What point did it hit you you were married

[Qnts2]

I work in the computer field. The very last seconds, before I left on Friday on my wedding weekend, I changed my computer sign on from my maiden name to my married name. On Monday, I signed on with my married name. The Friday change made it hit home that this was my last time signing on with my maiden name and I was about to get married. On Monday was the first time I signed on with my married name, no more to go by my maiden name.

[Diatheosis]

One day I was praying and asking God how could I serve Him better, and then He said to me: "Marry her", so I immediately picked up the phone and made the arrangements, proposed after all was fixed. A strong indicator for marriage that would last.

 

I guess one of the good things about being married is to goof around and without needing to act but be spontaneous. You can show who you really are without thinking if she's going to break up just like that. She knew what she would get

[Widor1]

When I could correctly spell and sign my last name. 

[Guest]

When I could correctly spell and sign my last name. 

 

lol

 

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Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the LORD. Proverbs 18:22

 

For Twenty Years Carol Signed Her "Other" Full Name (Mine) On All My Pay Checks

The Paychecks Were Mailed To Us And Because I Was Always At Work

And Carol Really Needed To Cover Outstanding Checks

She Did All Our Banking

 

Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come. Proverbs 31:5

 

So The First Day I Was On Vacation And Went In To Our Bank To Sign And Deposit My Check

Because Of My Signature, The Cashier Demanded To See My Identification 

It Didn't Quite Match Up With Her Records, lol

 

She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness. Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her. Proverbs 31-27-28

 

With A Razor Sharp Mathematical Mind

And A B.A. Degree In Economics

Carol Is My Fiscal CEO

 

Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised. Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates. Proverbs 31:30-31

 

Old Fashion Marriages

Seens To Be The Missing Link

In The World Of Today's Financial Laws

 

The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil. She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life. Proverbs 31:11-12

[coheir]

when i got in trouble for not  calling to say I will be a little late

[nebula]

I have to say something.
 

It saddens me that most people's memory of marriage hitting them are memories of annoyances and inconveniences.

[Kali_Ko_Kat]

Marriage is a BIG adjustment. For us women, we generally have to get used to a new last name. For 23 years I had a different last name. All of sudden I had a new one and that took some getting used to. I had told people what my last name was for years, then had to remember to give them my married name. When I signed papers and documents it took me a while before I stopped signing my maiden name.

As for the little annoyances, those hit home when you move in together after the I Do's are said. I had no idea my new husband would leave the newspaper scattered on the table. He did not know I would want my books and some of my furniture or how I cook certain things. We did not live together before marriage so how would know about the quirks the others had?

That was all part of the discovery process, learning more about each other, and working together to accept each other as we were-faults and all.

Edited July 25, 2013 by Kali_Ko_Kat

[chance]

 

An interesting question asked elsewhere on the forum (from a mans point of view).

 

I would like to hear from the "other half" as well as what more men might think. This was my short answer...

 

Trying to get onto my own computer. Girl things hanging in the bathroom. Curtains that fit the windows. A new TV/stereo stand (I thought the one I had was acceptable - apparently I have no taste....)

 

Wonderful smells coming from the kitchen. A refrigerator that no longer looks like a laboratory test is being run inside it.

 

Having to share my favorite recliner.

 

All good stuff.....

 

 

The very second that I promised God that I do!

[missmuffet]

Probably turned over in my bed and thinking oh my their is a man in my bed.

[LadyKay]

It hit me right away. Like at the wedding reception. When it started getting late into the night and I realized that I just can't up and leave and go back to my little apartment and be  by myself. Silly I know.