The Fruits of the Spirit are

[Sower]

5 hours ago, Who me said:

 

Don't we love Jargon!

abide in Christ, Paul talked about clearly presenting the gospel, ever thought about the jargon used by Christians when talking about the faith.

 

Now explain what you mean?

Jargon;   special words or expressions that are used by a particular profession or group and are difficult
for others to understand,   a form of language regarded as barbarous, debased, or hybrid.

"Don't we love Jargon!"
You need to speak for your self, Who me, and not the rest of us. I had to look up the meaning.
You could simply ask your question and I would have simply answered.
Instead, led by your spirit, you decided to add a little spice.  Cool, but I wondered, Who me?...............
John 15 is one of my favorite scriptures, and I have learned a lot of wisdom there.
The OP was about fruit (of the spirit) and how to obtain it. John 15 is about fruit 'bearing'.
My post was to show that we cannot produce fruit, as scripture says. But we can allow Christ's fruit to flow THROUGH us...
I assumed  God's word here would be self explanatory. Yet I did explain it anyway.
Most importantly, I repeated the scripture, we must abide, in Christ, to bear fruit!
His fruit, that he produced, that we are privileged to bear, as we cannot bear fruit "of ourselves", unless we abide.
Jesus describes He is the true vine, we are the branches, The Father is the vine tender.
A branch laying lazily on the ground cannot do anything. Abiding on the vine, it bears what the vine produces.
The fruit we bear is not for our consumption. It is for others.
I already showed the definitions about abide. My take on it is like having a God consciousnesses, an awareness, of his presence,
acknowledging him about everything I do. (asking for help) An expressed need for direction, in actions words, and thoughts.
Admitting/confessing sin immediately, agreeing with God my lack, and then I press on, not morphing over it.
All sin has been 'totally' paid for. My "all day long" confessing sin is for fellowship, and cleansing of any unrighteousness.
It also adds good(true) data (light) in my mind, to remove false data, lies, etc. I suppose, becoming a "Jesus freak!"
Thy word have I hid in my heart that I may not sin against thee.     (good/true data)

In my wildest dreams, I would never thought God's word, "Abide in me", would have been considered Jargon.
I apologize for not being more understandable. I also don't understand/use most highfalutin(pompous or pretentious) words.

 

[Desopixi Seilynam]

The fruit is not missing, as a believer you already do have all the fruit, it's part of the Gift you've been given [Acts 2:38] we just need to believe it and exercise it.