porton Posted March 20, 2019 Group: Members Followers: 1 Topic Count: 7 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 12 Content Per Day: 0.00 Reputation: 2 Days Won: 0 Joined: 03/10/2015 Status: Offline Birthday: 07/21/1980 Share Posted March 20, 2019 I am 38. What is the best age of a girl to marry to? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steward Popular Post George Posted March 20, 2019 Group: Steward Followers: 110 Topic Count: 10,465 Topics Per Day: 1.26 Content Count: 27,773 Content Per Day: 3.33 Reputation: 15,463 Days Won: 129 Joined: 06/30/2001 Status: Online Birthday: 09/21/1971 Steward Popular Post Share Posted March 20, 2019 47 minutes ago, porton said: I am 38. What is the best age of a girl to marry to? Forget age ... who the person that is God's helpmate for you? Seek the Kingdom of God and His righteousness ... then all these other things are added unto you. Keep it all in proper perspective ... and life will be much easier! 6 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AnOrangeCat Posted March 20, 2019 Group: Diamond Member Followers: 5 Topic Count: 57 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 1,403 Content Per Day: 0.27 Reputation: 1,824 Days Won: 0 Joined: 12/24/2009 Status: Offline Share Posted March 20, 2019 It's highly variable! Some people learn life's lessons earlier or later than others and are more willing and able to get their life in order f0r a marriage to work. Trust God to lead you to the right person at the right time and don't forget to pray about it! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ravindran Posted March 20, 2019 Group: Advanced Member Followers: 1 Topic Count: 11 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 496 Content Per Day: 0.14 Reputation: 398 Days Won: 0 Joined: 07/18/2014 Status: Offline Share Posted March 20, 2019 I think this is very cultural as well. I come from India. And now I live in US. What is normal marital age is totally different in these 2 countries! But doctors do suggest better childbearing age. I believe it's late 20's to early 30's. Assuming a person would be interested in having children after marriage, may be that's a good benchmark to consider? All said, an ideal age for marriage is when God brings the person the right partner! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dr3032 Posted March 20, 2019 Group: Advanced Member Followers: 1 Topic Count: 13 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 332 Content Per Day: 0.16 Reputation: 273 Days Won: 0 Joined: 06/23/2018 Status: Offline Share Posted March 20, 2019 Just as wisdom and knowledge can be sought at any age, it is also true that it can be forsaken at any age. I have met a fair number of mature young people... And a number of old people who are just a little TOO young at heart. It's not so much a matter of age so much as it is whether she's the right one or not. At the very least, I would keep in mind your relative's ages. My older brother is currently dating a woman who is older than our mother and father. I mean, if it works, it works, but... That's kind of creepy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Neighbor Posted March 21, 2019 Group: Worthy Ministers Followers: 18 Topic Count: 951 Topics Per Day: 0.35 Content Count: 13,566 Content Per Day: 5.03 Reputation: 9,045 Days Won: 6 Joined: 12/04/2016 Status: Offline Birthday: 03/03/1885 Share Posted March 21, 2019 18 hours ago, porton said: I am 38. What is the best age of a girl to marry to? Hmm, is it perhaps the age of the woman that will have you? Seems that might be best. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
other one Posted March 21, 2019 Group: Worthy Ministers Followers: 29 Topic Count: 597 Topics Per Day: 0.08 Content Count: 56,106 Content Per Day: 7.56 Reputation: 27,838 Days Won: 271 Joined: 12/29/2003 Status: Offline Share Posted March 21, 2019 22 hours ago, porton said: I am 38. What is the best age of a girl to marry to? Somewhere between 22 and 61 .... depending on the attributes, attitude and spiritual condition of the girl. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Who me Posted March 21, 2019 Group: Royal Member Followers: 5 Topic Count: 17 Topics Per Day: 0.01 Content Count: 3,299 Content Per Day: 1.72 Reputation: 1,685 Days Won: 0 Joined: 01/27/2019 Status: Offline Share Posted March 21, 2019 On 20 March 2019 at 1:31 PM, porton said: I am 38. What is the best age of a girl to marry to? The brutal answer is if your not married now and want to be married, then any girl who will marry you. May I suggest some common sence. Can you explain and defend your Christian faith? Can any girl you are interested in? Are you secure in your job, saving well for a pension, have your own home? Is she in a good job with savings etc? Do you have the same views on sex outside marriage, abortion and lgtb ie its all wrong? have a read of this blog, follow the links to sinilar articles and use the search function to look for other articles:-https://winteryknight.com/2009/08/31/the-rules-for-friendship-and-courtship-between-christian-men-and-women/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missmuffet Posted March 21, 2019 Group: Royal Member Followers: 34 Topic Count: 1,991 Topics Per Day: 0.48 Content Count: 48,689 Content Per Day: 11.81 Reputation: 30,343 Days Won: 226 Joined: 01/11/2013 Status: Offline Share Posted March 21, 2019 On 3/20/2019 at 6:31 AM, porton said: I am 38. What is the best age of a girl to marry to? There is no specific "right" age for a woman to marry. It all depends on many different situations. What is more important is that the couple both be born again Christians and not unevenly yoked. That God is number one in their marriage. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xethea Posted March 22, 2019 Group: Advanced Member Followers: 4 Topic Count: 11 Topics Per Day: 0.00 Content Count: 262 Content Per Day: 0.12 Reputation: 57 Days Won: 0 Joined: 02/25/2018 Status: Offline Share Posted March 22, 2019 On 3/20/2019 at 10:19 AM, George said: Forget age ... who the person that is God's helpmate for you? Seek the Kingdom of God and His righteousness ... then all these other things are added unto you. Keep it all in proper perspective ... and life will be much easier! Well, I was going to say the exact same thing overall. But I'll just compliment this response! There can be a reality to a answer what truly is a better age to marry for people, but if that becomes your goal, then you will be doing your will and not God's. Yes, seek Him and his kingdom and all things will be added to you- as in a house, spouse, job, skills, health, etc. That is, added what God wants you to have, I believe, no added just what you want. Because if you are seeking God and his kingdom, you will be wanting what he wants, and doing so, he will gladly add to your life to be glorified through everything in your life. I did this, and God gave me a better spouse than the one i fantasized about! heh Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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