where people feel free to dress comfortably, but some women dress way to comfortable. It's one thing to dress tastefully, but another to dress in way that draws alot of attention to yourself. Im not just talking about skimpy clothes either. There is a lady at our church that dress so wild. HUGE hats, bright skirts and tops with sparkles and glitter. She is definately covered up but i dont believe that church is a place to get all the attention on you.

[darkest_red]

I totally agree that people should not wear clothes that are too revealing etc but I wear what I feel comfortable in and what I like to wear... if my skirt is a bit above the knee, so what? Saying that though, I always look decent (you can ask my mum if you like!)... I'm not sure I know how to look anything but decent *looks innocent*

I don't get the trend for wearing clothes that leave nothing to the imagination... it

isn't good and people will always presume your reputation if they see you dressed like that. The new trend where I live seems to be (for the girls) wearing tight trousers, a little top and having flab on display I don't look frumpy but I have self respect and would never wear anything that I didn't feel comfortable in or wasn't suitable. Yeah, I wear short skirts but it's not because I want male attention, I don't, I just like wearing them as they're cooler in summer than jeans. When I was on holiday in Italy a few years ago, I was wearing a short (ish) skirt and a nun gave me a dirty look though...

I had more to say but I've forgotten it.... *sigh*

[Constant]

Hey Darkest Red! I like your post! With women, for the most part, you can pretty much tell if they are craving attention with their choice of clothing and how they present themselves. I feel this way anyway. If me for an example am wearing a tube top revealing my stomach and I am some what how do I explain, acting like a you know what, sticking my chest out and acting ditzy then you can only imagine what I am striving for~attention. This again is my opinion and it may not be agreeable to others. I present myself with respect and confidence. That is how I can try and feel a woman out. Does this make sense? It is very hard to explain it!

[Guest Bro David™]

Hey Darkest Red!  I like your post!  With women, for the most part, you can pretty much tell if they are craving attention with their choice of clothing and how they present themselves.  I feel this way anyway.  If me for an example am wearing a tube top revealing my stomach and I am some what how do I explain, acting like a you know what, sticking my chest out and acting ditzy then you can only imagine what I am striving for~attention.  This again is my opinion and it may not be agreeable to others.  I present myself with respect and confidence.  That is how I can try and feel a woman out.  Does this make sense?  It is very hard to explain it!

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I agree with you sis.

It is how you carry yourself.

You can wear a ankle length skirt and still be the one with the well signed guest book. So to speak. It really is hard to say that only the dress defines the woman.

It is the woman inside.