What to do when God wont remove someone out of your life?

[Figure of eighty]

So im referring to my bf. God warned me about him and that living with him would be bad ..but.

I keep turning him down and down and down. After an incident where he called me out of my name. We have a child together and he's just determined to keep his family together after he messed up. 

He just keeps coming hes extremely persistent. 

 

Im getting to the point where Im about to make up a lie. Bc i dont want to sin with my bf bc i know i shouldnt and have been warned prior. 

 

Idk why he just wont let go

[Guest]

You don't do anything.  God has a plan and after you pray about it, leave it to God's will.

[Who me]

9 hours ago, Figure of eighty said:

So im referring to my bf. God warned me about him and that living with him would be bad ..but.

I keep turning him down and down and down. After an incident where he called me out of my name. We have a child together and he's just determined to keep his family together after he messed up. 

He just keeps coming hes extremely persistent. 

 

Im getting to the point where Im about to make up a lie. Bc i dont want to sin with my bf bc i know i shouldnt and have been warned prior. 

 

Idk why he just wont let go

God is not a genie granting wishes to clean up our lives.

 

The pair of you are responcible for a child. He does not want to abandon his child.

 

So you need to sit down, work out what it is that you have against the father of your child. list the facts, not feelings.

list also his good points.

Then talk with him.

Find out why you are not prepared to marry him.

[DeighAnn]

10 hours ago, Figure of eighty said:

So im referring to my bf. God warned me about him and that living with him would be bad ..but.

I keep turning him down and down and down. After an incident where he called me out of my name. We have a child together and he's just determined to keep his family together after he messed up. 

He just keeps coming hes extremely persistent. 

 

Im getting to the point where Im about to make up a lie. Bc i dont want to sin with my bf bc i know i shouldnt and have been warned prior. 

 

Idk why he just wont let go

That is called 'stalking'.  Call police.  

[Diaste]

10 hours ago, Figure of eighty said:

So im referring to my bf. God warned me about him and that living with him would be bad ..but.

I keep turning him down and down and down. After an incident where he called me out of my name. We have a child together and he's just determined to keep his family together after he messed up. 

He just keeps coming hes extremely persistent. 

 

Im getting to the point where Im about to make up a lie. Bc i dont want to sin with my bf bc i know i shouldnt and have been warned prior. 

 

Idk why he just wont let go

I would run. 

[BibleStudent100]

Step 1:  Since you are not married, you must cease sexual contact with your boyfriend:  (1 Corinthians 6:18-20) 18 Flee from sexual immorality! Every other sin that a man may commit is outside his body, but whoever practices sexual immorality is sinning against his own body. 19 Do you not know that your body is the temple of the holy spirit within you, which you have from God? Also, you do not belong to yourselves, 20 for you were bought with a price. By all means, glorify God in your body.

Step 2:  Do not be hasty in your decision that this is the man you should marry:  (Song of Solomon 2:7) 7 I put you under oath, O daughters of Jerusalem, By the gazelles and the does of the field: Do not try to awaken or arouse love in me until it feels inclined.

Step 3:  Avoid the commonly esteemed advice to "follow your heart" as that is antibiblical:  (Proverbs 28:26) 26He that is trusting in his own heart is stupid.  Why? Because “the heart is more treacherous than anything else and is desperate.” (Jeremiah 17:9; Numbers 15:39) 

Step 4:  Give him time to show his spiritual qualities and use that time to develop your own spiritual qualities as well, such as those mentioned in Galatians:  (Galatians 5:22, 23) 22 On the other hand, the fruitage of the spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faith, 23 mildness, self-control. Against such things there is no law. 

May the Lord bless your efforts  

 

 

 

 

[Figure of eighty]

3 hours ago, Who me said:

God is not a genie granting wishes to clean up our lives.

 

The pair of you are responcible for a child. He does not want to abandon his child.

 

So you need to sit down, work out what it is that you have against the father of your child. list the facts, not feelings.

list also his good points.

Then talk with him.

Find out why you are not prepared to marry him.

I have talked to him. Numerous times.

[Figure of eighty]

1 hour ago, BibleStudent100 said:

Step 1:  Since you are not married, you must cease sexual contact with your boyfriend:  (1 Corinthians 6:18-20) 18 Flee from sexual immorality! Every other sin that a man may commit is outside his body, but whoever practices sexual immorality is sinning against his own body. 19 Do you not know that your body is the temple of the holy spirit within you, which you have from God? Also, you do not belong to yourselves, 20 for you were bought with a price. By all means, glorify God in your body.

Step 2:  Do not be hasty in your decision that this is the man you should marry:  (Song of Solomon 2:7) 7 I put you under oath, O daughters of Jerusalem, By the gazelles and the does of the field: Do not try to awaken or arouse love in me until it feels inclined.

Step 3:  Avoid the commonly esteemed advice to "follow your heart" as that is antibiblical:  (Proverbs 28:26) 26He that is trusting in his own heart is stupid.  Why? Because “the heart is more treacherous than anything else and is desperate.” (Jeremiah 17:9; Numbers 15:39) 

Step 4:  Give him time to show his spiritual qualities and use that time to develop your own spiritual qualities as well, such as those mentioned in Galatians:  (Galatians 5:22, 23) 22 On the other hand, the fruitage of the spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faith, 23 mildness, self-control. Against such things there is no law. 

May the Lord bless your efforts  

 

 

 

 

Yeah he isnt marriage material or i wouldve married him. Im trying to avoid sexual immorality. I messed up yesterday.  

I actually did the whole 1 cor thing and he doesnt match up to it.

Edited August 20, 2021 by Figure of eighty

[Riverwalker]

15 hours ago, Figure of eighty said:

So im referring to my bf. God warned me about him and that living with him would be bad ..but.

I keep turning him down and down and down. After an incident where he called me out of my name. We have a child together and he's just determined to keep his family together after he messed up. 

He just keeps coming hes extremely persistent. 

 

Im getting to the point where Im about to make up a lie. Bc i dont want to sin with my bf bc i know i shouldnt and have been warned prior. 

 

Idk why he just wont let go

God does not control people.  This is something you will have to handle.

I do have to say if you have had a child with him, he is the baby's daddy and he is inexorably part of the baby's and your life.   The situation was created outside of the will of God.  He will help you deal with it. but deal with it you must

[missmuffet]

17 hours ago, Figure of eighty said:

So im referring to my bf. God warned me about him and that living with him would be bad ..but.

I keep turning him down and down and down. After an incident where he called me out of my name. We have a child together and he's just determined to keep his family together after he messed up. 

He just keeps coming hes extremely persistent. 

 

Im getting to the point where Im about to make up a lie. Bc i dont want to sin with my bf bc i know i shouldnt and have been warned prior. 

 

Idk why he just wont let go

If you are ignoring the Holy Spirit and there is a problem. You need to pray to God to search your heart.