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Nothing like finding the right one is there other one?  I was 30 when I met and married Steve, we had 25 wonderful years together.  Yes waiting until the right one comes along is so worth it.

 

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It can be very painful to be betrayed by someone you love.  But God can give you the strength and grace to overcome that and move on.  If you are a Christian and dating services are secular, you already have a problem.  Talk to some mature and wise Christians that you know personally and care about you.  Talk to the Lord about a Christian spouse coming into your life.

I would trust a dating service any further then I could throw one.  You can be anyone you want to be in a service like that.  No thanks, not in today's world.  Why are you in such a hurry to get married? Don't you think it's worth the wait to find the one God has chosen for you?

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Love yourself.  You are perfect in God's eyes.  Once that love you have for yourself and God shows, you will attract others to be your friend.  You can let God take it from there.  Never give up on yourself.

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RustyAngel - The truth -  Faith isn't faith until it's all your holding on to.

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On 4/19/2016 at 8:50 AM, Martyr212 said:

Love yourself.  You are perfect in God's eyes.  Once that love you have for yourself and God shows, you will attract others to be your friend.  You can let God take it from there.  Never give up on yourself.

I would say though, that a person who places their focus on being the right person, instead of finding the right person, is off to a good start.

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Hello Forgon, just checking in to see how you are feeling today.  I hope you are in a better place in your heart today.  I prayed that Jesus would help you see how glorious you are to HIM.

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Thanks for all your suggestions.

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Praying~!

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On 3/7/2016 at 4:38 PM, Forgon said:

 

 

Hey, friends!  I am 25 years old. I am totally broken. I was in a serious relationship for around 5 years. He was beside me during all my difficult situation. He has helped me a lot financially and was also a moral support. He had never proposed me. He says he cannot consider me as his partner. To him, I’m just a good friend or maybe a sister. I thought of even ending up my life. But I have no courage to do that either. I tried everything to divert my mind like gardening, music and stuff like that. It has helped me to some extent. Now I am considering a marriage. My friend suggested a dating service in Toronto. She says that dating services provides counselling session and coaching and consulting throughout the process. What is your opinion? Any previous experiences?

I feel you are rushing things. I think you should take a couple of months to spend in His Presence and become closer to Him before you take any life decisions

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I recently broke off my engagement, and the main reason was that I felt he followed the world, even though he was a Christian. I love him as a person, but couldn't see him all of a sudden as a life partner. When things like this happen, you should consider yourself blessed in a way, because God wants something and someone else for you. Your life is precious and you have great value in God's eyes. Priceless value. Break ups are hard, but consider that at least he was being honest, and you can move on. Cry, grieve, but someday, you won't hurt so much. Praying for you. :emot-heartbeat:

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