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The best age of a girl to marry to

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It's highly variable! Some people learn life's lessons earlier or later than others and are more willing and able to get their life in order f0r a marriage to work. Trust God to lead you to the right person at the right time and don't forget to pray about it!

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I think this is very cultural as well. I come from India. And now I live in US. What is normal marital age is totally different in these 2 countries! But doctors do suggest better childbearing age. I believe it's late 20's to early 30's. Assuming a person would be interested in having children after marriage, may be that's a good benchmark to consider? All said, an ideal age for marriage is when God brings the person the right partner!

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Just as wisdom and knowledge can be sought at any age, it is also true that it can be forsaken at any age. I have met a fair number of mature young people... And a number of old people who are just a little TOO young at heart. It's not so much a matter of age so much as it is whether she's the right one or not. 

At the very least, I would keep in mind your relative's ages. My older brother is currently dating a woman who is older than our mother and father. I mean, if it works, it works, but... That's kind of creepy.

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18 hours ago, porton said:

I am 38. What is the best age of a girl to marry to?

Hmm, is it perhaps the age of the woman that will have you? Seems that might be best.

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22 hours ago, porton said:

I am 38. What is the best age of a girl to marry to?

Somewhere between 22 and 61  ....    depending on the attributes, attitude and spiritual condition of the girl.

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On 20 March 2019 at 1:31 PM, porton said:

I am 38. What is the best age of a girl to marry to?

The brutal answer is if your not married now and want to be married, then any girl who will marry you.

May I suggest some common sence.

Can you explain and defend your Christian faith?

Can any girl you are interested in?

Are you secure in your job, saving well for a pension, have your own home?

Is she in a good job with savings etc?

Do you have the same views on sex outside marriage, abortion and lgtb ie its all wrong?

have a read of this blog, follow the links to sinilar articles and use the search function to look for other articles:-https://winteryknight.com/2009/08/31/the-rules-for-friendship-and-courtship-between-christian-men-and-women/

 

 

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On 3/20/2019 at 6:31 AM, porton said:

I am 38. What is the best age of a girl to marry to?

There is no specific "right" age for a woman to marry. It all depends on many different situations. What is more important is that the couple both be born again Christians and not unevenly yoked. That God is number one in their marriage. 

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On 3/20/2019 at 10:19 AM, George said:

Forget age ... who the person that is God's helpmate for you?  Seek the Kingdom of God and His righteousness ... then all these other things are added unto you.  :)  Keep it all in proper perspective ... and life will be much easier!  :)

Well, I was going to say the exact same thing overall. But I'll just compliment this response! There can be a reality to a answer what truly is a better age to marry for people, but if that becomes your goal, then you will be doing your will and not God's. Yes, seek Him and his kingdom and all things will be added to you- as in a house, spouse, job, skills, health, etc. That is, added what God wants you to have, I believe, no added just what you want. Because if you are seeking God and his kingdom, you will be wanting what he wants, and doing so, he will gladly add to your life to be glorified through everything in your life. I did this, and God gave me a better spouse than the one i fantasized about! heh

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