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[frienduff thaylorde]

33 minutes ago, LadyKay said:

Hmmm..... Another post complaining about how  another person is  dressing. There seems to be a lot of "lets point out other people's sin and short comings" on here. 

The pope and many false prophets have no problems pointing out true christains who warn.   they expose us as evil.

WE supposed to correct.    But today its got so bad that to tell a muslim repent and come to faith n Christ is seen as jihad

or trying warning one n a sin , is seen as a hater.     IT WONT WORK ON ME SIS.    I warn because I LOVE and desire none to perish.  

The liberals destroyed their churches,  many conservatives are destroying thiers too.  with mans ideals of what is right and wrong.

PC don't work on me.     WE all stand before THE JUDGE,  so BC , BIBICALLY CORRECT   JESUS Following is what we must be.

[missmuffet]

45 minutes ago, frienduff thaylorde said:

Even paul told those to warn , rebuke others who are not following the example of Christ and what the apostels taught .

We just live in an age where the only WRONG is telling someone what is wrong.  

We do not say and do as others. We follow God. Plain and simple.

[HisFirst]

13 hours ago, Davida said:

I guess that is where mothers and mother substitutes i.e. sisters in Christ need to advise the babes in Christ and take them under wing. It is the discipling that is lacking in the Christian community.  

I agree totally if she has grown up in a Christian home, it should come direct from Mum, or Christian women in the family/church family.

[HisFirst]

9 hours ago, LadyKay said:

Hmmm..... Another post complaining about how  another person is  dressing. There seems to be a lot of "lets point out other people's sin and short comings" on here. 

You have a good point - it could be conveyed as such.

With regards to females in general, I think a woman can wear a hessian sack and still turn mens heads....that's just my opinion 

[Estrella]

Nothing is more attractive than a classy woman rather than a trashy woman anyday. Being attractive do not have to involve revealing too much skin or too much curves. In some case, covering up way too much as if one looks insecure of her body or dressing up sloppily isn't attractive either. I believe everything in moderation and according to place and situation. 

[HisFirst]

Just now, Eastern Star said:

Nothing is more attractive than a classy woman rather than a trashy woman anyday. Being attractive do not have to involve revealing too much skin or too much curves. In some case, covering up way too much as if one looks insecure of her body or dressing up sloppily isn't attractive either. I believe everything in moderation and according to place and situation. 

I agree but I also know that young Western women need to be told in a loving spirit how to dress period (and as a Christian woman).

Remember, we are living in a highly sexualized culture which is out of control - it has crept into the church as well.

I see inappropriate church wear as well as couples (young and old) tenderly rubbing backs or necks or stroking hair - everything has a place but people need to be told with love.

Just seems like people are not being told period.

[Estrella]

4 hours ago, HisFirst said:

I agree but I also know that young Western women need to be told in a loving spirit how to dress period (and as a Christian woman).

Remember, we are living in a highly sexualized culture which is out of control - it has crept into the church as well.

I see inappropriate church wear as well as couples (young and old) tenderly rubbing backs or necks or stroking hair - everything has a place but people need to be told with love.

Just seems like people are not being told period.

Oh believe me...this isnt only happening in the western counterparts. In fact over here, at times, non Christians are much more modest than Christians, especially in their places of worship...dress codes/conservative traditional attire etc. Example: i come from hindu culture/ background. No hindu would wear to temples what some Christians wear to church...you wouldnt really be allowed if one was to be dressed indecently. In fact for tourists to visit certain temples, if they were wearing shorts or miniskirts, long garment/ or scarves are prepared for them to wear so they could cover up before entering. It is deemed great insult to a sacred place of worship for one ...male or female to be dressed inappropriately.

Christians are actually blessed to be able to dress our best for the Lord. Sometimes, it is hard to establish whats appropriate or not according to generations but... if it is rather obvious that some attire is obscene, then yes he or she needs to be told in loving yet firm manner without the mentality of being judgmental and quick to accuse / blame attitude. Above everything, in approaching certain someone, i pray n hope one would not begin the sentence with "if you are a true Christian or saved, you would or wouldnt...and if you dont obey... you are so and so..."

[missmuffet]

2 hours ago, Eastern Star said:

Oh believe me...this isnt only happening in the western counterparts. In fact over here, at times, non Christians are much more modest than Christians, especially in their places of worship...dress codes/conservative traditional attire etc. Example: i come from hindu culture/ background. No hindu would wear to temples what some Christians wear to church...you wouldnt really be allowed if one was to be dressed indecently. In fact for tourists to visit certain temples, if they were wearing shorts or miniskirts, long garment/ or scarves are prepared for them to wear so they could cover up before entering. It is deemed great insult to a sacred place of worship for one ...male or female to be dressed inappropriately.

Christians are actually blessed to be able to dress our best for the Lord. Sometimes, it is hard to establish whats appropriate or not according to generations but... if it is rather obvious that some attire is obscene, then yes he or she needs to be told in loving yet firm manner without the mentality of being judgmental and quick to accuse / blame attitude. Above everything, in approaching certain someone, i pray n hope one would not begin the sentence with "if you are a true Christian or saved, you would or wouldnt...and if you dont obey... you are so and so..."

I used to work with a lady who was Hindu. She was a friend. She dressed very appropriately and was very modest.

[JTC]

On 1/22/2018 at 4:33 AM, HisFirst said:

You have a good point - it could be conveyed as such.

With regards to females in general, I think a woman can wear a hessian sack and still turn mens heads....that's just my opinion 

I was never a slave to fashion which means I don't know what a hessian sack is. I assume it's for women and covers everything. But I want to point out it's not the 50's to the 80's anymore and today women, especially young women get their lust fired up as much as men. Some TV commercials more than prove this. So men shouldn't wear clothes that show what's under the clothes anymore than woman should. 12 yrs ago I was a mod on a board about sexual addictions. At first 95% of the posts were from men hooked on porn. Just like a drug it's fun at first, but even single men came to see it as a problem after awhile. Then a very surprising post post came. It was from a young woman and she was hooked on both male and female porn. She had read many posts from men who realized no woman regardless of how sexy she was effected him the same as the porn. No woman wants to be with a man who rather sit in front of a PC and now I knew no man wants to be with a woman who'd rather look at porn. That wasn't a Christian board but this is. I realized devils and demons are behind porn and whereas 50 yrs ago most women looked away today many don't. They have no idea what their doing. If those naked men had red horns and tails and screamed follow me and make you so hot you'll beg for ice, many women would look away. But men also don't know demons are behind this. I don't even believe there are female devils and demons. When you give in to them they're watching you. Ever feel like you aren't alone? That's because you aren't.

Neither women nor men should dress showing too much skin. Would you dress like that if Jesus was coming for dinner? If not, it's too sexy.

[HisFirst]

9 hours ago, JTC said:

I was never a slave to fashion which means I don't know what a hessian sack is. I assume it's for women and covers everything.

Lol JTC!! Let's just say it is something no woman would wear (hessian sack=potato sack).

 

*and as for porn, its an epidemic because its no longer a hush hush habit but has been brought out into mainstream viewing (online) and people in the industry are looked upon equal to celebrities with a look some young women try to emulate and some young guys prefer.(in a woman)

Its truly a problem.

 

 

 

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