How should I respond to this request?

[Figure of eighty]

39 minutes ago, leah777 said:

I give you advice, good advice and counsel, and you give me 'oy vey' You need to start listening to people on here who say things you dont like. Our job, as fellow Christians, is not to say everything is OK if it is not. You ask for wisdom and advice, then are rude to those who post.

Please, take a step back and do some practical and scriptural thinking about your situation.

Im not rude. I just addressed your last post he cant kick me out and i stated why. As for my previous posts, i took everyones advice but im in the waiting process and section 8 and housing takes a while. 

 

Im not rude for explaining. Idk why you would take it that way.

[leah777]

30 minutes ago, Figure of eighty said:

Im not rude. I just addressed your last post he cant kick me out and i stated why. As for my previous posts, i took everyones advice but im in the waiting process and section 8 and housing takes a while. 

 

Im not rude for explaining. Idk why you would take it that way.

Why did you give my previous post an Oy Vey? I am confused.

[Abrielle]

@Figure of eighty,

 

There is a very practical side in requests related to health that turn them into a very simple subject, with a very clear answer.

 

Some requests don't need consulting the past to know the most decent outcome. If a stranger comes to my door and asks me to take him to surgery, i will help. If one of my uncles, who never spoke to me, asked me to take them to the hospital, i would take them. I would avoid conversations, due to some family controversies, but i would leave this episode sure that i had done what i was supposed to do. Surely soon i would even forget about the matter.

 

You may never want to do this for your father, it may be something you don't desire, you probably will be frowning on the way to the hospital, yet, it is what you must do and nothing else mattters: Take your father to the hospital. It is the basic thing to do for any human being. Because he is your father, make sure he has the best treatment they can give, and also: give him the best you can give. He is your father. You will feel relieved once you do this and never think about it again. If you don't take him, this will stick to your mind forever, specially once he is not here with you anymore, and you are more mature.

 

When i was 18, my father had cancer surgery and i had to change his patch daily. I failed to do it one day and to this day this is the last thought on my mind, before i fell asleep: silly 18 year old me, why didn't you change your father's patch? He doesn't even remember, but i have so much remorse, i cannot remember the other days that i changed the patch, but that day i remember absolutely everything. I wonder how many thoughts i will have before going to sleep, once he leaves this world. Not a perfect father, but this doesn't matter at all. We are old enough to understand how much of life is about suffering, we must feel compassion for our parents who are as human as we are, who have been suffering for more years than us, sometimes choosing ways to escape their pain that end up hurting us too. Compassion heals many wounds and brings peace from Heaven.

 

[Figure of eighty]

3 hours ago, Abrielle said:

@Figure of eighty,

 

There is a very practical side in requests related to health that turn them into a very simple subject, with a very clear answer.

 

Some requests don't need consulting the past to know the most decent outcome. If a stranger comes to my door and asks me to take him to surgery, i will help. If one of my uncles, who never spoke to me, asked me to take them to the hospital, i would take them. I would avoid conversations, due to some family controversies, but i would leave this episode sure that i had done what i was supposed to do. Surely soon i would even forget about the matter.

 

You may never want to do this for your father, it may be something you don't desire, you probably will be frowning on the way to the hospital, yet, it is what you must do and nothing else mattters: Take your father to the hospital. It is the basic thing to do for any human being. Because he is your father, make sure he has the best treatment they can give, and also: give him the best you can give. He is your father. You will feel relieved once you do this and never think about it again. If you don't take him, this will stick to your mind forever, specially once he is not here with you anymore, and you are more mature.

 

When i was 18, my father had cancer surgery and i had to change his patch daily. I failed to do it one day and to this day this is the last thought on my mind, before i fell asleep: silly 18 year old me, why didn't you change your father's patch? He doesn't even remember, but i have so much remorse, i cannot remember the other days that i changed the patch, but that day i remember absolutely everything. I wonder how many thoughts i will have before going to sleep, once he leaves this world. Not a perfect father, but this doesn't matter at all. We are old enough to understand how much of life is about suffering, we must feel compassion for our parents who are as human as we are, who have been suffering for more years than us, sometimes choosing ways to escape their pain that end up hurting us too. Compassion heals many wounds and brings peace from Heaven.

 

Youre right. My dad has the same procedure on the 3rd. Im gonna take him and my mom.

Edited October 28, 2020 by Figure of eighty

[Dennis1209]

Believe me, it's very difficult many times for me, especially road rage people on the road. But I do my best with these verses:

Romans 12:21 (KJV) Be not overcome of evil, but overcome evil with good.

Ephesians 4:31 (KJV) Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamour, and evil speaking, be put away from you, with all malice:

As far as not voting; I best be silent and comply with Ephesians 4:31

[JohnR7]

On 10/27/2020 at 10:42 AM, Figure of eighty said:

i just remember how he said he wouldnt take me to my job.

The Bible tells us to honor our parents. This is a commandment with a promise so that it will go well for us. There is no exception if you think they do not deserve it. Salvation is not based on works and being saved is not something we can earn. 

" 1Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. 2“Honor your father and mother (which is the first commandment with a promise), 3“that it may go well with you and that you may have a long life on the earth." (Eph6:2) 

On 10/27/2020 at 10:42 AM, Figure of eighty said:

The antichrist will appear and reveal itswlf despite my vote.

Not true, he does not command you, you command him. You need to know that we are joint heirs with Christ and we have power and authority in him.  There is a battle going on between good and evil and we need to fight that battle. We don't just lay down and let people walk all over us. 

There is a women on YouTube Patricia King that has the best teaching on how we are to declare and decree. Here is one that is less then 3 minutes in length. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QqM8wCfbhdw&ab_channel=PatriciaKing